astro loser

aries: hard to get to know. easily hardened as soon as they get hurt. not accepting of love unless they truly trust you and you have been around for a while.

taurus: shuts themselves away in a room for hours before they ever admit anything is wrong. will suddenly have random bursts of sadness not knowing where it came from.

gemini: will automatically assume that everyone is out to get them. is almost always putting way more effort than needed into relationships and friendships.

cancer: just want to be loved. they will do anything for anyone regardless if they are receiving it back. very oblivious to the dangers of other people.

leo; wants to act like they have everything under control even when they’re emotionally dying inside. very fierce with they way they love.

virgo: just want to be there for everyone and gain love and respect. sometimes they get too caught up in trying to be the right person when in fact they already were, before they starting trying so hard.

libra: very intelligent but sometimes refuses to show it because they’re modest and don’t want to show off. very intense lovers.

scorpio: known for their temper, they’re actually immaculate softies. they just know how to get what they want and how to stand up for themselves.

sagittarius: you wanna know how to communicate your emotions? look no further. wanna know how to care about literally every individual you come across? they’re the expert. it can come across as tough love, but they have your back.

capricorn: loud, but usually the life of the party. they make the best of friends, and even after years of not communicating, they’ll feel like home when you come around again.

aquarius; usually the most beautiful humans in the world but have the actual worst luck when it comes to love. definitely the biggest happy crier. 

if Aries were

an Earth sign instead they would be a Capricorn - forges a presence, setting high challenges for themselves and follows the compass of aspiration, aims to embody the highest version of themselves and live up to their name - and this is the ultimate victory 

an Air sign instead they would be Gemini - quick, swift, sharp, and mischievous in mind, every day is an opportunity to learn and this occurs at rapid speed

a Water sign instead they would be Cancer - a child left at home in the dark, defensive and unsure of where the battle is taking place - within or outside 

if Taurus were

a Fire sign instead they would be a Leo - luxuriate me, relish in me, adore me, and keep me safe on the throne of devotion 

an Air sign instead they would be Libra - lover of love, creator and maintainer of beauty, compassionate and genuine, strongly appreciates the presence of the people in life 

a Water sign instead they would be Cancer - at home in the comfort of the things and people they love, security conscious and maternally protective, stubborn and immovable 

if Gemini were

a Fire sign instead they would be an Aries - personality of possibility, impulsive action to satiate curiosity, wages a war using words as the sharpest weapon, fountain of eternal youth

an Earth sign instead they would be Virgo - slay with wit and a slicing intelligence you don’t expect   

a Water sign instead they would be Pisces - dual, chameleon, the trickster full of riddles, absent minded intelligence

if Cancer were

a Fire sign instead they would be a Leo - queen of whatever dwelling they are present, demonstrative to receive the needed emotional response, protective of the vulnerable, inexplicably resilient  

an Earth sign instead they would be a Taurus - maternal, nourishing, security minded mother, in touch with physical body, hungry moods

an Air sign instead they would be Libra - the dreamer of dreams, the romantic artist, compassionate and dependable, also dependant on being needed 

if Leo were

an Earth sign instead they would be a Capricorn - constructing a future fit for royalty and conquering the obstacles, battling the Prince of Darkness within, making an impression in the world 

an Air sign instead they would be a Libra - enamoured by romance, giver and receiver of love, tell me the good things about myself so i know who i am

a Water sign instead they would be Cancer - protective guardian, an emotional theatre production to receive desired response, resilient and remarkable in the face of high challenge - especially when involving the safety and wellbeing of others

if Virgo were

a Fire sign instead they would be a Sagittarius - critique and harsh appraisal are not from a self-righteous and callous position but the ‘truth’ to ‘help you’ 

an Air sign instead they would be an Aquarius - some strange and interesting things happen inside that brain box head

a Water sign instead they would be a Scorpio - have you ever seen a Virgo murder you with words of knives, deep and private intellectual investigator, hidden

if Libra were

a Fire sign instead they would be a Sagittarius - either constructs, maintains, or is above the law, interested in connecting with diverse people and soaking into new cultures and ways of life

an Earth sign instead they would be a Taurus - seeking the ultimate luxury of sharing the finest fruits and wines of life, their best selves and resources with the ones they love the most 

a Water sign instead they would be a Scorpio - absolving into an ego and selfless state in the intimacy of complete surrender and vulnerability to forge a true, soul centred relationship, but they could also be a Pisces, they could be either   

if Scorpio were

a Fire sign instead they would be a Sagittarius - perish everything but truth, solo-prophetic journey in search of answers to the questions that continuously burn inside the mind 

an Earth sign instead they would be a Capricorn - the focused discipline and unrelenting desire to succeed, disciplined and intensive desire for self-development and capacity to master inner demons and sickness

an Air sign instead they would be an Aquarius - the mysteriously complex and private mastermind that follows seduction of the unknown and vanishes from the conscious world completely

if Sagittarius were

an Earth sign instead they would be a Taurus - enjoying all of the fine fruits and on the material paradise, finding the secret sanctuaries and melodies in mother earth, in touch with natural timing and the rhythm of earth/natural creativity, stubborn  

an Air sign instead they would be an Aquarius - the sky high crystal clear view of universal truth, relentless speculation and desire to satiate curiosity through experience and filtering personal philosophy, self-righteous 

a Water sign instead they would be a Cancer - voyaging through wherever they are lead and inside and outside of themselves for the place that feels like a home and feeling the extreme of every emotion, also a Scorpio, both - the truth seeking heroine of the heavens 

if Capricorn were

a Fire sign instead they would be a Leo - recognising the value of their presence and purpose confronting every obstacle to reach their aspiration, going into secret combat with the darkness, the Queen 

an Air sign instead they would be a Libra - using astute judgement, discrimination, and intellect to charm, outwit and outplay and negotiate their way to the top

a Water sign instead they would be a Scorpio - relentless solo focus on self-development and personal growth to be at one with their inner power and leave a mark in the world that reflects the highest version of themselves

if Aquarius were

a Fire sign instead they would be a Sagittarius - seeking to merge intuition, speculation, and wonder with rationality, experience, philosophy

an Earth sign instead they would be a Taurus - a wreath of daisies around the head of the one with her free spirit flower child, searching for a nirvana to call home in the paradise of mother earth. Also Virgo in the private investigation into the inner realms of eternal wisdom, the spirit of the Great Mother and eternal library of collective knowledge  

a Water sign instead they would be a Scorpio - limitless genius and single focus minded in the pursuit of absolute truth, private and mysterious, impossible to read, intuitive 

if Pisces were

a Fire sign instead they would be a Sagittarius - searching through every dream, daze, and material detail to return to the place of universal intimacy they vaguely remember, but it feels like home    

an Earth sign instead they would be a Taurus - maternal intuition that responds to everybody in presence, romantic idealist and inspirer, creator, and lover of beauty 

an Air sign instead they would be a Gemini - limitless cosmic substances, spirits, and Gods flow freely through the physical interface and play with the personality creating multiplicity, contradiction and confusion, riddles infiltrated with intuition and wisdom disguised as nonsense

(This is from my perspective as a Sagittarius, btw)

Aries:

Reckless and crazy (for fun)

Just wants to DO something

Low-key sweetheart

Taurus:

Stares

Unreadable

Wants to inform you of everything

Gemini:

Deceptively shy

Easily distracted

May be plotting your death

Cancer:

Crab apple

Loves you a lot but sometimes way too much

Signature awkwardness

Leo:

Says the most outlandish things

Loves sex or just not wearing clothes

Actually a kitten who wants love

Virgo:

Loves movies

Meticulous

Sooooo critical

Libra:

Watches weird shit on YouTube

Has to be right

Always there for you

Scorpio:

Will cut a bitch with that tongue

Doesn’t give a FUCK…

Then cries in secret

Sagittarius:

Unapologetically weird

Wants to be everyone’s friend

No filter

Capricorn:

Has word vomit bc observant af

Indifferent to most things

Always gets things done

Aquarius:

Innovative af

Likes unusual things and people

Doesn’t always listen

Pisces:

Off in LaLaLand 24/7

Gullible

the Mars Signs

All poems are from Dirty Pretty Things by Michael Faudet

Aries ♈︎

Taurus ♉︎

Gemini ♊︎

Cancer ♋︎

Leo ♌︎

Virgo ♍︎

Libra ♎︎

Scorpio ♏︎

Sagittarius ♐︎

Capricorn ♑︎

Aquarius ♒︎

Pisces ♓︎

aries: assertive when they need to be, and they hate when people lie. they’re very quick thinkers, and can get impatient with slower thinkers. they learn better in a fast paced environment, or competitively. they are also quite arrogant at times, and can come off as more aggressive than they mean to.

taurus: they take their time thinking about things. they’re patient, and also very creative. they’re consistent, and also are better at learning things that are more set in stone or that are practical. they usually have pleasant voices, as taurus is ruled by venus. the 5 senses are also a big part in their life and how they think.

gemini: very fast thinkers, can get impatient with people who don’t think as fast as them. they love to learn from a variety of subjects, but because of that have a superficial knowledge of multiple subjects. they are very witty, and can get bored easily. they’re also very restless, and logical, and they are never boring to have a conversation with.

cancer: very emotional, and can be very detailed when speaking. they sense other’s emotions very well, and think with their emotions. they’re usually more quiet, preferring to observe. they always know the right thing to say. they can be slow to respond, and they have an excellent memory. they can also be defensive, because they can be a little sensitive. 

leo: very creative, and great storytellers. they communicate with passion, and very enthusiastically. they’re very opinionated, and can be quite arrogant. they can be authoritative, and very persuasive. they’re boastful, and their excellent at self-expression.

virgo: intelligent, and they always have other’s needs in mind. they’re perfectionists, and are very detail oriented. they’re better at practical subjects, and can be quite sarcastic. they’re very good at what they do, and are very organized. they can also be quite impatient with others who they think are not doing something as good as them. they’re also very critical of themselves.

libra: these people try to avoid conflict. they can usually see both sides of an argument, which may lead them to be unsure of their own opinion. they also tend to be friends with everyone, or a lot of people. they can also be quite argumentative, because they want to correct people’s biases. 

scorpio: very observant, they are very interested in the motivation behind people and things they do. they are ruthless with their words, and almost always win arguments. they are also very passionate, often inspiring others. they can get skeptical of others easily, and can do the most amazing pep talks. they usually know about everything that’s happening, and likes drama that doesn’t include them.

sagittarius: they love to learn about things that are fun. they take big risks, and can be prone to blind trust. they are very open minded, but also quite blunt. they never beat around the bush, and love traveling and other cultures. they’re very philosophical, and don’t really notice details, or even hints that somebody is giving off. 

capricorn: they’re very practical, and can be a little condescending. they don’t like to waste their time with small talk, and are slow and concise. they choose their words very carefully, and they can be very skeptical. they are very productive, and hate when people lie. 

aquarius: very intelligent & intuitive, they can see right through somebody’s mask. they are very friendly & eccentric, and usually have a very different but set routine. they are interested in anything that promises advancement. they usually win debates, and are very observant. they enjoy breaking the rules, and may be prone to forcing their ideas onto others.

*CHECK YOUR MOON AND VENUS SIGNS TOO*

Aries: She’ll make fun of your quirks but secretly fucking adores them, she’ll stick by you through thick and thin but will give you a kick up the ass if you need it. If you’re not giving her enough attention/affection, trust me she will let you know. Like Aries boyfriends can get jealous easily but is less confrontational about it (you’ll know by her face and eyes)

Taurus: She’ll picture you’s two together in the future if you guys are committed. She takes commitment really seriously so if you get it you lucky bruh. She likes sensual things like food and massages but it could literally be as simple as a bag of chips and a back rub. If you promiseher your love you better mean it because she can get hella jealous and possessive.

Gemini: Much like Gemini boyfriends, the girlfriends can be super extroverted in their relationship, she will talk the ears off anyone who asks about you. She’ll be witty and sarcastic with you but in a charming manner and she’ll do things to get a reaction (for example, run off your phone). When it comes to emotions she wont like getting too deep and will probably try and talk her way out of the subject.

Cancer: She thinks A LOT and might worry a lot about the relationship cause she doesn’t want to fuck up so you might need to reassure her a good bit. She can get emotionally jealous and possessive sometimes but only cause her mind can trip her up a bit. She has such a lovely smile that’s simply contagious and she can make you feel so fucking safe and cared for, like she will always be there when you need to talk no matter what time it is. Great sense of humour (blushes at dirty jokes but secretly she fucking creates them lmao)

Leo: She’s the type that’ll make you look at life with excitement. Like a child she finds beauty and happiness in the simplest of things. She’s the type that will dance with you in the back garden at 2am with sparklers. Her laughter is infectious and she loooooooves to tease omg but she knows when you need affection and she’ll give it to you without hesitation. She’ll love to show you off as well like omg ‘’This is my partner and they’re the best person ever like look at this lil shit”

Virgo: SARCASTIC. AS. FUCK. Intellect is a big thing with this sign, if you’re boring her good luck getting some. She loves to be witty and smart assed around you. She’s not very touchy feely but will melt into hugs. She won’t always express her feelings, if you compliment her she’ll probably brush it off nonchalantly or make a witty comment but trust me she appreciates it and you probably just made her tummy do the spinny thing. If you ever get the chance to get into an emotional conversation with her cherish it cause they’re not very common.

Libra: She’ll watch rom coms and give out to you because you don’t do those things for her and then you’ll do them and she’ll be like “Ew cringeeee” but she’ll appreciate it a lot. She’s witty but doesn’t really use it unless she’s pissed off. She’s really caring and also really fair, you have to meet her halfway or she’s not gonna bother with you lol. She’d walk through hell to make you happy if she really cares about you but if you cross her she’ll walk back through hell to make sure karma kicks you in the face

Scorpio: In public she’s soo chill (think Rosa from Brooklyn nine-nine). She’s neither overly affectionate or completely affection-less, she’ll hold your hand and stuff. When it’s just you’s two, she can be really giggly and soooooo dirty minded whether you know about it or not omg. She’ll listen to your problems and try to help you through it. Look after her feelings tho, even though she might not show them, she feels deeply. Oh and if you ever want to slash someones tires she’s your girl.

Sagittarius: She’s the type to romanticise travelling, and she does it so well. Whether she wants to travel the world with you or just 5 miles, she loves to make plans. As a fire sign, she’ll be really fiery when she flirts, she could probably bring you to your knees tbh. She takes NO shit whatsoever so don’t even try to play her. She likes when you two play as a team rather than. She can get bored easily and needs to be occupied.

Capricorn: She’ll probably be hella quiet until you two get close enough for her to trust you with her personality. Not into public displays of affection and likes to keep relationships low key cause they know that people can be assholes. She’s like a living meme generator tbh and has suuuccch a dirty mind omg. Like Cap boyfriends, they keep so much heartbreaking stuff to themselves and rarely ever open up so if they open up to you feel blessed son.

Aquarius: Think of every eccentric disney female character. That is an Aqua girlfriend to a certain extent (depending on their moon). She will ferociously twerk to untwerkable songs and it’ll work??? like idk how it just does. She always tries to make the best of a bad situation and she’ll do the same with your problems. She’ll try to help you grow and develop mentally. She’ll be the one to text you at 3 am like “Babe do you think aliens are real?”. She’ll make really good jokes too (some can be offensive but not intentionally)

aries rising lenses- these rising signs have two, highly contrasting and opposite lenses (they see things in black and white- no grey). the colors are enhanced and bright, but opposite on either side. there’s a reddish tint on both of the lenses however, and they tend to focus on the positive and exciting aspects of life.

taurus rising lenses- taurus rising lenses help the person see the beauty in everything. they’re a green tint, and pinks are enhanced. they exude a sense of calmness and tranquility. these lenses don’t hide the bad however, just focuses on the beautiful.

gemini rising lenses- these lenses are yellow tinted, and are also transition lenses. each setting the gemini rising goes to, their view changes. these lenses help them attain all the knowledge the world has to offer. changeable, fluid, and youthful.

cancer rising lenses- cancer risings have blue lenses, a somber and soulful view of the world. the lenses help them see the souls of others and empathize deeply. tend to accentuate their large, moony, eyes. sees the world in emotions.

leo rising lenses- orange and golden lenses allow the leo rising to exude confidence and elegance. see the world as a place to perform, everyone around them being an audience member. sunsets and bright lights are enhanced.

virgo risings lenses- grey/blue toned lenses. a sobering and realistic view of the world, with an eye for the pain that exists all around them. stands out to only those who choose to see them. sees the world as a responsibility yet also a library.

libra risings lenses- rose tinted glasses quite literally. this rising gives the ability to exude positivity, kindness, and friendliness. ignores and escapes the reality of the world. similar to the taurus rising, focuses on the beautiful.

scorpio rising lenses - deep, purple tinted lenses. sees the world intensely and passionately, with the darker side of life enhanced. tends to see only the harsher side of the world, all the tragedy that exists. exudes mystery.

sagittarius rising lenses- bright green tinted lenses. this allows the sagittarius rising to see every possibility. optimism, luck, and friends are often acquired. they see the world in every variation and in all of its’ diversity. notices and appreciates culture.

capricorn rising lenses- black and white lenses. these make the capricorn rising think they are seeing the world how it really is, but in fact is a highly pessimistic view. exudes restriction, elegance, and wisdom. sharp criticism and ambition.

aquarius rising lenses- neon blue lenses. sees all of humanity with their lenses, and acts as a messenger to the people, bringing knowledge and information at lightning speed. embodies electricity, friendliness, and eccentricity

Aries: A lot of mental activity, thinking too much about what interests them. They could be intellectuals. They may appear calm on the outside, but a tornado is going on inside them. Optimistic, very competitive and impatient. They live for the moment, forgetting all else. That’s the reason they change their mind so easily about everything. Very curious, but opinionated. The Aries moon at it’s worst may blame things on others, unable to take responsibility. However, they don’t hold grudges and are usually kind and easygoing, wanting to do the right thing because they aim to live up to this ideal image they have of themselves, whatever that ideal is. If I had to give some advice to this moon sign it would be: not everyone is out to get you, enjoy yourself, RELAX!! and don’t let your need to be the best, even when you are, poison yourself and your relationships. Celebrities with this moon: Angelina Jolie, Nicolas Sarkozy, Bill Gates, Rihanna. Taurus: Charming, very charming. Has a great sense of humor and loves companionship. They will tell you stories, they will make you feel warm. They may not take criticism well, but who does? They do not like to be rushed into things, they like stability and comfort even when being adventurous. They may enjoy shopping too much. Ruled by Venus, they are romantic and affectionate in love, sometimes possessive, and they chose love over friendship. Depending on the Sun and Venus, this moon can be extremely jealous. But wishing to keep balance they will hide it under a passive aggressive attitude which can cause more wrong than right. They look for the best in people and usually will find themselves giving too much, but their desire to maintain balance will help them stay on track. They look more reasonable than they are. If I had to give some advice to this moon sign it would be: keep shining, but don’t be so proud. Not everything is like you see it. Sometimes it’s OK to fuck up and admit it. Celebrities with this moon: Christina Aguilera, Cameron Diaz, Mother Teresa, Chris Brown, Jim Morrison. Gemini: Absent minded? You bet! However they compensate that through their wit and curiosity. They are versatile and easy going. Even on the least easy going suns a Lunar Gemini will ease up the chart. They mean well, I do believe this, mostly because they are not interested in what other people are doing. They do not get caught up in gossip and do their own thing. They can be irritable and moody, but not usually. They are lazy even though they want to have a hand on everything! They have so much they want to do, but their minds go faster than their power of will. They are nervous thought, and if they have a problem they may not know how to act upon it and feel paralyzed. Gemini moons are fun and very chill. At their worst, Lunar Geminis can be very cold and indifferent. If I had to give some advice to this moon sign it would be: you are capable of anything if you work! You are not alone… And look around more, be warmer. Celebrities with this moon sign: Barack Obama, Vladimir Putin, Alyssa Milano, Jennifer Lawrence.

Cancer: are cancers tired of hearing they are emotional? Yes, but it doesn’t make it any less true. Cancer, as a moon sign, is powerful because the moon is the realm of emotions. Being emotional doesn’t mean weak, on the contrary, a Cancer moon has to be strong to be able to feel as they do. And Cancer moons are indeed strong. They are tender and sweet, and a roller coaster of emotional outbursts. They are in touch with their feelings, so much so, sometimes they get too caught up in them, becoming self-absorbed as if their own emotions are the only emotions that matter. What’s the problem with this? That if they are feeling pain they tend to forget the good things in their life and instead of trying to get better, the get lost in self-pity. They have a good memory and a soft heart, even when you least expect it. They do not do well with criticism, they do not take jokes lightly. They love, they love a lot, even through their mood swings. And find it hard to let go. Do not take this moon sign for granted, they are loyal AF. If I had to give some advice to this moon sign it would be: you need to act more and build the future instead of clinging to the past. Celebrities with this moon sign: Taylor Swift, Kurt Cobain, Keanu Reeves, Shakira.

Leo: This moon is outgoing and bright. Yes they need attention, yes they love flattery, yes they can be overly dramatic and yes, as the Leo they are, they do think highly of themselves. And that’s part of the reason they are so successful, they are confident and know they are more than capable of handling anything. They truly are more than capable. They are proud, but have qualities to back it up, and you can’t hate them because they are loving. All that they have for an Ego they have for a heart. They need a lot of love and even though they know they are great, they want to hear it. If you want to cheer them up, genuinely tell them the good qualities you see in them or let them win at a game they love. This is a nice moon to hang around with, a romantic moon, a quick to anger moon, and a moon that won’t try to hurt you, unless you stand in their way. They can be dramatic and get this, they hate drama. They love the whole “nobody loves me” and slamming doors, but oh boy! they‘ll think you are crazy if you act like them. If I had to give some advice to this moon sign it would be: yes, we love you, but do not act so dramatic! Celebrities with this moon sign: Julia Roberts, Mahatma Gandh, Monica Bellucci, Tom Cruise.

Virgo: yes, this whole post was about my perception on the moon signs, but I must warn you I am especially biased about this one… I’ve met so many Virgo moons! Many people I love have Virgo Moons! (I am a Virgo rising myself) And I love them, but we crush. All Virgo moons I have come in contact with were and are… way too… critical. They don’t seem to know you have feelings. They will say nasty comments about your personality, hobbies, clothes… but will get angry at the slightest thing you say to them, and they will over-think it for ages. For even though they are hard on others, they are hard on themselves as well. They do not realize their own defects. However, once they do, they will try to correct them. They also say the good stuff… but not so often. They are sharp and they love a good debate. These people are smart and may involve themselves in jobs that allow them to help humanity. They are not mean or petty, just critical and defensive because they want to make things perfect and be perfect (perfect from their point of view). If I had to give some advice to this moon it would be… yes, you guessed! Watch your words, they cut. No, you are not always right and you don’t need to be. And not because you don’t like something does it mean it’s wrong. Celebrities with this moon sign: Madonna, Dalai Lama, Nicki Minaj, Sean Connery.

Libra: Another very charming moon sign, but unlike their sun sign, the Libra moon person is more secretive. They love love. They are very romantic, it can break their heart. They want to be liked and do not enjoy arguing and outbursts of emotion. They can be superficial and vain, but they are also sweet and peace oriented. They are dreamy, calm, they want to open up, they have a lot in their minds, more so then what they are willing to share. They can be extravagant - for some reason - and quiet. They have a dark side: they can get caught up in their negative emotions but never share it with the world. They might be artsy, bohemian, and proudly so, and they all have a personal sense of style. Whatever they are inside- hippie, hipster, painter, lawyer - they will dress to show it. You can tell a lot about these people from their clothes. They might not be terribly steady in love, sometimes they fall for too many people at once. If I had to give some advice to this moon it would be: there is more than what meets the eye, there’s more than looking for others approval. Celebrities with this moon sign: Leonardo DiCaprio, Justin Bieber, Kate Winslet, Jude Law.

Scorpio: This moon is sensual and dark, this moon wants passion, this moon is romantic and is not afraid of commitment! This moon wants loyalty and is loyal. They are dramatic, very dramatic, like a Leo moon, but without the bright disposition. They are egocentric and at the same time, giving. They hold grudges, but if they love you, you won’t need any reassurance because they will be there showing you. They are hot headed and domineering, they like to feel in control. They are jealous and fear betrayal. They will not put up with your bullshit for too long. They have a strong will and they will get where they want to in life. Do not mess with them. They will not take revenge, but they will not forgive you. They feel a lot, and also expect a lot from others. If I had to give some advice to this moon it would be: chill, chill, chill. Not everything is about you, trust a little more, lighten up! You will be glad you did. Celebrities with this moon sign: Jennifer Lopez, Beyoncé, Miley Cyrus, Katy Perry.

Sagittarius: This moon is curious, careless, optimistic and has a childlike manner to it. They look chill to others. They talk quickly, and are a bit impatient. They are naive, afraid of commitment and dislike restrictions. They need space and personal freedom to be happy. They are carefree and may not always be in tune with others emotions, sometimes they are oblivious to how others feel. They will be there if you open up, but may not be the most empathetic of ears. If things get tough, they will run away. They like to do research and could do well in this area, thanks to their curiosity. They want to explore the world and meet new people, they like talking and can get irritated easily. If I had to give some advice to this moon it would be: Sometimes grounding yourself is needed, sometimes you see more by looking within than by avoiding quietness. It is OK to sit with oneself, don’t avoid things out of fear of working through the rough parts. Celebrities with this moon sign: Albert Einstein, Nicole Kidman, Sharon Stone, Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart.

Capricorn: this moon is closed up. This moon needs to feel productive and they measure their worth through their ability to get somewhere in life. They want money and material things and YET they will cultivate a spiritual side. This moon worries about everything. A woman (or a person with feminine energy) with this moon is loyal and stable, a man (or person with masculine energy) with this moon sign, however, finds it hard to be with one woman because they do not know how to be vulnerable. They have will power and emotional strength, they will give you everything you need if you ask - you’d have to ask as they do not know what people need. This moon cares about their style as well, like the Libra moon, this moon dresses up for the job they want, as they say. They like shopping. They can also be alone for long periods of time, they do not mind being in their room all day. Something most people do not expect of this moon sign is their high sexual drive! They can be very kinky and like to sleep around. This moon is cautious, and doesn’t take risks. They like to know the outcome and will think of all the possibilities before rushing into things. If I had to give some advice to this moon it would be: oh, you, it’s ok to be vulnerable. If you never open up, you will miss your life. Take risks, maybe not always, but do not let love pass you by because of fear. Celebrities with this moon sign: Amy Winehouse, Adolf Hitler, Johnny Depp, Napoleon.

Aquarius: what a witty moon to have. In my opinion, this position makes a person fast, goofy and brainy. They are detached and bubbly, they look not as smart as they truly are. They like attention, but will not give it to you! They are aloof. They care about facts, though. They call it the Aquarian Age for a reason. They want to know things, but will not argue with you if you do not see things as they do. They like to keep their emotions to themselves and do not like to be serious. So maybe, listening to others talking about their problems is not their strength. They just want to chill! If a sarcastic comment is what you need, go talk to them. They care about history and humanity, they want to make a difference. If I had to give some advice to this moon it would be:: care about people a little more, ok? They might need you as much as you need them. Celebrities with this moon sign: Marilyn Monroe, Princess Diana, John Lennon, Conan O'brien.

Aries: they are secretly romantic, great listeners and they are not as confident as they may seem

Taurus: they set high standards for themselves, they are more rational than emotional and they are organized 

Gemini: they are pretty sensitive, unable to say “no” to their friends and they love staying indoors sometimes

Cancer: they are very resilient, extremely complex and they have some of the most diverse sense of humor

Leo: they place others’ needs before their own, they are incredibly clingy and they are really smart people

Virgo: they are up for any adventures, they have intense trust issues and they never forgive

Libra: they are heavily educated/ informed, they notice the smallest details and they aren’t always optimistic

Scorpio: they are super shy and bashful when they first meet people, they are hilarious and all they want is true love and to start their own family

Sagittarius: they are undeniably poetic, they are committed when they find the right person and they are caring

Capricorn: they know how to let loose and party hard, they have contagious laughs and they are compassionate

Aquarius: they are in-tune with their feelings deep down inside, they are charismatic and they forget easily

🐂 you are highly uncomfortable with big changes and will do most anything to avoid them. you often find yourself putting up with unsatisfactory circumstances just to avoid having to make waves in your life

🐂 you love to spend, and love to be surrounded by material items. you often find yourself spending money on things you don’t even need, or may never use, just because having more “stuff” satisfies you. you begin to feel unsettled if you haven’t indulged in a while

🐂 you strongly dislike conflict and detest being surrounded by it. you are the last to mediate fighting friends; in fact, you’ll probably just avoid them until things blow over a bit

🐂 you will stand by your ways and won’t allow anyone to tell you to do differently, even if their suggestions may be helpful. you’d rather do things the old way than the faster way

🐂 you are very romantic and enjoy the finer things in life. you’re the first to make reservations for valentine’s day or host a romantic dinner in your home. your style of loving can best be described as “sensual”

Aries: Aries partners are very straight forward, they don’t like playing games, psychologically speaking. When it comes to being playful in the relationship, Aries’ love it! Whether it’s board games, video games, play wrestling that ends in kissing, Aries. Has. To. Win. If they don’t win first time round I can guarantee there will be a round two. Being the first sign, a fire sign no less, debates can get heated but if it’s a debate about something stupid it’s more or less going to end up in an aggressive make out session. Their fiery personality can make them both hard to handle at times and amusingly challenging at others. They love to challenge you, they feel it’s a practical way to help you’s two bond and secure your relationship. Despite the fact that they come across quite headstrong, Aries’ are easy to get riled up which can leave them vulnerable in a way. When angry, Aries’ temper flashes wildly, without warning and is gone as quick as it came. Empathy is not their strong suit but they’ll try their very best when it’s someone they love. They might get a little uncomfortable if you cry in front of them but only because it breaks their heart to see it. Aries’ are all about passion and they love to make their partner smile and laugh. If you’re not giving them the amount of attention or affection they want they can get grouchy until you notice it. All in all, Aries lovers can be hard to handle but an amazing companion to someone who can either cool down their fire or match it.

Taurus: Taurean partners are one of the most steady partners you can get. They like a stable, easy flowing relationship and will do what they can to achieve one. They are incredibly determined and will do what they can to make their relationship as harmonious as possible. Commitment in very important to them and they are very cautious about who they give it to, I mean REALLY cautious about it. Being one of the most sensual signs of the zodiac, Taurus’ fall quickly in lust, even quicker when it’s with someone they truly love. Ruled by Venus, Taurus’ are suckers for romance, whether they show it or not. Candles, romantic dinners, massages etc. appeal to their senses and can break down their emotional barriers. Because they are so committed and ensnared in their relationship, they can get jealous and possessive quite easily. They might not realise it, but it’s because they’re so emotionally invested in their relationships that instincts kick in and they do what they can to keep what’s theirs. When upset, their rage is often compared to that of a bull, their animal. It builds up over time and when released can be lethal. Do. Not. Betray. Their. Trust. They will never let it go and they might find it difficult to trust you again.

Gemini: Gemini’s, like the other air signs desire intellectual stimulation and is quite witty in their charm. Flirting is a game to them and they always win. They can be quite extroverted in their relationship and likes to make it know that you’re together, they’ll take any opportunity to tell their loved ones about you. They can sometimes be caught between being in a good and bad mood, and further more if there is actually something wrong they’ll mostly try to avoid talking about it. Air signs generally find feelings icky and do there best to keep their distance. It’s not anything personal, it’s just one of their principles whether they’re aware of it or not. If you get onto the topic of feelings and emotions, Gems will normally try to talk their way into a different topic or try to make the situation lighter by adding humour or sarcasm, depending on the partner this could be problematic. Gemini’s get bored quite easily and need a partner that’s willing to try new things with them and can give them a constant sense of excitement of some sort. A partner who can intellectually challenge Gemini appeals to them a lot,because they fall in love with peoples minds. They can be quite cunning when it comes to getting what they want, they may not even notice it because it’s their nature but they need someone who can handle this and keep their ass in check before people get hurt. Overall, very much like Aries, Gems can be a handful but they can open doors for you and make you think about things and question yourself, leading to personal development.

Cancer: Cancer’s are naturally the mothers of the zodiac so it’s no surprise that they are one of the most nurturing partners you could have. They will make you chicken soup when your sick and fail at serenading you when you’re sad (probably because you’ll probably end up laughing). This is the sign that will put everything else on hold to care for and ensure the safety of their loved one. They are incredibly intuitive, being able to tell if a person is upset from the slightest gesture. Relationships are very important to Cancer’s and if there’s any disruption it can cause a knock on affect in other areas of their lives. They’re quite sentimental and nostalgic, the type of partners that would keep memorabilia from a first date and cherish it. Cancer’s often find themselves overwhelmed by emotions and can find it almost impossible to make an intellectual decision without letting emotions come into play. This can be problematic and dangerous to both involved in the relationship. Cancerians can be manipulative when they need to be. They are fully aware of their innocent disposition and can use it to their ability when needed. This sign can encourage emotional growth in their partner but needs someone to keep them grounded and help them snap out of it when needed.

Leo: Leo’s are very proud in their relationships and will take any opportunity they can get to show their partner off. One of the most playful signs in the zodiac, these partners guarantee an enthusiastic and spontaneous relationship, they love to surprise. Leo’s look at the world with excitement and love, and just by being in their company, they can show you the most beautiful aspects of the simplest thing. Their optimism and persistence can bring the relationship a long way. They loves to be adored, whether they admit it or not, it lies deep in their soul simply because they have an air of self belief. When alone with their partner, Leo’s are very warm hearted and affectionate. They show you amazing parts of yourself you didn’t even consider because they have an eye for things like that. They recover quickly from set backs so this can be helpful in a compromise based relationship. Leo’s are generally attracted to people with strong personalities, Sometimes Leo’s can be overbearing with their emotions which can leave their partner feeling a little tired but when with someone’s who’s personality can match theirs, they can be handled. Leo’s very rarely change their minds, once they’re set on something - that’s that, but if you can appeal to their emotional side, persuasion is possible, yet still very hard to do. They can sometimes fall victim to false praise in the desire to look good in front of others. With a partner who can match their fire and not take advantage of them, Leo’s love and energy can be harnessed in a positive way.

Virgo: Virgos are one of the most intellectual signs in the zodiac so relationships without mental stimulus won’t last very long. They’re incredibly witty and sarcastic and they use this to be playful with you. A partner who can connect with them intellectually is one that Virgo’s never get bored off. They like to pick peoples brains and to know why you like certain things. Possibly the most organised of the signs, Virgo is able to keep the relationship moving at a steady pace that suits both partners. Virgo’s have a very powerful sex drive although they tend to keep it hidden to those they’re not intimate with and like the other earth signs can be quite sensual. They can be quite tricky when it comes to feeling and emotions. Virgos don’t like feelings because they find them quite messy and often this causes them to feel torn in a relationship, making falling in love bitter sweet for them. They’re very detail oriented and can sometimes nit pick their partner. They can over analyse the relationship and get themselves into a worried state and make them uncomfortable. They don’t like to open up much because if they talk about their feelings it makes them more real after they’ve spent a big amount of time analysing them out of existence. If they open up to you, tread carefully and try not to get too much out of them, they’re opening up to you for a specific reason and if you try to get more, they’ll shut down again and they may never open up to you again. Virgo’s need someone who will connect with them intellectually, provide them with stability, give them space when they need, be there when they want to open up but not push them into it.

Libra: Probably the most idealistic signs when it comes to romantic relationships, Libra’s can sometimes expect too much rom-com scenarios in their relationships but only with the intention of deepening the bond between them and their lover. Libra’s personality was in some way created for love, it is the sign of balance, partnership and judgement. Librans strive to be fair and just in their relationship and desire harmony in their romantic affairs. Libra’s are great at negotiating and can maintain a harmonious atmosphere in the relationship. They are natural flirters but aren’t as crude about it as some of the other signs. They love the idea of love and falling into it which can sometimes leave them vulnerable to those who might play them. Emotionally, like other air signs, they like to step back from feelings apart from when it comes to romantic love. They’re emotions can get intense when dealing with love and although Librans are generally not jealous people, any sort of threat to their relationship can arouse feelings of inadequacy and insecurity.They can sometimes get selfish in their relationship, wanting it to be perfect for them. With the right partner that can roll with their ideas and can be 100% devoted/loyal to them, Libra’s can provide others with a fair, amorous relationship that never gets unromantic.

Scorpio: Scorpio’s are easily the most secretive signs in the zodiac and can be hard to get to know. In public they don’t show much affection other than hand or waist holding, but behind closed doors they can be completely different. Scorpio’s can often feel torn because even though they need an outlet, needing a partner makes Scorpio feel vulnerable and they like to see themselves as emotionally self-sufficient. Dominance and power in a big thing with this sign, they like to be in control of the situation at all times. They never wear their heart on their sleeves. When in a committed relationship they show just how passionate and erotic they are behind their enigmatic exterior. They feel things so deeply in their souls but you may never know unless they choose to let you in - if they do, you should be honoured. They will empathise with your problems internally, normally not letting you know they sometimes feel the same. They expect absolute utmost loyalty and faithfulness as they provide you with nothing less. If you betray or stray from a Scorpio, good luck getting them to trust you again. They never forget or forgive, even if they pretend they do, and it takes forever, if at all, to get their trust back. They can always see into your heart so don’t bother trying to lie to them. Scorpio’s are best know for their out lash - and rightly so! It’s in their nature to use attack as their defence, their partner needs to understand this and be patient with them. They normally lash out because they feel vulnerable on some level. With a partner that can understand their complex emotions and be patient and stable while they figure themselves out, Scorpios can be one of them most of the most compassionate and encouraging partners in the zodiac.

Sagittarius: Sagittarian’s are one of the most freedom-loving signs in the zodiac and can sometimes become uneasy when it comes to settling down. They love new things so sometimes the thought of commitment can be unappealing however, when in love Sagittarius can bring the spice of life to their partner. They love to flirt, and they’re great at it too. While Aries is passionate in their flirting and Leo is playful, Sagittarius’ are incredibly fiery, the type that will challenge you for the hell of it. Travel is a big keyword with Sagittarius’, they can get bored easily and need something (or someone) to keep them on their feet. A very independent sign, they will not take any shit from anyone and will call you out if you’re acting up. They will not tolerate time wasters. Sagittarius’ don’t enjoy thinking about emotions and much less feeling them. They feel that they’re emotions can hinder their ambition and likes to leave them untouched so don’t expect them to frequently get deep into their emotions because chances are they will change the subject on a lighter note. They tend to lie without really noticing it and can sometimes make promises they don’t keep. It’s not that they disregard them purposely, it’s just they might forget in their pursuit of even more new experiences. For this reason, their partner might need to be able to take the things they say with a pinch of salt. With a partner that can keep up the pace and adapt to Sagittarius’ ever changing interests, not drag them down or put pressure on them to commit too soon, Sagittarius’ can show them the world in a whole new light with wondrous opportunity’s.

Capricorn: Like the other earthy signs, Capricorn’s are normally quite reserved in public when with their partner but when alone (varying on how close they are) they can really let loose. They have an unusual sense of humour which can come across as dark to some. When you know them extremely well, you might get the chance to see how much of a wild card Caps can really be. This sign is one of the most reliable in the zodiac and possess incredible strength of character which can handle strong personalities. They’re often described as the “rock” in the relationship, they can keep the other partner grounded without crushing their spirit. They’re very patient when it comes to other and respect their partners wishes as they’d like to be respected in turn. Their relationships tend to last very long and they take their responsibility in the relationship seriously. They have a very cool demeanour until aroused sexually. They tend to be very lusty rather than love-y, because they’re very careful about love. Capricorns panic when they’re not in control of a situation and somewhat lacks the ability to express their emotions properly. When a Capricorn opens up to you, the things they’ll tell you will break your heart and you must treat that information as carefully as you can because it has taken a lot for the Cap to tell you. With a partner that won’t smother them but at the same time commit to the relationship as much as they do, Capricorns can provide a harmonious, steady and fruitful relationship.

Aquarius: Aquarian partners can be very eccentric and hyper when with their partner - in both private and public! This sign will seek equality in the relationship, to be together as a team. They are the sign known for change and growth, this will be the sign that can easily get their relationship to evolve at a healthy pace. This sign values companionship in their romantic relationship, they enjoy the company of those who they can sit with and question society and existence one minute and do the most random, pointless activity with the next simply because it makes them happy. Like the other air signs, Aquarians can some times be idealistic and will try to sneakily get their own way. Although they may seem detached and not very feeling, below the surface lies conflicting, chaotic emotions. For that reason they need stability, especially in a relationship. Intimacy can be awkward for them sometimes because they’re so independent and they find it hard to express the complex emotions they feel despite their verbal intelligence. However they will sit with you and listen to your woes and try to find a solution, they probably won’t delve into their own problems that often and when they do they’ll finish with “but anyway” and then change the subject so to not dwell on them. With an optimistic partner that can respect Aqua’s need for space, can listen to their opinions and not base the whole relationship off of intimacy and physical attraction, Aquarius’ can learn to express themselves and their ideas better and can give their partner a mind opening experience.

Pisces: Pisceans can be tricky when it comes to love, they fall in love with the idea of love like Libras but are wary of it like Scorpios. Incredibly intuitive, they can always tell when their partner is feeling off just by the way they come into the room. They are probably the most understanding sign in the zodiac and won’t push you into talking if you don’t want to (even if it frustrates them a little). When you do decide to talk about it, Pisces’ are excellent listeners and will provide empathy and validation for your feelings. They know how much emotions can affect people, having felt their own so very deeply and make it their priority to take care of their partners emotional needs. Like the air signs, they tend to be infatuated by intellectual stimulus as long as the other person isn’t being snobbish about it. Though they might not show it, words can hurt them a lot and they tend to take things to heart, even if they know it wasn’t intentional. This sign can be prone to guilt and can be manipulated easily enough. However, they’re just as willing to play the game and can manipulate just as well. They adapt to their surroundings a lot so their emotional state in terms of romance can be a reflection on the state of the relationship itself. They tend to drift between merging with their partner and flirting with other possibilities. With a partner who can be patient with them, understand their emotional complexity and keep them grounded whenever they get second thoughts, Pisces’ can lead their partner to inner contentment and show them that if you look hard enough there’s still good left in the world.

*CHECK YOUR VENUS/MOONSIGNS TOO

Sensual Lovers Prioritize Connection (Taurus, Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces)

Core Belief: “I don’t care about sexual gymnastics as much as I care about my partner being present and emotionally available.”

Key characteristics: Sensual lovers use sex as a way to feel connected to their partners. They’re flexible, kind and generous in the sack, so long as they can feel their partner’s presence. If they’re feeling unloved or disconnected, you can forget about getting into their pants.

Erotic Lovers Need to Feel the Heat (Aries, Gemini, Leo, Scorpio, Sagittarius)

Core Belief: “Sex is only good if it’s passionate and intense.”

Key characteristics: Erotic lovers want Titanic-style hand-against-the-steamy-window intensity during sex. Sometimes it can be hard for them to recognize that there are other ways of having sex. Erotic types can have bunny-rabbit like libidos, but they tend to prefer quality over quantity. They may believe that sex is the most important part of a romantic relationship.

Entitled Lovers Want What They Want (Aries, Leo, Scorpio, Capricorn, Aquarius)

Core belief: “I deserve to get what I want in the bedroom.”

Key characteristics: Entitled types place a lot of value on their own desires and may not understand the notion of compromise. At times, they believe that their desires are more important than the desires of their partners, and they can be pushy or demanding when they don’t get what they want.

Addictive Lovers Have a Hard Time Saying “No” (Aries, Gemini, Sagittarius, Cancer, Pisces, Libra)

Core belief: “I can’t resist any opportunity to have sex.”

Key characteristics: Addictive types can find it hard to turn down sexual advances or opportunities, even if they’re in a monogamous relationship. They can get fixated on the allure of a new sexual partner (but let’s face it, who doesn’t?) They tend to be sensitive to rejection.

Reactive Lovers Put Their Partner First (Libra, Pisces, Cancer, Virgo)

Core belief: “Pleasing my partner is what gets me hot under the collar.”

Key characteristics: Reactive types get off on making their partners the center of attention. In this category into two sub-types: those that genuinely enjoy making sex all about their partner, and those that self-sacrifice their own pleasure as a means to keep their partner satisfied. There’s a big difference!

Stressed Lovers Avoid Sex (Capricorn, Taurus, Virgo)

Core belief: “I want sex, but I steer clear because I worry I can’t please my partner.”

Key characteristics: Most people develop Stressed libido types in reaction to a particularly difficult period in their life or relationship. Things may have been fine before, but somewhere along the line they lost their confidence in their sexual abilities and no longer know what they want. Stressed libido types can feel an enormous amount of performance pressure and anxiety. The old “picture your audience naked” trick doesn’t work here. Some Stressed types feel anxious if their partner tries to initiate any sort of sexual contact.

Detached Lovers Are Reacting to Stress (Virgo, Aquarius)

Core belief: “I’d rather be masturbating.”

Key characteristics: The Detached personality tends to be more temporary than any of the other personalities. Detached types feel sexual desire but just aren’t interested in partnered sex. Their lack of interest is usually a reaction to life or relationship stress, which causes the person to pull away from their partner. Did you cheat on your partner? Yeah, they’re probably not going to be so interested in sex with you for a while.

Compulsive Partners Are All About the Details (Aquarius, Libra, Virgo, Pisces)

Core belief: “I need to have [fill in the blank] in order to get turned on.”

Key characteristics: Compulsive types have specific fetishes and fantasies that they need in order to feel desire. Some Compulsive types like bringing their partners in on the fantasy (having them wear those sky-high heels), while others like to go it alone (chilling with said heels alone).  (x)

aries is an entitled lover who wants a reactive/erotic lover

taurus is a stressed lover who wants a sensual lover

gemini is an addictive lover who wants a compulsive/entitled lover

cancer is an addictive/sensual lover who wants a sensual/erotic lover

leo is an entitled lover who wants a reactive lover

virgo is a stressed/reactive lover who wants a compulsive lover

libra is a reactive/compulsive lover who wants an entitled lover

scorpio is an entitled/erotic lover who wants an erotic/sensual lover

sagittarius is an addictive lover who wants a reactive lover

capricorn is an entitled/detached lover who wants an erotic/reactive lover

aquarius is a detached/compulsive lover who wants an erotic/compulsive lover

Taurus: Exoteric Description: Romantic, material, creative, inflexible, traditional, grounded, desiring   Esoteric Description: The eye of illumination, victorious, nurturer of light, aspiration, lover, visionary, intelligent desire 

Gemini: Exoteric Description: Talkative, messenger, teacher, multiple, unstable, changeable, clever, dynamic, childish Esoteric Description: Revered energy that lies behind every sign, resolution of opposites, dissolver of boundaries between consciousness 

Cancer: Exoteric Description: Moody, unstable, hysterical, maternal, withdrawing, homely, comforting, fearful, dependent Esoteric Description: Master of the emotional realm, magnetising soul into form, Mother of All Forms, sensitized to spirit 

Leo: Exoteric Description: Expressive, dramatic, theatrical, self indulgent, egoistical, childish, demanding, invalidated  Esoteric Description: Soul quality, self realization, heart radiated leadership, God’s will, Festival of Heart and Soul

Virgo Exoteric Description: Assisting, logical, nervous, mentally active, problem solver, critical, virtuous  Esoteric Description: Womb of Time, nurturing mother of hidden reality, Guardian of the Christ Principle, Founder of Matriarch, synthesis of feminine aspects 

Libra Exoteric Description: Lover, idealistic, dependent, social, charming, projecting, harmonizer, self conscious  Esoteric Description: Pristine balance of matter and spirit, spiritual energy on lower levels, Sign of Intuitive Perception, ‘Super Mind’ the mind responsive to the voice of God

Scorpio Exoteric Description: Intense, confronting, compulsive, private, possessive, confrontational, moody, transformative, sign of death, desiring  Esoteric Description: Magnetic energy, Divine Sacrifice, illumination of intellect through soul light, Dweller on the Threshold, transmutation of material desire into spiritual desire

Sagittarius  Exoteric Description: Adventurous, searching, spontaneous, reactive, active, intelligent, comedic, unpredictable, blunt, optimistic  Esoteric Description: The Coming One, controls the negative dweller, early stages of soul consciousness, flies on the wings of the soul 

Capricorn Exoteric Description: Reticent, disciplined, workaholic, obsessive, unrelenting, committed, reliable, mature, old soul Esoteric Description: Sign of mystery, "doorway into life of those who know not death.“, birth of individual Christ, an intuitive sign, soul consciousness in later stages

Aquarius Exoteric Description: Outlandish, shocking, intelligent, unstable, detached, humanitarian, isolated, misunderstood, charismatic  Esoteric Description: Intuitive consciousness, sign of world service, lost in light supernal, Spiritual Soul

May apply to Ascendant or sun as well. Aspects to the sun & Venus matter.

ARIES VENUS

Self-esteem is generally fragile. They seem confident and self-assured, but on the inside, their opinion of themselves fluctuates wildly, ranging from sheer conceit to self-loathing. They need validation from others, and if they’re deprived of that, there can be a lot of anxiety surrounding their value. They judge themselves harshly and it’s difficult to recover from embarrassment.

Self-esteem is increased by victory; coming in first place or being the best; encouragement; feelings of strength, bravery, and capability; independence; proving themselves (especially to themselves); learning from mistakes/defeat.

TAURUS VENUS

Self-esteem is generally steady. They’re humble and down-to-earth about themselves, with a very realistic opinion of their worth. They can have difficulty with feeling secure inside in the beginning of their lives, but once they have a solid grasp on what makes them unique and valuable, nothing can shake their confidence, and they’ll seldom depend on others to define them.

Self-esteem is increased by self-acceptance; surrounding themselves with pleasant possessions & people; being spoiled/pampered; taking time to relax & replenish their energy; low stress; aesthetic beauty; feeling natural/elegant.

GEMINI VENUS

Self-esteem is generally erratic. Their opinion of themselves fluctuates with their mood & the context. They easily become dissatisfied with the state of themselves due to their many various interests, which leads to inconsistent admiration and consequentially inconsistent aspirations. Their confidence relies on the “facts” about their beauty, accomplishments, etc.

Self-esteem is increased by satisfying details; being able to keep up with themselves; freedom to develop & change; variety & constant stimulation; having options; engaging people; being able to express their thoughts.

CANCER VENUS

Self-esteem is generally introspective. Their confidence can be unstable and inhibited, particularly when they’re young, but they tend to be more secure in themselves once they have a good awareness of their nature/identity. Their value must be discovered before they can feel or appreciate it, and it may take a long time for them to do so if they’re on their own in that endeavor.

Self-esteem is increased by support; sympathetic people; reassurance; emotional openness, catharsis; close loved ones, people who are interested in being intimate with them; positive reactions; healthy expression of self.

LEO VENUS

Self-esteem is generally glowy. They radiate confidence and pride; they’re typically secure within themselves, knowing their value & easily sharing it with others. If they doubt themselves, it’s because something external is obscuring their inner light – true self-value shines boundlessly from inside them and it’s invincible once they claim it and learn how to own it intrinsically.

Self-esteem is increased by validation; praise; attention; compliments; popularity; affection; positive, enjoyable experiences; creativity; inspiration; being received well; self-expression; grand gestures of love & adoration.

VIRGO VENUS

Self-esteem is generally weary. They can be extremely insecure, lacking confidence due to trying too hard to be worthy of it. They’re harshly critical of themselves and constantly strive to be beautiful and valuable, which takes its toll on their very essence – they tend to shrink further into themselves the more distance they feel stands in the way of what they intend to be.

Self-esteem is increased by making progress, noticing positive results of their efforts; good health & hygiene; appreciation; acknowledgement; feeling able, organized, and useful; being thanked; admiration; being understood.

LIBRA VENUS

Self-esteem is generally buoyant. Their confidence fluctuates erratically, yet gracefully; the lows are taken in stride and the highs are positively elating. They reflect the opinions of others and tend to take things very personally but they typically convince themselves that their insecurities are silly, and return to airy self-acceptance, which can easily turn into oblivious vanity.

Self-esteem is increased by acceptance; integration; inclusion; positive social interaction; peaceful bonds; being well-liked; having fashionable interests & friends; being talked about; attracting & being interesting to others; romance.

SCORPIO VENUS

Self-esteem is generally all or nothing. They’re very cutthroat in the inner competition to be better than they used to be and they can sink into terrifying depths of self-hatred if they fail themselves. If they achieve what they aspire for, they can become obnoxiously conceited. There is rarely a balance – it goes from one extreme to the other very easily (but it’s not exactly unstable).

Self-esteem is increased by distance or extreme closeness; knowing other people intimately; being mysterious; having an impact on others; loyalty; deep connections; intensity; becoming stronger after being hurt; being guarded.

SAGITTARIUS VENUS

Self-esteem is generally carefree. They always try to let go of their insecurities. This often leads to arrogance and vanity, since they sometimes their desperate aversion to being weighed down by negative feelings can result in being carried away by positive ones. They tell themselves a lot of things “don’t matter” because they don’t want to face the discomfort of low self-value.

Self-esteem is increased by enjoyable distractions; trying new things; adventure; discovery; realizations; feeling wise and untamed; being free to do what they wish & make their own decisions; getting away with bad behavior.

CAPRICORN VENUS

Self-esteem is generally brutal. They lack self-compassion and they’re critical of themselves, but they’re also down-to-earth and pragmatic about their value. Self-hatred motivates them. They use their insecurities to their own advantage, to improve themselves, even if it’s unhealthy or painful. Sometimes it works too well & they become conceited. Other times, they end up hurting themselves.

Self-esteem is increased by success; accomplishments; respect; having influence and authority; being self-sufficient; solving their own problems; having answers; leading; control; wealth; being considered important.

AQUARIUS VENUS

Self-esteem is generally contrary. They’re very concerned with what they’re not and this is how they discover their value – by resisting insecurity & criticism of all kinds and trying to prove the opposite. They do this to positive things too sometimes; they’re essentially playing devil’s advocate when it comes to their value, and that’s where they find equilibrium between the inner & the outer.

Self-esteem is increased by breaking rules; being unpredictable; challenging standards & assumptions; being given the space to openly express & define themselves; changing the minds of others; inspiring others; being a role model.

PISCES VENUS

Self-esteem is generally amorphous. They vaguely absorb both positive and negative perspectives on who they are, and the result is fluid confidence that relies on their emotional state (and the emotional states of those who surround them). They’re typically unaware of the “truth” about themselves so they never feel secure in any opinion they form about their worth/beauty/etc.