Hi :) so..I've been figuring out my sexuality recently and I'm pretty sure I'm gay.how do I ask my best friend for help or even come out to my best friend when she literally hates gay people? 😟
hey anon :)
to be honest if your best friend hates gay people i don’t think she is the best person to ask for help or to come out to first. maybe if you have other friends or family that you can ask for help that would be your best option.
always remember these 3 things though:
wait until you are 100% ready.
if people react badly they are not worth your time but never be totally closed off to the idea that they might just need their own time and could accept it eventually.
and if people react well; those are the people to keep around because they love you for you and you is who you were born to be.
we’re all here for you, i hope everything goes really well <3
- r
You made some really valid points. You don’t want to come out until you are 100% ready and sure of yourself. Also like R said above you need to be prepared for the possibility of people not reacting the way you want however you never know, some people will surprise you in their reactions. So it shouldn’t discourage you, just be prepared for different outcomes :) good luck!
