SACHIN

Guys, I know swinging sounds sexy, but there is a way to broach the subject.

Keep in mind: Every man is different. Every woman is different. Every couple is different.

The key is: Open. Honest. Communication.

It’s not always easy. Some jump right in. Some broach the topic slowly (we did).

Don’t bring up swinging during sex. This separates fantasy from reality.

Swinging is about trust. Swinging is about communication. Not sex. Sex is an activity you may take part in.

Focus on communication. That means asking questions. That means listening.

Don’t be judgmental. Don’t be jealous. Don’t hold a grudge.

Talk about limits for one another. With time these limits change. Never stop communicating.