ruski & Lucy

Lucy - he should be grateful he gets that

Lucy - keep that icky mess inside. best place for it

This is the dynamic what causes the ache in the first place... and makes it worse every time she clarifies her ongoing No.

Lucy - the thought of starting again is just awful to me. keeping on going for longer and longer is so exciting a challenge, I just love it! it's just so rewarding as a couple to work towards something like this together and if hubby makes it to 10 years fully locked I will be overwhelmed with joy and pride. just 4 years to go now...

Lucy - so, so, so, so, so much better!!!

Lucy - we've worked through all of these some time ago. hubby is in total acceptance now and accepts his fate is to remain locked indefinitely

Lucy - yeah just do it! you will both be happy!

Lucy - absolutely no going back now

Lucy - yep all of this

Lucy - simple really. easy for anyone to understand. even a man

Lucy - oh what a day that was! never knew that could happen but a total revelation when it did. no longer worried about how long he stays locked now. don't see any need to ever free him from the cage

Hehehe !

Stefanie Haderlein

Lucy - me too!