Japanese At Heart

Why are people having so much issue with the article, I agreed with it? The title isn’t the most eloquent thing ever but the article wasn’t encouraging cheating, where you go behind your partners back, but instead looking at the issue of cheating as a not black-and-white thing where there’s one horribly evil person who just wanted to have fun/get laid with one traumatized-for-life victim. Instead, like most- nah, let me say with ANYTHING in real life beyond fiction, the article sees the grays in cheating and why the person cheated in the first place. Not to say that cheating isn’t a horrible thing to do, but I feel like people need to understand that there are reasons people do the things they do. People who cheat are human beings. They could feel horrible about it, they could be trapped in a marriage or relationship that they don’t feel they can escape, they can feel insecure and unloved. Again, not to say it’s something you should ever do, but dehumanizing someone over a mistake is just as bad in my opinion. There’s nowhere where they can talk about their experiences, and it’s likely we know a lot of people who have cheated in our lives even if they haven’t (or were too scared) to tell us about it. 

#one of my fave parts about the ‘95 set-up to this scene is Darcy’s slightly panicked dressing room flap  #‘omgomgomgomgomg she’s heeeeeeeeere and i was in my underwear omggggggggggggg’  #‘GETDRESSEDGETDRESSED MUST LOOK GOOD MUST LOOK FRIENDLY AND GOOD AND WHAT COAT WHAT COAT??’  #[valet indicates Wrong Coat]  #‘n-n-n-o THE GREEN’  #‘LIZZIE LIKES GREEN’  #‘AND IT’S MY LEAST ASSHOLE-SEEMING COAT’  #‘QUICK QUICK DO THE SHIRT THING DO THE NECK THING GIVE COAT MUST DO SHE’S HERE SHE’S HEEEEERE’  #[run across the courtyard still buttoning up coat]  #[skids to a stop by the carriage with hair all still mega-tousled and wet from the Lake Incident]  #[throws self at Lizzie’s feet]  #‘NAILED IT.’  (via harrietvane)

sending “I hope you get that job” vibes to the people out here tryna get jobs

reblogging for yall bc the shit worked for me lol

Karma will pop me if I don’t

The year is 2018. Your bills are on autopay. You just got paid and you still have $1200 from the last check. When you want something, you buy it without moving money around. Your credit cards are paid off. You and your friends have 2 international trips planned and paid for this year. Your parents are in great health and you’re able to help if they need anything. You love your job. Your desired creative career is falling into place and you get to take your little cousins to Six Flags and Universal Studios over the Summer. Your relationships are healthy and supportive. All of the toxic energy from the past 6 years is gone. You going to concerts, eating good across the states and your crib has art and warmth throughout. 2018 is going to be so good to you.

In Jesus name Amen 🙏🏾

I need & deserve this energy ✨

This made me smile

A GOOD ROMANCE STARTS WITH A GOOD FRIENDSHIP. A GOOD ROMANCE STARTS WITH A GOOD FRIENDSHIP. A GOOD ROMANCE STARTS WITH A GOOD FRIENDSHIP. A GOOD ROMANCE STARTS WITH A GOOD FRIENDSHIP. A GOOD ROMANCE STARTS WITH A GOOD FRIENDSHIP.

a bad romance starts with “ra ra ah ah ah. ro ma, ro ma ma ga ga, ooh la la”

Reblog the happy chubby cat for a nice weekend and good nights of sleep

I will reblog a happy chubby cat any day

thank you! I couldn’t find that one in google!