For the enema, you can use a fleet bulb right out of the box, but use warm tap water, not the stuff that comes with the enema. That stuff will get your intestines rolling, and that is not what you want for pegging. As an alternative, he can start using “Pure for Men” fiber supplements (the Pure for Women isn’t as well reviewed, ingredients are different, capsules are smaller), or you can just go for metamucil and a bit of flax and chia seed powder (twice a day in an appropriate amount of water and he’ll find cleaning out really easy). That’s really all Pure for Men is.
Plugs are ok, but I recommend rectal dilators. They hold the asshole open. Most of these are either porous or not made from bodysafe materials, so I wrap mine in a condom first. I warm them up with a hot water bath (ice bucket like you find at a hotel, but can order from amazon) which is the best way to thoroughly warm fleshlights, if you want to know. A bit of soothing heat is a nice start. Work up from smallest to the one that is closest to the size of the toy, slowly, lots of lube.
If you use anything but a silicone, glass, or metal toy, you should wrap it with a condom. If you want really easy cleanup, wrap it with a condom.
Use good lube, water based, silicone, or hybrid are your best choices, but some people swear by cocoa butter. Use nothing with glycerine, because it can cause GI motility. Use nothing with parabens (probably not a risk for most people, but they can be irritants, and may be carcinogens). The same way oils will break down latex, a cheap silicone lube and some silicone toys will interact and will ruin your night. Its better to just keep them separate, or at least put a condom on the toy if you really want to use silicone lube with a silicone toy. Hybrid lube is a decemt mix of both, so you might try that.
My favorites are Sliquid Sassy, which is a thick, long lasting, water based lube, and Pjur Eros Bodyglide for a silicone lube. But the real MVP in lubes for the bum is a lube launcher. These are plastic, reusable syringes that you can use to put several milliliters of lube right inside of the rectum, which means that you don’t have to master the two finger chute to get a load of lube inside, because let me tell you, the asshole will act like a squeegee and clean the lube right off your finger as you try to push it in.
One trick to know with water based lubes, you can add more lube, but you can also add some extra water. Water based lubes dry out and that is what makes them tacky. Adding more lube just mixes tacky lube with fresh, so you might want to water down your water based lube with a bit of saliva. And keep your lube warm. Room temp lube can be a bit of a shock and it can make the anus contract, which is not want you want. Again, the ice bucket can be used to warm your lube, or you can squirt a little bit in your mouth, let it warm up, mix with spit, and you have warm, watered down lube that is perfect for an asshole.
Bonus tip for reading all this… If you really want to blow his mind, hold a wand vibrator against the largest dilator (or hell, any plug) at whatever setting makes him happiest. It is the best thing ever. Works for dildos in pussies, too, but for the ass? Wow.
blakekathryn
gracieabrams
baratheonpilled
theartofmadeline
titsay
romaincrisis
yousharknotpass
jacobvanloon
