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hey all, as you may or may not know, I have a condition called guillain-barre syndrome that has caused, among other things, my hands to be partially paralyzed, making typing and using a mouse more difficult and painful. my physical and occupational therapists have suggested I look into getting an ergonomic mouse and keyboard that would be less strain on my hands and wrists, and if anyone can help me do that it'd be greatly appreciated~!

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My mom should have aborted me, too, because she was So Bad at taking care of us when we were little, and my dad was Abusive and Awful, and tbh while either of them might've been able to have kids later and do a halfway decent job, they 100% should not have had kids Together and 1000% should not have started as TEENAGERS.

Also, as an aside for those who still struggle with the idea they wouldn't exist, I just wanna share a theory that I really like, that an acquaintance of mine came up with following a pretty profound spiritual experience, and it's this:

She thinks that when embryos are aborted, the little soul that was getting ready to come down into the baby looks around nearby and finds someone who REALLY wants a baby but can't quite make it happen, and the interest of that little soul changes the luck and fate juuuust enough that a miracle happens and an unlikely pregnancy takes. So. Any unwanted hypothetical baby gets to be a dearly hoped for miracle baby instead.

Whenever I'm asked about My views on Abortion and wherever or not I'm Pro Life or Pro Choice, I say that while I prefer Life, I will always be Pro Choice. I'm not a fan of Abortion whatsoever, but as Someone who doesn't have the capability to give birth, I feel that My opinion isn't worth much in the long term. I think those who can give birth, or at the very least have the potential to give birth, should always be taken into consideration before Anyone else's views. Also, the health of the Parent giving birth should always be given priority, and that includes the option to terminate such pregnancies. Full stop!

• pre- or non-hrt trans people

• genderfluid/non-binary people who want hrt

• genderfluid/non-binary people who don't want hrt

• pre- or non-op trans people

• tall transfems

• short transmascs

• fat/plus size trans people

• fem trans men

• masc trans women

• transmascs who don't/can't/won't bind

• transfems who don't/can't/won't tuck

• transfems with wide shoulders

• transmascs with wide hips

• genderfluid/non-binary people with facial hair or tits

• genderfluid people whose presentation is static but their gender is not

• non-binary people whose desired presentation is how society says their agab should present

• transmascs who bind but still have a visible chest

• non- conventionally-attractive trans people

• non-conforming trans people

• non-"passing" trans people

• non-stereotypical trans people

We don't all fit into cisnormative society's bullshit stereotypes!

Ave Maria Gratia Plena

I'm early-mid twenties, i am def not old, but its straight up scary not being able to find people older and more knowledgable people on BEING fae. Its scary that the resources i can find are either lackluster or obscured by a thick layer of metaphorical dust (with the half-exception of The Silver Elves Wordpress blog, love those elves).

The few other fae ive met are my age or younger and know less than me and i dont know much!! We're kids with no guidance a lot of the time!! Its a stark difference to the canid, felis, otherwise therian, and the other mythos, ESPECIALLY compared to the vampyric and draconic communities!! These are lovely and complex communities - keyword: COMMUNITIES

There are no faekin discord servers i can find, there are little people talking about the SPIRITUAL side of being elfae, and the idea of starting myself is daunting cause i feel underqualified - but we all do!!

Lots of fae are solidary, not out of desire but from necessity. Just like the other Other communities its hard to be Other, but unlike them we are especially scattered.

Yeah, it is frustrating (and weird, for an old fruit like me who lived through different times) that elfae are such a minority now when it wasn't the case 25-30 years ago. The virtually complete merging of the used-to-be-more-separate mythic-otherkin and animal/therianthrope communities had a big impact on that. Or rather, the mythic section got kinda dissolved in something bigger and the term otherkin got applied to the whole mishmash.