♡sugar♡

you stay inside all day? you have no concept of the real world? you have no idea what’s a normal, well adjusted thing to say? you’d probably melt into a puddle if someone even pet your head? you have some frankly harmful and strange ideologies? you spend a lot of time jerking off and have ‘gooner’ shit everywhere? i want you so bad. come here. i don’t even want to fix you i want to make you worse, like a pet project

radqueer means acceptance and respecting each other. that INCLUDES accepting and respecting that someone is taken. sending sexual or flirty asks to people who are taken and not interested in flirting is the OPPOSITE of that.

there is nothing cute or quirky about disrespecting people who are in relationships. there are many MANY single radqueers as well as open polyam folk on here who are fine with flirting. go flirt with them. taken people are not just "playing hard to get", they are people who are in committed relationships, and as supposed members of this community, you are to fucking respect that.

also yes i am genuinely upset about this. this has been an issue in the community since i got here at the start of 2024 and i am beyond confused as to WHY this bullshit hasnt been fixed. it has happened recently to my boyfriends, and now im seeing it happen with a mutual of mine, and its probably still happening to many others!