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JOI - This Is How I’ll Cuckold You
Are you sure you want a Hot Wife? What about a really dominant Hot Wife?
You need to understand what that would truly mean… As a Domme, let me spell it out for you:
I can be selfish, especially when it comes to sex—so your passions would need to align with mine. By that I mean you’ll need to enjoy watching more than doing. You’ll be watching me with the kinds of men that I prefer, and you know what that means—someone who is MUCH bigger than you.
I can be needy, but you must understand that I’ll be looking to other men to constantly fill those needs. Yes, constantly. I’m talking on a daily basis. Could you handle someone as insatiable as me? Are you stroking your cock right now thinking about me fucking other men on a daily basis, no matter if you’re at home, at work, or with your friends? No thought gets me hotter than knowing I can have it whenever I want it, and guess what sweetheart—I guarantee that your current or future girl, your sweet princess… she feels the same.
I can be moody and not even realize it, especially when I haven’t had a real man in a while—so you’ll need to insist from time to time that I get out there and fuck someone new or call a regular. Better yet, you should learn when to make that call yourself. Can you imagine calling another man to ask him to come over because your girl needs his cock to make her cum? Could you make that call for me? My boyfriend did it on a night when he couldn’t perform to the fullest of his meager abilities. I can personally attest it was one of the hottest things I’d ever experienced, hearing his voice crack as he asked a man with an eleven inch black cock to fuck me for him.
I’ll tire of your orgasms, but I’ll become more inclined to make you cum in non-conventional ways. Think strapons, anal toys, cock sleeves, and if you’re really lucky—I’ll jerk your worthless little cock off while telling you how much I prefer someone bigger and far better in bed. Sometimes I’ll make you jerk yourself off. I make my boyfriend stare at a picture of me sucking on a big black cock, or being surrounded by them. Sometimes I’ll play with his ass while he jerks off. Other times I’ll lay naked in front of him, but I won’t let him touch me—he can only look, jerk, and explode as I tell him who I’m saving my body for.
Do you like watching? Of course you do, but don’t think of it as me “letting” you watch. The fact is, I’ll make you watch. Do you think I’m hoping that my boyfriend loves me while a roomful of men stretch and fill all my holes while he watches? NO. That’s my way of making him understand my personal needs—and reminding him of his place.
I let other men do things I’d never consider letting you do. Just to torture you further, I want you to stare at my tight young body and imagine all those other men whom I’ve begged to fuck my ass—of which there have been many. I’ll let you lick, kiss and worship my ass, but you know your cock isn’t getting close. Sorry, baby, my ass is BBC only.
I won’t always want you to watch, but for those times I might still need you to help me get ready. Do you think you could handle that? Watching your sweet girl get herself all done up for another man? Could you stand that beautiful scent as I get out of the shower all sweet and shaved bare? Would you help with my garter, my panties (if I choose to wear any), or drop to the floor to help with my heels? The cherry on top is I’m going to make you zip up the dress that another man will be unzipping or, if I’m really lucky, ripping apart later?
Are you still stroking? Good boy, but now I want you to stroke it harder.
Most importantly, you’re going to need to love cum—lots and lots of warm, salty, creamy cum. You’re going to kiss my cum-filled mouth, and I mean a passionate loving kiss. You’re going to lick it off my breasts or wherever else it got sprayed. You’re going to spread my legs and drive your tongue deep into my well-fucked pussy to dig out every last drop on those nights I’m lucky enough to get filled to the brim.
Faster now… Stroke that hard cock for me.
Some nights, you won’t have a choice. On those nights, I’ll come home and force you onto your knees as I stand over you—feeding your cum-addicted hungry mouth. Oh, you better believe I’m going to get you addicted to cum. Better yet, and I want you to cum when you read this… On nights when I’m extra “full”, I’ll come home and climb on top of your face or force you between her legs wherever you are, no matter what you’re doing. Whether you’re sitting on the couch, working in the garage, taking a shower, on a phone call, or laying in bed… I’m gonna hold your head and forcefully grind my dripping wet cunt all over your tongue—and I’m going to tell you just how good those other men fucked me, how many orgasms they gave me, and you’re gonna thank me and beg me to go do it all over again.
Now taste some of your own cum for me. I like watching you eat it.
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Why wife sharing/hotwifing?
Wife sharing has definitely been a process for me. A process that has lead to a lot of self discovery and personal growth. It has been one of the most unique and powerful experiences of my life. Its very unusual to me that letting my wife sleep with other men could impact our lives in such a positive way. I would go as far as to say that it has impacted my life to a greater magnitude than hers. The sheer thought of what most would consider betrayal, being not only a positive experience, but an experience that would create a culture inside of our marriage of trust and communication that would lead to a greater sense of closeness and love. It is a bit of a mind fuck, but none the less very true.
However, I feel as though, I have many questions that need to be answered. Questions about myself that I want answered. I mean, am I just a hormone driven man that is into some freaky shit, or is my desire derived of my gentleman nature, or maybe something in between. Why do I like wife sharing and what has it done for me? Why does my wife like the lifestyle, and what has it done for her? What has it done for my marriage? There are just some questions that are obviously going to be multi-layered and are probably going to evolve in the coming years. From what we have seen thus far, we have seen positive growth in both of our personal lives as well as in our marriage.
It is up to us to create a marriage that we both love. It is our responsibility to each other to create a marriage that enriches both our lives. Happiness takes many forms, and there are many ways to achieve happiness. The most important part of our wife sharing lifestyle, is that it is not something we need to be happy. There are plenty of other ways for us to be happy. Our marriage doesn’t lack anything, so as far as the marriage goes, we don’t need to add anything to it to make it satisfying. Things were really good before we got into the lifestyle, and we couldn’t imagine our relationship going to another level, everything felt really good. So why mess with a good thing, right.
It wasn’t easy for me to ask my wife if she would like to sleep with other men. I mean the notion of asking your wife to sleep with other men just seemed crazy. Crazy enough that I often felt broken. I knew my wife was an open minded person, but still I wasn’t sure if I was ready for it or if she was ready for it or if our marriage was ready for it. I also at this time didn’t know that there was a wifesharing or hotwife lifestyle out there. I seriously thought I was all by myself and that I just had a really strange kink. I grew up super conservative, so I had my own conscience working against me for over a decade. I just kept burying it deeper inside of me.
It wasn’t very long after we started dating that I had a dream about her being with another man. That dream had really turned me on, though I never brought it up to her. Then I started occasionally fantasizing about it, but always felt guilty about the fantasy. I know I dropped hints about wanting her to be with another man sexually, but I never pushed them. I at this time was not ready for it, that was for sure. It wasn’t for about 12 – 13 years into our relationship that I realized I was finally ready for it. We were at a point that things were more natural. No more toxic friends. We figured out what kind of people we wanted to have in our lives, we had all the children that we wanted, we had grown passed all the immature growing pains, and we were just in a really content place in our lives. Most importantly our marriage was bullet proof.
So I was trying to tell her for months, it may have been over half a year that I just finally blurted it out in the car on our way back from a weekend get away in the mountains. I was probably a bit awkward about it, but I said “I think I want to see another man fuck you”. She only said “okay” in a quiet not so sure what to say kind of way, I could tell she was short of breath and at a loss for words. I continued on to explain to her that I think it’ll be just a one time thing. Just something I thought I needed to get out of my system. Well that conversation started a lot more conversations. Over about a years worth of conversations to be exact. We talked about rules, and boundaries, we talked about each others fantasies. We saw sides of each other we had never seen before. This broke down nearly any wall left in our lives. We trusted each other like we never trusted before. The communication was amazing. It spilled over into all parts of our lives. We were living some sort of dream marriage.
This started as a kink of mine. One that I was embarrassed of, but my wife was very accepting of it. Not ever judgmental of me in any way. One may say, well she is the beneficiary of the true benefit here, and that being she gets to play with other men sexually, so of course she was accepting. While this is true, she never just jumped on board and took the fantasy and ran away with it. She considered it carefully, and she also considered and suggested that I find women to sleep with. So that door is open for me, and I do consider my options, believe you me. So even though this was born of a kinky pleasure, it has grown into something so special. It has increased the frequency of sex and flirting. It has made us emotionally closer. “She loved me enough to be faithful to me, but I loved her enough to want something more for her” - anonymous.
So the question, why do I like wife sharing? Or better stated more specifically. Why do I want my wife to fuck other men? A decade ago up to about a couple years ago, it was about a very specific kink that I wanted fulfilled. One that I thought if I saw it, I could move past it and go onto having a more stereotypical male fantasy. Well the accepting and non-judgmental nature of my wife is actually what turned it into something I (we) want to do long term for now. It became so much more than just getting off for me. It became another way to tell my wife I loved her. Another way to tell her I trusted her. Another way for me to spoil her. While it still turns me on, it also takes us to a level beyond other marriages around us. I see people suspicious of infidelity in their marriages. I see marriages dealing with insecurities and immaturaties. Marriages that lack trust and communication. I see that wife sharing would likely break these other marriages as well. It make me realize that my wife and I have something very special. We are dedicated to making our marriage work. No part of this lifestyle should ever effect our marriage negatively as long as we communicate honestly and openly.
So therefor I want my wife to fuck other men because it allows her to experience her sexuality in a variety of different ways. A woman’s sexual capacity is enormous, and no one man can peel back every layer of her sexuality. It takes many different personalities to peel back different layers. She deserves to experience that. I also want her to fuck other men, because I believe she deserves it. To give her a break from being a spouse, mother, and successful professional in the work place. I believe she has earned a good dicking and some time where she doesn’t have to think about anything other than just getting dicked really hard. Just letting her stress and inhibitions go. I also want her to fuck other men for my own selfish reasons. She comes home horny and I want to reclaim her. She is my personal pornstar and takes videos and pictures for me. I really enjoy helping plan her dates, give her some in-site as to what he may want, as well as helping her choose outfits and under garments.
In return, after the heat has died down and normal life takes its reigns again. We go through our day to day routines with a refreshed mind set. A refreshed closeness and love that helps keep things in perspective. Some people have different ways of achieving this same result, as do we, but for now I am only talking about the one peculiar thing we added to our marriage that made such a profound and uplifting shift in our relationship with each other that it is worth discussing and exploring.
As far as what this does for my wife and how it effects her. I think it effects her in a very similar fashion as it does me. Some of the differences are that she can flirt and play with other men with my full knowledge and support and not worry about judgment. She doesn’t have to worry about competing with other women, because honestly she is my fantasy. So I don’t really pursue other women, but when I do, I also do it with her knowledge. She also sees the genuine trust that has been magnified by this lifestyle. She has told me that she wants to add more men to her variety, but for now things are good the way they are. She can have as many lovers as she wants to as long as it doesn’t disrupt our marriage or our lives. She has my full support in exploring her sexuality. We live a very monogamous existence with each other, with the exception that sexual infidelity is allowed with the full knowledge of each other. Some would say that, that would automatically define our marriage as that of an open marriage or some sort of non-monogamous relationship. I simply don’t don’t see it that way and don’t really try to gravitate to defining it to particular words or groups. As far as we are concerned, we are monogamous in nature and we consider our marriage monogamous with benefits.
For anyone that would be skeptical of the lifestyle choice or of anything that I have had to say. I would applaud their skepticism. The choices we made were made cautiously and with much deliberation. We did not rush into anything and met the lifestyle choice with our own skepticism. The lifestyle is not for the many, it is for the few. I only hope it is viewed with an open heart and open mind. Just know that elevating your marriage can be found in the oddest places. There is no specific formula that works for everyone. Just be aware that it is through trusting each other and communicating with each other that anything may be possible. Even in this specific lifestyle we have made compromises with each other to make it work for us.
“My wish for you is that this life becomes all that you want it to. Your dreams stay big, and your worries stay small. You never need to carry more than you can hold, and while you’re out there getting where you’re getting to. I hope you know somebody loves you, and wants the same things too. Yeah, this is my wish’. ~ Rascal Flatts
The Artful Throbber
I saw the definition of a Cuck and I have to agree with it. The old definition of a cuckold man was a woman that fucked other men with or without her husband's knowledge. Most of the time it was without her husband's knowledge and she was considered a whore.
The definition for a cuckold man has changed a lot. It now means that a cuck is a man who knows that his wife is fucking other men and the husband is either there watching her fuck them or he is waiting for her to return home. Either way the Cuck knows, approves and gets off on his wife fucking other men. She is no longer considered a whore for fucking more than her husband, she is considered a hot wife who likes dick.
Most of the time a woman will make her husband a cuck because he either has a small dick that doesn't please her or he doesn't last long enough to take care of her sexual needs. A lot of times it is because they have a tiny little dick and can't last long.
I made my husband a cuck because he has a little dick and I just want to have more than one dick in my life. I mean the same little dick year after year gets old.
Like if you have made your husband a cuck and repost with why you did it.
Telling my boyfriend about my past adventures
So my boyfriend has been asking me about the best sex experiences that I had before him. I have shared a few experiences with him this past week while we have been having sex and one time while I was giving him a handy.
I’ll start by saying that he is by far the best I have been with and definitely the wildest.
That being said, l used to work at a Quicksilver store when I was in highschool. Upon closing the stores, I would always flirt with Rudy who was very built and an incredibly attractive man. I had a boyfriend at the time but Rudy was persistent.
In time, my relationship started going down hill and I got more friendly with Rudy at work. He took this as a sign that it was OK to be more aggressive with his moves and would often slap my as when I was folding cloths and whatnot. I was enjoying the attention I was getting and would let him get away with it.
One day I was wearing a normal length skirt and he boldly reached under to slap my bare ass while we were closing the store. Well I was wearing a thong but he got all cheek and squeezed. I felt his large hands with his FIRM grip on my ass and it turned me on. I playfully slapped him and continued folding.
As we were finishing up, I saw him towards the back of the store reaching up to hang a shirt so I reached around him, giving him a soft slap and grip over his crotch.
I was surprised at how much “material” I got a hold of. My eyes widened and my breath rapidly picked up.
My intention was to get back at him for all the times he slapped my ass. I managed to studder, “how do you like it when I do it to you?”
He replied, “feel free to do that whenever you please. Plus I think you liked it.”
“You would say something like that, idiot,” I playfully said as I walked away.
I couldn’t help but keep thinking about what I felt. How big was he? Was it completely soft? Was grabbing my ass turning him on?
By the time we put the alarm, I had convinced myself that I had to see it. So there I was devising a plan.
Since it was late, it was custom when closing that the men would walk the women to the car. It was dark and the lot was empty, plus there have been reported incidents I’m the past.
As we got to my car he leaned in to hug me goodbye. I separated myself a little and swung my arm between us reaching for his crotch again. I actually missed and readjusted my aim. Jiggling his crotch, I asked, “so what have you been hiding in there, huh?”
I could tell he was shocked by my actions so I broke the silence and said, “I’m not going to lie, I was kind of impressed by what I felt at the store. I couldn’t stop thinking about it.”
His cocky response confirmed that I was going to have to investigate as he said, “when you feel almost 9 inches in your hand, you might be even more impressed.”
I figured he full of shit so I responded, “9 inches, B.S. prove it.”
“See for yourself,” he said.
So I grabbed him by the belt buckle and pulled him towards the open car door. I undid his belt and sat at the edge of the seat. I pulled the sipper down and undid the button. Slowly I peeled down both his boxers and jeans revealing a growing masterpiece of a penis.
I could feel the wetness building up between my legs and my thong was getting moist.
I pulled the jeans half way down his thigh and his cock rested over his scrunched jeans. He reached for it and pointed it upwards as it continued to grow. At this point I was looking at about 7 inches right in front of my face. A beautiful looking penis too. It was thick and proportionate.
He broke the silence when he said, “I know it’s not like anything you have seen before but if you don’t close your mouth, I’m going to have to put it in.”
With that, I looked up into his eyes and with a smile, I opened my mouth wider.
Here we were in the parking lot outside of the store and his cock was slipping passed my lips and into my drooling mouth. My tongue flicking around, exploring the taste.
I grabbed hold of its base and felt it grow to its full 8 (maybe 8.5) inches. I sucked on his cock from all angles and could barely fit half in my mouth.
After about a minute, I let go and stepped out the car. I opened the back seat and led him in by his cock. I leaned back and spread my legs. He climbed right over me and I started rubbing his dick right over my clit covered only by a lace thong.
My breathing was heavy and so was his. I needed him. I needed to feel what this was like inside of me.
I kept fiddling with the hem of the thong trying to slide his cock under them and he hooked the side and lifted it up. The gap allowed me to move his cock inside my panties and I started rubbing my bare clit with the bottom of his members head.
I remember my legs shaking and me sliding him up and down my slit. He was covered in my juices and I let him linger over my hole. He started pushing in as he spread my legs apart. About an inch was in when he asked if I had a condom. I told him I was on the pill and he gave the sexiest grin. With my hand still wrapped around, we managed to fit in about 6 inches.
Now he was reaching parts that have never been explored. The feeling of fulness was unexplainable. I remember my mouth going dry and my eyes rolling back. I was so close to cumming when his 8 inches were finally all the way in and his pelvis pushed down on my clit. He pumped for another minute or two while I got closer but he lost his cool and started cumming DEEP inside me.
I hadn’t cum yet so I reached down for my clit and started rubbing and tugging on it as he kept releasing inside of me.
He pulled back and watched me as I started to cum. As my pussy tightened, his cum started leaking out so I cupped it and used it as lube to roll my fingers over my clit. This sent me over the edge and I started shaking under his weight.
I could smell the cum in the car mixed with my juices as I continued to erupt. Finally I let my hand slip out my panties and layed there with my eyes closed.
He mentioned that I was the hottest thing he had ever been with and how much he loved watching me do that.
I told him I should get going and he got his pants on and left.
On my way home, I scooped the dripping cum on my fingers and tasted everything that leaked out.
When I got home, my boyfriend gave me a call telling me he was on his way to hang out for a little.
I didn’t have time (or energy) to shower so I stayed as I was and changed into my pajamas and a new pair of panties.
When my boyfriend got there, I could tell why he was so eager to come by. He was horny and he immediately greeted me by shoving his tongue down my throat. I kept thinking to myself that he was now tasting Rudy’s cum. He didn’t mention anything about the taste.
As we layed in bed spooning and watching movies, he reached under the elastic of my shorts and panties and started fingering me. He slid in without any resistance and commented that he had 3 fingers inside me. Honestly I didn’t notice he was using more than normal but this was all turning me on. I had been a naughty girlfriend and he had no idea. Moreover, it was turning me on more. I moved his hands and rolled over on top of him.
I yanked his shorts down and took him in my mouth, remenicing about Rudy. I strutted him that night and took my second load. He commented on how wet I was but he never found out about Rudy. We broke up two week later but not before two other sessions with Rudy.
The end.
The part about my boyfriend when I got home was not true. I continued making that part up for my boyfriend @SharedGirlfriend since I knew he would get a kick out of that. Other than that, everything else is completely true.
Absolutely love this story! Real life experiences are the best…keep them coming!
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Which Types of Sex Do You Like the Most on Tumblr? (Katie & Paul Want to Know!)
We love knowing what makes our followers tick–what gets them turned on, what causes them to linger and read our post and get naked vs. move onto the next one.
We wish Tumblr had a “vote” option so we could poll you all (like, c’mon Tumblr & Survey Monkey, combine forces, imagine all the fun one could have with sexual exploration with thousands of followers!)
In lieu of that, and because Katie has spent waaaay too much time today creating generic corporate clip art flow diagrams, we quickly had posited the above to get reactions from followers. Namely, of the 9 great types of sex that we like to focus on (Solo Acts of Naughtiness, Couples, Lesbians, FFM 3-Somes, MMF 3-Somes, FMFM 4-Ways, Gang Bangs (or is it “Gangbangs?? Katie & Paul debated on that one, but Katie liked the extra space visually), Reverse-Gang Bangs, and Orgies).which is your absolute favorite?
And don’t be wishy-washy and give us the answer of “Oh Katie & Paul, we like all spectrum of sexual activity, the point is to keep it varied”, yes we know that, but we are having fun playing a game where if you could only choose one thing to really focus on Tumblr tonight, which of those 9 great acts would it be?
We helped you out by giving you 9 great descriptions above, arranged by Katie using blandly middle of the road person icons (look, if we posted all kinds of actual erotic imagery, you might not answer this post back, and that defeats the purpose lol!)
Answer us in any way you see fit–post a comment to this posting (easiest, and while you are at it, kindly re-blog!), or message us at GroupSexIsFun.tumblr.com . We’ll tally up the votes and use that to drive a future top 10 list! (But really we just want to know what really turns you all on!)
–Katie & Paul, GroupSexIsFun.tumblr.com
So let us know of the 9 types of sex above, which is your
favorite?
Suggestive Dirty Talk Options
I find that the biggest obstacle in dirty talking is how to start it. That first thing you break the ice with. It can feel a bit awkward at first, but you’ll quickly get the hang of it. I’m a big fan of something I call the and then what technique. Basically you just start with a rather innocent question or statement and then evolve into the next natural thing that would happen. So you say something, and then pretend someone asks you “and then what” and then you answer that question.
So let’s pretend for a second you’re on top of your man, riding him cowgirl style and you want to spice it up a little.
Simply starting with a “you like the way I fuck you?” Is enough to break that awkward ice. He’ll answer yes of course. And then what? “then imagine how Mark (using names of actual guys you know works amazingly) would feel if I fucked him like this”
And then what?
“I would bounce up and down his cock just like this. He’ll get to feel how tight your wife’s pussy is”
And then what?
“then I want him to….”
You get it.
Reliving the past
My husband is very much into hearing stories about guys I used to fuck so this one is his favorite type of dirty talk. The way it goes is when I give him a handjob, blowjob or even ride him, I would say something like “you like the way I stroke your dick?” (asking if he likes it is always a great way to break the ice and initiate dirty talk without feeling awkward). This always gets me a very enthustiastic “YES!” to which I answer something like “this is exactly how I used to stroke [name of guy I used to fuck]’s cock…” (pause for dramatic effect) “except… His was a lot bigger than yours”. This line alone is usually enough to almost bring him over the edge, and if not it’s a great way to go into more details - how did it feel to stroke a much bigger dick, would you do it again, perhaps the guy used to get so horny that he would fuck you before you could finish the handjob, etc. Details, details, details, I can’t stress it enough.
Fair warning: not everyone is into hearing about your past! Make sure your husband is into that before springing this on him.
The commentator
This one is super easy because you don’t feel like you’re talking dirty, you’re just saying what’s on your mind. So the way it works is to watch porn with your man and simply make comments about the movie playing. Particularly about the guy and what you like about him. Compliment his dick, go into details about what you like about him, think out loud like “I really wish I could get fucked like that one day” / “look how big his dick is. He would make me cum so fast with that”
If you’ve fucked someone who reminds you of the guy, by all means tell your husband about it. Watching a porn with a guy who’s fucking some girl senseless and hearing your wife drop the bomb that the guy is the exact same size as some dude she dated in college is a sure way to make your husband look at the porn and all he will see is you being fucked right there on the screen. Very hot for both of you.
The yes ladder
This is a really simple but very effective technique that is easy for new dirty talkers and is guarantueed to drive him crazy.
In a nutshell what you do is ask him some questions that all leads to a yes. With each question the intensity in what you’re asking increases. There’s something crazy hot about this almost confessional way of talking dirty and being “forced to admit” your deepest fantasies. This is a great way to get yourself going, and to test out boundaries.
Optional: let him know ahead of time that you’re going to ask him questions and if he says no just once, he don’t get to cum. See what he’s willing to say yes to - just remember these are forced and horny yesses expressing what he likes in the heat of the moment. They don’t necessarily count in real life.
Example of a yes ladder.
“you like this huh”
“would you like it if i did this to another guy?”
“would you let me pick any guy i want?”
“what if i want a guy who’s bigger than you, would you allow that?”
“do you want him to fuck me hard?”
“what if he makes me cum really hard, can you handle that?”
“what if he makes me scream out his name, can you still handle it?”
“can I fuck him right here in our bed?”
“would you allow me to fuck someone I’ve dated before?”
“even if he really knows how to fuck me good?”
“what if I want him to fuck me while you wait in the other room, will you do that?”
You get it, just continue like this. Make the questions increasingly more provocative and test his boundaries, maybe even cross them if you know he can handle it.
The O-bomb
This method works extremely well if you’ve been teasing and playing with him for a while, keeping him right on the edge and he’s SO close now that you can make him cum any second.
All there is to it is asking him “do you want to cum?” he’ll answer yes almost pleading. And that’s when you drop the O-bomb. The O-bomb is some of the blue thought you put into his head and force him to cum to before he can even react.
For example: he just said yes he wants to cum. You then say “good. I want you to cum while you think of me cumming all over (name)’s big dick” and then you simply force him to cum before he even gets a chance to react. As he’s cumming you keep feeding him the thought over and over until he’s done. “yes, cum while you imagine how he makes me scream” etc.
The story
My personal favorite. One thing is to talk about imaginary stuff that could maybe some day happen. Another is to talk about stuff that actually already happened simply by telling him a story about some incredible hot sex you’ve had, either because the circumstances where hot, because the guy knew what he was doing and fucked your brains out or the guy happened to be seriously hung.
This is also super simple for you because you dont have to make anything up, you simply just tell what happened and describe the situation.
Don’t worry about elaborate descriptions or anything. Trust me he’ll ask you to elaborate when he hears something he likes. Just describe what happened and how it felt for you. Especially the “how it felt” part is very important.
The talk
Now in the safety rules i told you to talk about what he likes and dislikes without touching him so his arousal won’t reflect his answers. This time you do the exact opposite. Simply have a conversation about what he likes while slowly touching his dick. There’s something really hot about just talking while casually stroking him. And you’ll be able to measure his response simply by the way his dick throbs, which is incredibly hot.
How to start it: just casually ask him a question about his likes and as he answers you slowly start touching him while asking him more questions.
The close your eyes and imagine
Sometimes it can be a lot easier if your husband can’t see you when you talk dirty.
Example:
“close your eyes. Do you like my hands on. Your dick? Now imagine i was doing this to another guy. Stroking his big dick just like this. I would be so turned on knowing it isn’t you. My pussy would want to feel him inside me. Imagine how he would push me down and fuck me. Imagine how i would gasp when he starts to stretch me. How I would scream when he goes deeper than you.”
Do you see how the above also make use of the and then what technique to tell the next part of the story?
Putting it all together
Now, I know reading about it and actually doing it is two very different things. When you’re first starting out I actually advice you to plan out your dirty talking. This might not be as sexy and spontaneous, but while you’re still getting the hang of it it’s nice to be a little prepared so you don’t run out of things to say. I would also advice you to start off doing it while giving a handjob, as you will have a much easier time focusing on what to say than if you were giving a blowjob or having sex.
Let’s break the ice with an innocent “do you like the way it feels when I stroke your cock?”
When he says yes I would then say something like “good…. Now close your eyes” wait for him to do it.
Then: “would you like it if I did this to another man?” - “yes”
Then: “you know, [name of ex / bull / fantasy guy] used to love when I stroked his dick. Of course his was a lot bigger than yours, I could barely close my hand around it”
Then: “do you like that, thinking about how I used to stroke his big cock?” - “yes”
Then: “having that big cock in my hands always made me feel so tiny and horny”
Then: “do you want me to show you how I used to suck him?” - “yes”. Then put all your effort into giving the best head you have ever given.
Then: “mmh… Can you imagine how good his cock must have felt in my mouth? I used to suck him just like that until he came in my mouth”.
By now he should be getting pretty close, so it’s time put on the finale. Ask him “do you want to cum?” - “yes”. Start stroking him faster.
“tell me…” - make him say that he wants to cum.
“I want you to cum while you think of me getting fucked by [name]. He would always make me cum so hard. Imagine how I used to scream his name” - if you really want to go all out you could start moaning the name of this other guy, whether that’s your bull, an old fling, your husband’s friend or who ever you like to fantasize about.
Do you see how easy it flows from do you like it, to imagine it’s someone else, to describing how you used to do or would do it on someone else?
With time it will come naturally and you won’t have to plan ahead, but to begin with it’s nice to have an idea of how you want to start it, how you want to end it and how you bridge that gap.
There you have it. My secrets to driving your husband wild. Now go… Make him lose it.
Hell yeah 😈😈😈😈😈
Fuck YES!!
YES!!!
Hotwife Lifestyle - Understanding Our Man’s Hotwife Fantasy and How to Use That to Our Advantage
The fantasy of having a “Hotwife” is growing, in fact, research shows it is growing at a higher rate than a good majority of the other lifestyle alternatives, including the old staple of “swinging” and the modern “open relationship”. Why is it that a fantasy that revolves around only one part of a relationship – the woman – going out and finding pleasure from another man more intriguing to an increasing number of men than going out and “getting some” for himself?
Basic psychology tells us that men are highly competitive creatures. They have a drive to compete with other males of the species for the best mate – this isn’t so much different than what happens in the animal kingdom. Most men have an innate drive to compete with other men when it comes to the “best mate” or the “most attractive woman”. With this being said, one of the reservations of most women who find out about their husband or partner’s Hotwife fantasy is that he is somehow “weaker” than the rest because he wants to give up his position as your only partner. Is this really true, though? Could the truth lie somewhere within today’s man’s loss of natural competition in everyday life, and a desire to maintain a level of competition after marriage or “monogamy”? Is this weakness, or rather the ultimate confidence?
Cuckholding aside, because this aspect of the fantasy requires a bit more in terms of a “woman led” relationship, and a bit more from the man in terms of a desire for mental sadomasochism, a good majority of men enjoy the idea that they have been able to “capture” the best mate and even when she’s out having amazing physical and emotional experiences with men who may have qualities that actually supersede their own – a better body, a larger cock, youth, more prowess in bed – their woman actually WANTS to come back to them at the end of the night. While most Hotwife-Husbands do get some level of turn-on from the jealousy and the possibility that their Hotwife may actually be enjoying their dates more than they enjoy being “at home”, the overwhelming desire is the competition and the “win” in terms of having a wife who chooses them again and again even after being allowed to go out and have other men.
As Hotwives, we may be the focus of the fantasy, but there is that deeper and more psychological desire of a man who, even after committing to one woman, is able to compete with other males sexually. This is why the desire for “reclaiming” a Hotwife after a date is so strong – it’s actually been scientifically proven that men who are able to reclaim a partner after she has been with someone else have an increase in testosterone levels, which means stronger desire, more powerful erections, longer lasting erections, and an overall stronger sex drive. So, what does this mean for us as Hotwives?
He Enjoys the Jealousy, Go with It
As women we’ve learned that inducing some jealousy can actually be a good thing when it comes to dating – before we’ve found our “person”. We use our female prowess to keep the men who we are seeing guessing…why? Because they seem more interested in us when it seems as though we may not be 100% there. So, if this works in the dating world, why wouldn’t it work once we’re married? In contrast, women typically don’t respond as well, or in the same way to jealousy – we tend to worry, question, and sometimes shut down if we feel that he might be “just not that into us”. Naturally, because of our own feelings on the matter, we tend to avoid making our men jealous once we’ve committed to them, because we, ourselves don’t want to feel as though we’re in constant competition with other, more attractive, sexier, younger, etc., women. Why would we do something to the man that we love that we, ourselves, would hate?
For men, though, and especially those with Hotwife fantasies, jealousy is a big component and tool for us to keep our men hot and bothered. Sometimes just the mere mention of being flirted with by that cute guy at our favorite restaurant, or our interest in the sexy personal trainer at the gym is enough to send our men into a sexual frenzy. It doesn’t take a lot to feed the fantasy. It’s not ALL about dates and recounting how well we got worked over in the bedroom (and how much we loved it), though that is the ultimate turn on for our men, it’s also about the little things – the mention of our interest in someone else, the sexy messages that we send to potential lovers or Bulls, the “tease” of how much we loved what our last Bull did for us and how much we’re looking forward to doing it again. Remember, this ignites the “competition” element of things, which is natural for men.
The More You Enjoy it, the More He Enjoys it
You may be thinking, “But I’m doing it for him, I’m not doing it for myself” (a common theme by A LOT of Hotwives), but in reality, our men WANT us to enjoy our encounters. They want to hear about what this “other guy” did for or to is that sent us over the edge, and yes, they want to hear what we liked better about the “other guy”. I know it seems crazy, because we don’t want to imagine our men, even if we did allow them to be with other women, thinking that their “others” were better, sexier, hotter or had something that we don’t. That’s because we don’t have that “competition drive” like our men do.
Let’s face it, despite what our men tell us – “It’s all about your pleasure” or “I don’t get anything out of it unless you’re enjoying it, because I love you so much” – this isn’t some ultimate “unselfish” thing our men are doing for us. These things come out of their mouths, but what they are really saying is “I want to know that you came three times while he was fucking you, and you STILL want to come home to me”. It’s their kink, and we have to understand it.
So, if you’ve actually taken the step into the world of Hotwifing, you’re going to have to learn how to properly tease your man into believing that, just maybe, your Bull was better than him in some ways. Whenever you think “But I’m only doing it for him”, follow that us with “I’m doing it for him and he WANTS to know that I absolutely enjoyed it”. Find some aspect of your encounter that was mind-blowing, and recount, in great detail exactly what it was that sent you over the edge. This may require a little bit of embellishment, and that’s OKAY…trust me…embellishment is your friend in this situation. Tell your man about your Bull’s amazing cock, how good if felt, how good he tasted, how fantastic he was at oral sex, etc. These are the things that will ramp up that competition streak in your man and make him want to reclaim you with increased vigor and desire.
The More You Want Someone Else, The More Your Man Wants You
Again, you’re playing on the competition and the teasing aspect of things here… The more that you act as if you WANT to be a Hotwife, the more that your husband or partner is going to WANT you. His desire for you is going to skyrocket, his sexual desire for you is going to make it so that he’s ready to chew his own leg off to get you back in bed. I have experienced this firsthand many times…if I am completely honest about an “encounter” and admit to “D” that my Bull was lacking in some way, or I didn’t quite “get there”, he isn’t nearly as turned on as when I tell him about how amazing things were. I don’t like or believe in lying, but I do advocate for being selective and stretching the truth…maybe your lover wasn’t the best at giving oral sex, but maybe he was an amazing kisser, so a good answer would be “he was amazing with his mouth” and leave the rest up for interpretation.
We’re women. We are strong and capable and we are smart. And the truth is, this is a GAME we are playing for and with our husbands/partners, so we need to get our heads into the game. Furthermore, this is an intellectual game, and we need to use our intellects to get to where we want to be. Where do we want to be? We want to have a husband/partner who is absolutely drooling over us, believes we are the ultimate sexual goddess, and in is jealous enough to realize that in order to “compete” they will need to step up their own game in order to “keep” us satisfied – be that with amazing sex, extra romance, other rewards, or all of the above.
Happy Hotwifing!
-S
This is 100% accurate. An excellent account of hotwifing from a woman’s perspective and sums up perfectly why many men are into the fantasy.
WOW! You hitt ther nail on the head! This is a very big part of my feelings….
Don’t let the fantasy consume you.
The Hotwife / Cuckold fantasy is one of the fastest growing fantasies out there.
More and more men are finding the thought of their wives and girlfriends sleeping with another man arousing for a large variety of reasons.
This post is not about why men want this or why women should do this. This post is about the respect your wife or girlfriend deserves, whether she decides to go along with your fantasy or not.
I see post after post from men asking how they can convince their significant other to have sex with other men, but you also need to know how to handle it if she doesn’t want to have sex with other men.
My wife knows about my fantasies and agrees that the idea is hot, but she has not agreed to act on the fantasy in real life. I love my wife and would never force her to do anything she is not comfortable with. So far my wife teases me about having a boyfriend and lovers, as well as some light MFM role play in the bedroom. While I hope that it goes farther one day, I am also okay if she stops here.
You can’t let this consume you or get in the way of your relationship. If you love and respect each other, then you have to also respect each other’s boundaries. Don’t get mad or upset id she says she only wants to be with you! What a great honor to have a woman who loves you so much that she is willing to forsake all others.
The bottom line is she is your wife or girlfriend, not a piece of meat for you to whore out.
Please love each other and share your journey together. No one should ever be forced to do something they might come to regret. They will resent you for it in the long run. That resentment will be a cancer in your relationship.
Thank you for letting me have my soap box moment.

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This is one of the best posts I’ve read about woman… Please read it completely… it’s worth it…
WOMAN… … …
When God created woman he was working late on the 6th day…….
An angel came by and asked.“ Why spend so much time on her?”
The lord answered. “Have you seen all the specifications I have to meet to shape her?”
She must function on all kinds of situations, She must be able to embrace several kids at the same time, Have a hug that can heal anything from a bruised knee to a broken heart, She must do all this with only two hands,“ She cures herself when sick and can work 18 hours a day”
THE ANGEL was impressed" Just two hands…..impossible!
And this is the standard model?“
The Angel came closer and touched the woman” “But you have made her so soft, Lord”. “She is soft”, said the Lord, “But I have made her strong. You can’t imagine what she can endure and overcome”
“Can she think?” The Angel asked… The Lord answered. “Not only can she think, she can reason and negotiate”
The Angel touched her cheeks…. “Lord, it seems this creation is leaking! You have put too many burdens on her” “She is not leaking…it is a tear” The Lord corrected the Angel…
“What’s it for?” Asked the Angel….. . The Lord said. “Tears are her way of expressing her grief, her doubts, her love, her loneliness, her suffering and her pride.”…
This made a big impression on the Angel, “Lord, you are a genius. You thought of everything. A woman is indeed marvellous”
Lord said.“Indeed she is. She has strength that amazes a man. She can handle trouble and carry heavy burdens. She holds happiness, love and opinions. She smiles when she feels like screaming. She sings when she feels like crying, cries when happy and laughs when afraid. She fights for what she believes in.
Her love is unconditional. Her heart is broken when a next-of-kin or a friend dies but she finds strength to get on with life”
The Angel asked: So she is a perfect being? The lord replied: No. She has just one drawback “She often forgets what she is worth”.
In praise of women everywhere
Always a reblog
In honor of the gift of babies. 🎀 💋
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Tears…..
Wow,,,,,
Love this.
So beautiful.. literally made me tear up. Women are amazing! ❤
Forever a reblog ❤❤❤ Such an incredible post.
I don’t have kids but this is soooo u
No words to say…..🙌
Very impressive, but so sad that I acanthus not write such things on woman…
Hotwife Lifestyle - Understanding Our Man’s Hotwife Fantasy and How to Use That to Our Advantage
The fantasy of having a “Hotwife” is growing, in fact, research shows it is growing at a higher rate than a good majority of the other lifestyle alternatives, including the old staple of “swinging” and the modern “open relationship”. Why is it that a fantasy that revolves around only one part of a relationship – the woman – going out and finding pleasure from another man more intriguing to an increasing number of men than going out and “getting some” for himself?
Basic psychology tells us that men are highly competitive creatures. They have a drive to compete with other males of the species for the best mate – this isn’t so much different than what happens in the animal kingdom. Most men have an innate drive to compete with other men when it comes to the “best mate” or the “most attractive woman”. With this being said, one of the reservations of most women who find out about their husband or partner’s Hotwife fantasy is that he is somehow “weaker” than the rest because he wants to give up his position as your only partner. Is this really true, though? Could the truth lie somewhere within today’s man’s loss of natural competition in everyday life, and a desire to maintain a level of competition after marriage or “monogamy”? Is this weakness, or rather the ultimate confidence?
Cuckholding aside, because this aspect of the fantasy requires a bit more in terms of a “woman led” relationship, and a bit more from the man in terms of a desire for mental sadomasochism, a good majority of men enjoy the idea that they have been able to “capture” the best mate and even when she’s out having amazing physical and emotional experiences with men who may have qualities that actually supersede their own – a better body, a larger cock, youth, more prowess in bed – their woman actually WANTS to come back to them at the end of the night. While most Hotwife-Husbands do get some level of turn-on from the jealousy and the possibility that their Hotwife may actually be enjoying their dates more than they enjoy being “at home”, the overwhelming desire is the competition and the “win” in terms of having a wife who chooses them again and again even after being allowed to go out and have other men.
As Hotwives, we may be the focus of the fantasy, but there is that deeper and more psychological desire of a man who, even after committing to one woman, is able to compete with other males sexually. This is why the desire for “reclaiming” a Hotwife after a date is so strong – it’s actually been scientifically proven that men who are able to reclaim a partner after she has been with someone else have an increase in testosterone levels, which means stronger desire, more powerful erections, longer lasting erections, and an overall stronger sex drive. So, what does this mean for us as Hotwives?
He Enjoys the Jealousy, Go with It
As women we’ve learned that inducing some jealousy can actually be a good thing when it comes to dating – before we’ve found our “person”. We use our female prowess to keep the men who we are seeing guessing…why? Because they seem more interested in us when it seems as though we may not be 100% there. So, if this works in the dating world, why wouldn’t it work once we’re married? In contrast, women typically don’t respond as well, or in the same way to jealousy – we tend to worry, question, and sometimes shut down if we feel that he might be “just not that into us”. Naturally, because of our own feelings on the matter, we tend to avoid making our men jealous once we’ve committed to them, because we, ourselves don’t want to feel as though we’re in constant competition with other, more attractive, sexier, younger, etc., women. Why would we do something to the man that we love that we, ourselves, would hate?
For men, though, and especially those with Hotwife fantasies, jealousy is a big component and tool for us to keep our men hot and bothered. Sometimes just the mere mention of being flirted with by that cute guy at our favorite restaurant, or our interest in the sexy personal trainer at the gym is enough to send our men into a sexual frenzy. It doesn’t take a lot to feed the fantasy. It’s not ALL about dates and recounting how well we got worked over in the bedroom (and how much we loved it), though that is the ultimate turn on for our men, it’s also about the little things – the mention of our interest in someone else, the sexy messages that we send to potential lovers or Bulls, the “tease” of how much we loved what our last Bull did for us and how much we’re looking forward to doing it again. Remember, this ignites the “competition” element of things, which is natural for men.
The More You Enjoy it, the More He Enjoys it
You may be thinking, “But I’m doing it for him, I’m not doing it for myself” (a common theme by A LOT of Hotwives), but in reality, our men WANT us to enjoy our encounters. They want to hear about what this “other guy” did for or to is that sent us over the edge, and yes, they want to hear what we liked better about the “other guy”. I know it seems crazy, because we don’t want to imagine our men, even if we did allow them to be with other women, thinking that their “others” were better, sexier, hotter or had something that we don’t. That’s because we don’t have that “competition drive” like our men do.
Let’s face it, despite what our men tell us – “It’s all about your pleasure” or “I don’t get anything out of it unless you’re enjoying it, because I love you so much” – this isn’t some ultimate “unselfish” thing our men are doing for us. These things come out of their mouths, but what they are really saying is “I want to know that you came three times while he was fucking you, and you STILL want to come home to me”. It’s their kink, and we have to understand it.
So, if you’ve actually taken the step into the world of Hotwifing, you’re going to have to learn how to properly tease your man into believing that, just maybe, your Bull was better than him in some ways. Whenever you think “But I’m only doing it for him”, follow that us with “I’m doing it for him and he WANTS to know that I absolutely enjoyed it”. Find some aspect of your encounter that was mind-blowing, and recount, in great detail exactly what it was that sent you over the edge. This may require a little bit of embellishment, and that’s OKAY…trust me…embellishment is your friend in this situation. Tell your man about your Bull’s amazing cock, how good if felt, how good he tasted, how fantastic he was at oral sex, etc. These are the things that will ramp up that competition streak in your man and make him want to reclaim you with increased vigor and desire.
The More You Want Someone Else, The More Your Man Wants You
Again, you’re playing on the competition and the teasing aspect of things here… The more that you act as if you WANT to be a Hotwife, the more that your husband or partner is going to WANT you. His desire for you is going to skyrocket, his sexual desire for you is going to make it so that he’s ready to chew his own leg off to get you back in bed. I have experienced this firsthand many times…if I am completely honest about an “encounter” and admit to “D” that my Bull was lacking in some way, or I didn’t quite “get there”, he isn’t nearly as turned on as when I tell him about how amazing things were. I don’t like or believe in lying, but I do advocate for being selective and stretching the truth…maybe your lover wasn’t the best at giving oral sex, but maybe he was an amazing kisser, so a good answer would be “he was amazing with his mouth” and leave the rest up for interpretation.
We’re women. We are strong and capable and we are smart. And the truth is, this is a GAME we are playing for and with our husbands/partners, so we need to get our heads into the game. Furthermore, this is an intellectual game, and we need to use our intellects to get to where we want to be. Where do we want to be? We want to have a husband/partner who is absolutely drooling over us, believes we are the ultimate sexual goddess, and in is jealous enough to realize that in order to “compete” they will need to step up their own game in order to “keep” us satisfied – be that with amazing sex, extra romance, other rewards, or all of the above.
Happy Hotwifing!
-S