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HELLLOOOOOOOO????????

this man is too fine for his own good

you can be good to the world and still have boundaries. you can be there for others without abandoning yourself. you don't have to be quiet, agreeable or easy to be loved. you don't owe anyone your energy, your time, or your emotional labor. here will be a guide on opening the doors to peace within you:

GOLDEN RULES ⭐️ :

you're allowed to say "no". this is self-respect in action, not rejection, not being "cold".

your energy is sacred, not everyone gets access. protecting your peace will always be more rewarding than people pleasing.

you're allowed to outgrow connections that no longer align. this just proves that you're growing for the better.

you don't need to be mean to be clear. being direct about your boundaries is the most loving thing you can do for you. confidently say "i'm doing this for my peace" respectfully.

a person who respects themselves teaches others how to treat them. holding boundaries doesn't make you cold, it makes you powerful.

THE EFFECT 🦋 :

before: saying "yes" so others won't be upset

જ⁀➴ after: saying "no" so you won't be resentful

before: avoiding conflict to keep others comfortable

જ⁀➴ after: having honest conversations to honor your emotions and protect your peace

before: people pleasing and striving to feel worthy

જ⁀➴ after: choosing peace and being proud of who you are because you're already worthy

before: changing yourself to be liked and accepted

જ⁀➴ after: showing up as your whole self, unfiltered and unapologetically

you were not born to keep everyone else happy. you were born to live in alignment with the truth, love and yourself. set those boundaries, let it be bold, let it be beautiful, let it destroy anything that does not honor you.

Dress pretty for YOU

Celebrate for YOU

Wake up for YOU

Bloom for YOU

early bedtime

daily walks outside

drinking water like its a personality

staying home

slow mornings

daily routines

prioritizing my nervous system

reading articles

having a full am and pm skincare routine

taking care of my gut health

not wasting money on trends

animals > people

not taking opinions personally

nostalgia

“I would dance until my body gave out, then I would collapse into the earth, and dream of dancing again.”

your body

your skills and talents

your mindset and how you perceive your life

your character

your knowledge and wisdom

your work ethic

your resilience

your discipline

- A message from 23 nights temple -

“When all else fails, sit alone in quiet contemplation late at night, and attachments and doubts will vanish, and wondrous wisdom will emerge.”

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