the thing about being "good with kids" is all it takes is literally just not trying to control and mould them with every interaction. it's just being a normal person and engaging with them through normal interactions like having conversations and playing games. it's just being genuine and friendly and not perceiving them as lumps of wet clay you are there to shape. "oh you're so good with kids" thanks it's because I think they are people

Interested in building a whimsical and peaceful life.

honestly given my parents whole [gestures vaguely] i am actually incredibly well adjusted

being with animals is so healing and joyous…they deserve all the love in the world

bilf (book i'd like to finish)

Saying "no" is allowed, saying "no" is important, no matter how someone might react, it's not your job to make everyone happy and go along with every wish people have. Be ok with telling people no.

"time heals all wounds" WRONG. time is chasing me with a knife

I’m becoming someone who doesn’t abandon herself to keep connection

In your 20s, you'll feel like you're losing the race. It's important to understand that there is no race.