My nesting partner is going on a first date tomorrow with someone they've been chatting with on an app and I am SO HYPE for them 😍😍😍
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@potsiefaerie That's awesome! I hope the date goes well for Them!
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My nesting partner is going on a first date tomorrow with someone they've been chatting with on an app and I am SO HYPE for them 😍😍😍
hashtag That Polyamory Feel 🥰
@potsiefaerie That's awesome! I hope the date goes well for Them!

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Regarding Dreamwidth and PillowFort
Well, that was disapointing. Basically, I no longer have access to My old accounts on either DreamWidth or PillowFort, nor do I have any way of retreiving them. So I went ahead and made new accounts for both sites under the same Name I go by on here. I'm not sure what I'll use the PillowFort account for yet, but it's there if I need it for anyway. At least I know what I'm going to use the Dreamwidth account form. I plan on using the Dreamwidth account to primarily journal about the more personal, private, and intimate moments, experiences, etc of My practice through the site's awesome filtering system. I might share some of them with specific friend if They happen to be on the site and ask, but otherwise I plan on privately posting stuff on there that's not appropriate for a public blog setting.
Thank You for linking to Your master list of reviews for Black Phoenix Alchemy Lab. I'll check Them for sure. I don't remember if I asked this before or not, so please don't mind Me if I did. By any chance do You know if They put any of Their Purfumes in Roll on Bottles or not?
Ummm I don't think so? But I'm not sure! Most of them are really concentrated, though, so you'd probably want to dilute them to roll on anyway
@tuiliel Thank You for Your answer. I'll go ahead and ask Black Phoenix Alchemy Lab if They do when I get a moment, but I'll probably give Them a miss if one They don't sell Their Purfume in roll on bottles, and especially if They are that consentrated. My Partner will probably not want to try Them either, if that's the case, as She only gets Purfume in roll on bottles. But thank You for letting Me know!
Okay I was cleaning up my office and realized there were still a couple of bpal imps I hadn't reviewed? So here goes!
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@tuiliel Oh Cool, I need to finish reading the reviews You've posted already. This also reminds Me that I still need to get My Partner some stuff from Black Phoenix Alchemy Lab, as She's obsessed with Perfumes.
Apparently This Blog is Nine Years Old
I just received an email notification from Tumblr that this Blog is nine years old, as of today. I don't have too many feelings or thoughts about this fact at the moment, except that I think it's wild in a way. I mean, this Blog is actually My second Blog here on Tumblr, as I had to delete My first one after it became extremely glitchy and generally unusable.
Also, 2016 was a terrible time for Me. I mean, I had been back home for a year at that point, and My health was terrible to say the least. I thank any and all of You I met during those early years here on Tumblr, especially if We're still in contact. I know that I miss one friend who is no longer on this site; I hope Ze is doing well, wherever Zey are in life!
This notification also reminds Me that I still need to get around to finally get around to doing all the work I want to do to revamp, remodel, etc for this Blog. This notification is also a reminder that I need to get My Ass in gear and get My other Blog projects up off the ground, especially building a proper Wordpress blog. I'm still deciding if I want to revive and do anything with either or both My Dreamwidth and FortPillow accounts, and I still have no idea if I'll do anything with My Substack account or not.

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Do you ever, like. Kinda want to discuss some aspect of your life/your past that you're kinda contemplating and processing, but you know that if you say it out loud it's gonna sound like a weird flex? 😅
@potsiefaerie Yes, this is very relateable.
Spin the wheel. Now, imagine you're on a first date with someone who says they`re a [result]. How does this affect the odds of a second date?
100% guarantee I'll want a second date
It's significantly more likely
The odds don't change
It's significantly less likely
There wont be a second date. Absolutely not
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I got Otherkin. Well, that's too vague for Me to properly comment on. I mean, I probably wouldn't hold that against Them, but on the other hand it would depend on what Their Kin type turned out to be. Also, what type of Person They are on the inside, like personality, etc.
the thing I love most about how tumblr users use tags is that it’s like what if a social media website had a footnotes system
I guess I'm that odd Man out because I hate how most People use tags on this site. It's not that I hate foot notes, as the Scholar in Me loves that shit, but I'd rather read actual content from People in the body of a post, even if it's part of a reblog of another Person's post, than to see it attached in the tags in what always feels to me like a fragmented state of being. Then again, I've received grief before from People for the way I write and reblog posts, and I'm totally unapologetic about the way I blog.
Also, I'm not judging Anyone here. You'll never see Me tell Someone to specifically stop posting content, responses, etc, in the tags. I'm just saying it's a large part of Tumblr specific Blog culture that I hate with every fibre of My being.
It both makes too much sense and pisses me off that its impossible to find active elven/elfae/fae/faerie/fairy communities.
I'm early-mid twenties, i am def not old, but its straight up scary not being able to find people older and more knowledgable people on BEING fae. Its scary that the resources i can find are either lackluster or obscured by a thick layer of metaphorical dust (with the half-exception of The Silver Elves Wordpress blog, love those elves).
The few other fae ive met are my age or younger and know less than me and i dont know much!! We're kids with no guidance a lot of the time!! Its a stark difference to the canid, felis, otherwise therian, and the other mythos, ESPECIALLY compared to the vampyric and draconic communities!! These are lovely and complex communities - keyword: COMMUNITIES
There are no faekin discord servers i can find, there are little people talking about the SPIRITUAL side of being elfae, and the idea of starting myself is daunting cause i feel underqualified - but we all do!!
Lots of fae are solidary, not out of desire but from necessity. Just like the other Other communities its hard to be Other, but unlike them we are especially scattered.
I want to find you! i want to see you! Im here! Where are you?? Where can we be??
This post is similar enough to one recently posted in r/Otherkin that I'm pretty sure you're the same person I just messaged there. I see you've gotten a few pointers in the reblogs (like Shining Hearth which I was going to mention), so just, hi, and reblogging you for the network exposure :)
Yeah, it is frustrating (and weird, for an old fruit like me who lived through different times) that elfae are such a minority now when it wasn't the case 25-30 years ago. The virtually complete merging of the used-to-be-more-separate mythic-otherkin and animal/therianthrope communities had a big impact on that. Or rather, the mythic section got kinda dissolved in something bigger and the term otherkin got applied to the whole mishmash.
(No one @ me that "otherkin(d)" was used to mean any kind of nonhuman pretty early on; I know that. But there was definitely a longish period where it meant primarily mythfolk and of those, elfae were a big plurality if not a majority. These things are no longer the case.)
Raises hand. Yo! Welcome aboard! I can only speak for Myself, but I'm always happy to connect with others, as community is important, if it can be built that is! Anyway, My Ask Box is always open, and I am once again reminded of the fact that I need to update this blog, especially the ways to contact Me, because I don't use Tumblr's instant messaging system and thus avoid it like the Black Plague. Anyway, I'm still sorting out some of My Faeborn shenanigans, but I'm always here to converse with Others and make friends!
“can men be lesbians” well see some of them are is the thing
fundamentally this is the core of every single fuckass identity discourse on this website. it doesn’t really matter if you think someone can be something or not if there are people who actively are that thing. its not even proving you wrong so much as it is “well i know a bigender lesbian guy so obviously they can and do exist”
Yes, pretty much this. I mean, I'm no expert on things, but My Female side is very Gay, though I tend to use the term for Sapphic when I refer to that side of Myself. Basically, My Sexual Orientation will completely differ depending on which Gender or how much of which Gender I'm being at any given time.

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what are people's favorite niche ice cream flavors. mine are superman and blue moon (specifically from the midwest like michigan/indiana/wisconsin), van leeuwen's royal wedding cake, and jeni's wildberry lavender
Does Orange Sherbet count? I'm more of a Yogurt kind of Person actually, or at least I am compared to Ice Cream. But My three favorite Ice Cream flavors are Orange Sherbet, Rocky Road, and Vanilla.
When I was attending High School at My state's School for the Blind, back towards the end of the 2000's, They kept this huge Ice Cream freezer in the Cafeteria full of Ice Cream. Most of the Ice Cream found in this Freezer was the kind You could find at most Convenience stores, especially 711.
Everyone was fighting over things like Drumstick or Ice Cream Sandwishes, while ignoring the hundred or two hundred so cups of Orange Sherbet. I was attending the Apartment class, so I was living in the Apartment style Dormroom, and I ended up taking all the cups of Orange Sherbet because No One else wanted them. It confused the Cafeteria staff something fierce, as I hated Them and They hated Me. Somehow They made bread in a way that triggered My Arfid. I've never had that happen to Me before or since.
I just finished reading Queer Rites by Enfys J. Book. It's a book of ways to mark a variety of queer milestones (coming out, affirming your gender and sexuality, attending your first pride event, etc) most of the rituals are solo affairs but the last section is for group rituals and many of the rituals have tips for adapting them to group settings.
I like how the rituals are structured not as a long list of steps but under their own headings. It feels neat and organized. I also like that most of them require a handful of supplies that you probably have around the house. The author mentions that they wanted the rituals to use free or low cost supplies to support folks of all income levels. I also appreciate the suggestions for alternatives to burning or burying things if you can't have open flames or land in which to bury things. There are also instructions for reusing things used in some of the rituals.
Would I recommend this book? I think if you're looking for ways to mark milestones as a queer Pagan/witch/magical practitioner, you'll get more out of this book. I personally can't see myself performing many of these rituals because they either don't apply to my situation or I don't care enough to mark certain milestones.
For as much as they tell you about Stop Drop and Roll as a kid, I really expected to be on fire more times in my life.
All jokes aside, the real reason kids get drilled on ‘stop drop and roll’ so aggressively is because it needs to be a reflex. Sure, getting set on fire is unlikely, but if DOES happen, you will be terrified and in a lot of pain, and you’ll need to handle it FAST. The default response your brain will have to that is the standard monkey brain instinctive reaction to being terrified and in pain - get the fuck away from the danger. Which is the worst possible response to being on fire, because panicking and trying to run will just fan the flames and make it much worse. But if you’ve had ‘stop drop and roll’ beaten into your head a thousand times all your life, there’s a good chance that in that initial moment of ‘oh fuck I’m on fire’, instead of panicking, your brain will jump straight to the trained response of ‘hit the ground and smother the flames’.
And the fact that it’s NOT a common threat is why we need to drill it so hard in the first place - instictive reactions to pain/danger are usually the correct response! It’s survival instincts! Like, if you get a bad cut, your first reaction will be to slap a hand on it and keeo it there, because ‘apply pressure to bleeding wound’ is the correct response! But being set on fire just doesn’t happen enough to be a serious concern as a species, so the instinctive reaction to that happening will actually cause horrific burns and/or death, because we don’t really need a naturally programmed in response for such a rare problem.
But it does still happen sometimes, and the correct reaction is very simple, so basically programming kids to stop drop and roll if on fire is easy, harmless, and probably saves a fair amount of lives.
Also house fires used to be a Lot more common. Particularly in households where both adults were smokers.
I was drilled on this a hell of a lot more than other Children when I was a Child, but that was because My older Brother was and still is a Firefighter, though He's semi retired at this point. I grew up spending a lot of time at the local Fire Department, which is located only a few streets down from My house, and My Brother made sure I knew all about the various fire safety instructions, including Stop, Drop, and Roll. Even though I'm the primary house owner at this point, I share ownership with Him, so I have to hide the candles whenever He comes up, otherwise I receive a lecture from Him about how dangerous They are.
I've been set on fire twice in My life, both times resulted in My hair getting set on fire. The first time was due to My own loack of vigilence, and I paid the price for it. The second time was due to ritual shenanigans.
And of course, there was that time I almost set fire to the side of the mountain as a result of pissing off a particular Goddess during My first ever ritual, by which I was trying to impress a Girl. I was sixteen at the time, and there were several lessons I learned from that experience. One of those lessons is unless You are performing Sex Magic, don't try to plan, prepare, or perform a ritual while primarily thinking with Your Cock. Thankfully, I was able to stop the fire from spreading due to all the lessons My Brother gave Me, though the Girl I was performing the ritual with ran the moment the shit hit the fan, or in this case a wild wind caught the pillar candle and threatened to start a wildfire on the side of the mountain that overlooks the town.
alright I've got to do some quick math to explain attitudes towards AI to my boss.
we're looking to create an AI policy, and when we were talking about this, my boss (older millennial) was genuinely shocked to hear that younger people do not (seem) to view AI positively (a la the recent commencement speakers being booed)
please rb for larger sample size!
Question 1/3
What is your age, and do you feel AI is a net positive or net negative in our lives today?
under 18, AI is a net positive
under 18, AI is a net negative
18-29, AI is a net positive
18-29, AI is a net negative
30-45, AI is a net positive
30-45, AI is a net negative
46-60, AI is a net positive
46-60, AI is a net negative
over 60, AI is a net postive
over 60, AI is a net negative
Question 2/3
How often do you visit or interact with museums/archives (whether in person or online)?
Frequently (multiple times per month)
Often (multiple times per year)
Occasionally (a couple times per year)
Rarely (once every couple of years)
Never :(
Question 3/3
If you saw a museum was using AI in exhibits, marketing, research, etc., would you be more or less inclined to visit that museum?
under 18, more inclined
under 18, less inclined
18-29, more inclined
18-29, less inclined
30-45, more inclined
30-45, less inclined
46-60, more inclined
46-60, less inclined
over 60, more inclined
over 60, less inclined
Thank you for helping with this data collection. Please rb for as big a sample as possible!
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@odyver Because Polls on Tumblr seem to be inaccessible for Me, I'm going to write out My answeres here as part of the reblog. I'm sorry if this doesn't help You.
01. I'm currently thirty eight years old and I think Artificial Inteligence, especially Generative Artificial Intelligence, is absolutely evil and should be Napalmed into oblivion. Naturally, My view on it is radically negative.
02. I rarely visit such websites because most of them seem to be moderately to extremely inaccessible for Someone like Me who is Blind and who uses a Screen Reader.
03. I would avoid any Museums openly using Artificial Intelligence like Someone infected with a highly contagious and lethal disease, and I would recommend Others to avoid Them like the plague.
@finnthebard and I went to a small local pride fest today 😊🌈
I decided to go full whimsy, lol (but unfortunately I don't think nerdykeppie still sells this dress, I bought it a while ago)
And they were in their wizard getup:
That is a mothman shirt, haha. I love this nerd 🥰
Thank You for describing Your outfit in the alt text! That outfit sounds super cute! I also dig the Mothman touch!

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who else has fantasized about the Nutrient Brick
I really want those little star trek cubes ngl. For times when I just can't be bothered to eat real food
For Me, it would depend on how They would taste and smell. Knowing M luck, I wouldn't be able to stomach it.
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Hello Tumblr!
@jubs here, today, to tell you about a feature we're building: Comments by author!
Comments (or replies) have been around for a while, but they have always been tucked away from your regular feed, and so we're working on a few ways to integrate them into the rest of our experience.
Soon, blogs will have a Comments tab alongside Posts, Likes, and Following. There, you will be able to see posts other people have been commenting on, and, more importantly, find your own comments! This was not possible before, except through notifications if someone engaged with your comment.
We're also working on a way to surface posts commented on by people you follow in your feeds. You will be able to find those in the For You tab, and later, alongside chronological posts in the Following tab.
So, how do you identify those posts in the feeds?
Replied posts will show a small preview right there in your dashboard, before you click anything.
This is not out yet, but soon! In the meantime, tell us what you think and expect from this! ☺︎
Launch Day
@jubs again!
First of all, thank you all for the feedback in the original post!
Today, we're launching the new "Comments" tab for Blog pages, and we'll be testing a For You recommendation based on comments from people you follow. The posts will have a preview of the reply, so you know why you're seeing that post.
You will be able to control the new tab visibility, and whether we should include your comments in your follower's feeds, through a new setting:
The toggle can be found on https://www.tumblr.com/settings/blog/YOUR_BLOG or in the General Settings > Replies section, on Mobile. If you have already disabled the "Share posts you like" setting, the setting will default to disabled.
The new tab is only available on Web and iOS (44.8+) for now, but the toggle is available to everyone (including on Android), so you can control what other people see on your blogs, even if you don't have the new feature yet. Don't worry, we have plans to implement the tab and posts on Android, soon!
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We want to later include these replied posts to the Following feed as well, and we're planning on adapting the current "Include posts liked by the blogs you follow" toggle to also consider comments, in case you don't want to see shared comments from people you follow.
What do you think? As always, we appreciate your thoughts, keep 'em coming!
@jubs @changes @staff Oh Gods, please no more terrible changes and updates that No One wanted, No one asked for, and will probably make the Tumblr experience even more of a pain in the ass. Will there be any way to turn any or even all of this off? Look, as a Blind Person trying and mostly succeeding at using this Website with a Screenreader, the following following and/or main feed is already such a pain in the ass I that I almost never use it anymore. This is why I'm compiling a list of the Blogs I follow, so I can go read actual posts, instead of the inaccessible garbage that keeps making that feed worse, such as communities. I just want to be able to remove the ability to have to see communities in My feed, because They slow Me down when I'm navigating.
Or recommendations at all, for that matter. Because Tumblr is extremely terrible at recommending Me things, to the point that I would turn all of that off forever if I could do so. And don't even get Me started on the recommended blog options in the various Tag Feeds. That's even more of an accessibility problem, making it slower and harder for Me to find posts I want to read from a particular Tag.
And another things, since I'm talking about comments. I hate the comment system here on Tumblr. I know that comments have gotten better over the years, but in My opinion it's too little, too late. I don't trust the comments system, which is why I rarely comment on a Tumblr post, and will reblog it instead, mentioning the Blogger in question, if I want to communicate with.