i miss the intimacy of tumblr. i need somewhere to post my insane stoner revelations at 4am.

what are y'all up to here nowadays?? what's the drama? i haven't been here much since the porn ban

yoooo what if tumblr was a paramilitary mercenary group!! we could have squads for all the differb fando

"if i was orpheus i would simply not turn around" yes you would. if you were orpheus and you loved eurydice, you would. to love someone is to turn around. to love someone is to look at them. whichever version of the myth — he hears her stumble, he can't hear her at all, he thinks he's been tricked — he turns around because he loves her. that's why it's a tragedy. because he loves her enough to save her. because he loves her so much he can't save her. because he will always, always turn around. "if i was orpheus i would simply —" you wouldn't be orpheus. you wouldn't be brave enough to walk into the underworld and save the person you love. be serious

If you accidentally hurt someone or cross their boundaries and they make you aware of this, literally all you have to do is apologize and stop. You don't have to beat yourself up internally for months. You don't have to hate yourself for fucking up. You don't have to feel like a horrible person. No one benefits from any of that - and at worst, such an extreme reaction will make the person in question less likely to speak up around you in the future, cause even if your negative reaction is directed at yourself and not at them, it's still unpleasant for everyone involved.

What are your pronouns and would you like to join my union

I’m done w diagnoses there’s nothing wrong w me. I’m just a bit peculiar and eccentric

babygirl I’m on all the spectrums