I think a lot of people are pro-life because they know they would have been aborted, that is secretly their motivation and not actually a misguided interpretation of Christian theology or a belief that life begins at conception. Theyâre say shit like âWhat if your mom aborted you?â like, okay I wouldnât be here, that really wasnât on the table because my parents really wanted me and was on fertility treatments to try to have me. Would your mom have aborted you? Is that what this is all about, you wouldnât have been born if your mother wasnât coerced/forced to carry you to term and give birth to you so you feel like everyone else should be forced to give birth to their annoying baby?
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My mom should have aborted me, too, because she was So Bad at taking care of us when we were little, and my dad was Abusive and Awful, and tbh while either of them might've been able to have kids later and do a halfway decent job, they 100% should not have had kids Together and 1000% should not have started as TEENAGERS.
Also, as an aside for those who still struggle with the idea they wouldn't exist, I just wanna share a theory that I really like, that an acquaintance of mine came up with following a pretty profound spiritual experience, and it's this:
She thinks that when embryos are aborted, the little soul that was getting ready to come down into the baby looks around nearby and finds someone who REALLY wants a baby but can't quite make it happen, and the interest of that little soul changes the luck and fate juuuust enough that a miracle happens and an unlikely pregnancy takes. So. Any unwanted hypothetical baby gets to be a dearly hoped for miracle baby instead.
And that's just really heartwarming? And I wish that had been my life instead, as it was hers.
I appreciate My life, and I love My little Brother and Sister, but all three should have been aborted. Especially Me, considering that the Woman who brought Me into this world was a Minor at the time and I was most likely the byproduct of violence. Same thing with My Younger Siblings, though for Them, They weren't the proudct of violence, but of drugs. The violence came afterwards. All three of Us are still paying for the Sins of the People who brought Us into this world. My Sister and Brother more so than I am, but either way, We all have our trauma because of those People. Thank the Gods that the Men who brought Us into this world are dead. Both of Them were scum of the earth.
Whenever I'm asked about My views on Abortion and wherever or not I'm Pro Life or Pro Choice, I say that while I prefer Life, I will always be Pro Choice. I'm not a fan of Abortion whatsoever, but as Someone who doesn't have the capability to give birth, I feel that My opinion isn't worth much in the long term. I think those who can give birth, or at the very least have the potential to give birth, should always be taken into consideration before Anyone else's views. Also, the health of the Parent giving birth should always be given priority, and that includes the option to terminate such pregnancies. Full stop!
As for My bbelief in the soul of a possible child, a developing child in the womb, I'm a believer in the concept of a complex Soul Matrix. While much of the Soul may already be connected as the Fetus is forming and developing in the Womb, I believe that the Soul isn't fully online and operational until the animating spirit is connected, which I believe happens at the moment a first breath is taken. But that's just My personal belief.
