She sat sipping a cup of hot chocolate with a grim look on her face. I hadnât seen her like this in a while and knew that something serious must have happened for her to look so tired. I sat across from her, holding my own cup.
âI havenât seen you in a while. How are things?â I knew how things were - not good.
She looked up at me. There were bags under her eyes but she smiled nonetheless. âIâm fine.â She was not fine. âHow are you?â
There was a pause. And then she sighed. âThatâs good.â
âI saw what your sister posted. Is she okay?â
She looked up at me and smiled harder. It was a bittersweet smile. âYeah... sheâs doing fine.â
Her sister had written a suicide note one late January night - and posted it on Snapchat. According to her, her younger sister didnât think anyone would care so she posted it with every intention of offing herself that night. Contrary to her sisterâs beliefs, friends of her sister had seen the post and were shocked. One friend called her parents and herself, which moved her to action to catch her sister because she could do any harm. More friends ended up telling their respective parents, and then their parents told the principal of the school and then the principal called the police and then the police came to their house. Almost a week had passed since the incident.
âSo whatâs your sister doing now?â
âSheâs in the hospital. Weâve got a hold of her phone and are going through her room to make sure there isnât anything she can hurt herself with once she gets back.â
âHow are your parents doing? What do they think about all of this?â
âTheyâre both fine now. Mom keeps telling me how grateful she is that I was there because she doesnât know how to navigate phones very well and would never have been able to figure out what my sister had done.â She took a small sip of her hot chocolate. âItâs kind of a double edged swordâ
With the evolution of the internet, social networking gives those who feel they donât have a presence - or donât know they have a presence - a place to belong. More than that, information is available to a user at the blink of an eye.
Although Rainie and Wellman did not specifically touch on the subject of mental health through social networking, they did talk about connectivity. Connectivity, increased through the innovation of smartphones, has become easier and allowed for people to (duh) connect more. In the case above, if the younger sister had not have posted to social media, the family might not have been informed of her actions and may have woken the next morning to a greater tragedy. On top of that, the network that the younger sister was a part of came together for a call-to-action.