Here is the way I see it as ot7Ā
(As in I genuinely love 875, all 7, no thatās not a joke, my bank account and streams can attest to this)Ā
Everyone on social media has the chance to be toxic. You all know that, and see that. Why? Well in my opinion itās likely because there is something incredibly wrong with them. Likely something in their personal life or history, a conflict resolution issue, a trauma, loneliness or longing to be a part of something, grief or emotional pain, family neglect, lack of love, the list is endless. For example often people throw shade at Jiminās family, or Vās, based on little to no fact about their family life, almost like their own projectionĀ š§. In a lot of ways these people are NPCs in real life, but what they lack there in the real world, they try and make up for online. Especially twitter. There is a few people on here like this for sure, who spout nonsense hateful rhetoric, and act like know it all kings, but in reality are sad lonely loveless people hidden in their bedroom of their parents basement in the backend of goodness knows where (you know who you are).
People will use their nameless and faceless accounts to post whatever is on their minds, with little thought or regard to the consequences . Thought about the content, and no thought about the fact that once itās out there itās there for good. Screenshot and filed away. Also no thought to the fact that whoever they are hating on is a human being, not a puppet.Ā
If you really think about it this happens in every fraction of everything on the internet. Some spaces are more prone to it, Twitter is the worst for it imo as TikTok usually warns you against saying certain things, as does instagram. Twitter though, is a battleground.Ā
Iām not sure if I stand alone on this but I became a fan to have fun. That is what I want my fandom experience to be like. I love music and want to talk about it and jump up and down in excitement when something happens in my fandom. But this often isnāt what happens if you engage in fandom spaces, unless highly curated. There are too many bad eggs who ruin it.Ā
Just yesterday as Iām sure many are aware now, Hobi started a live and Jin and Jimin joined it. Both were joking around, and Jimin was telling about cleaning his house and listening to Hobiās songs. Something about a cow lick⦠it was cute and for a moment the timeline reflected that. Log back on later and itās all gone to shit. Some solos (tkkrs, jjks and kths) had decided to start a hate train on other solos (pjms) by creating a fake group chat, but it is all for dragging Jimin. Fake āArmyā immediately called it out, which is suspicious in and of itself. And chaos reigns again.Ā
Itās never going to get better. We cannot take the internet back
Anyone as I said can make an account, or two, and post whatever crap they want out there. On the wilds of the internet it doesnāt matter what or who you are, you can hide. Weāre all hiding technically, (but I think on here we have more discussion and intelligence. Not all, but most, there are a few really bad eggs on here too, Iād name them but I have class).
I think chapter 2 has brought out the worst in people, the preceding pandemic years bought casual stans to the fandom also, and this combination is a disaster. Youāve got people who join and their narrative is based on cult edits and rhetoric. Youāve got solos who like an artist and realise they are the member of a band with a decade long career, but hate their origins.Ā Ā People who donāt care to research Bangtan Lore or look back at original content. Youāve got all of this and more and itās a toxic combination. Itās not what Army is about. Itās not what the members want nor stand for. But the people it affects the most in online spaces is us. As fans we can chose our experience, the fact that some chose to hate is wild to me. Whatās the benefit of that in the long run? Where is the joy? Thatās not why Jimin makes music, for his fans (bias or solo or Army) to then take that and use it as a weapon to shade his members. No. He didnāt pour his soul into Face to have people shit all over it.Ā
To me and true Army, if you are a solo on the likes of twitter you are likely just an anti. Using that solo mask as an excuse to be a miserable person online, never caring that you are the cause of the hate on your supposed fave, by consistently setting up the one you claim to Stan. You likely only care about creating conflict and chaos, thriving in the attention you gain, the ego boost from people agreeing with you, the brief high and your follow count going up.Ā
Because here is my line in the sand, whilst you may want to call yourself a solo, and I get it I do, the one thing that really drives the hate of true Army towards solos is the hate on the members.Ā
Why? Because the members would not want that. Thatās the truth.Ā
So call the fandom what you want, or individuals within it, I donāt care, but do not drag the other members.Ā
Now I only see posts from PJMs mostly, because Jimin is my bias, and other solo stans I follow a few of but only the ones that donāt cause trouble. The ones that hate on other members is a hard block and report for me.Ā
If I see any solo stan make a hate tweet that include the lines ānot unprovokedā I die a little inside of embarrassment. Because it just shows lack of maturity and intelligence. Tit for tat gets us where exactly?Ā
The worst of them is the maknae line solos. Youāre out here tweeting or writing hate on them and for why? These boys (now men) have grown up together, no matter what they love each other, and no, Iām not exaggerating. So whilst a solo may get off hating on Jimin, calling him out, sending death threats to his family, name calling him, Jungkook is enlisted with him. If you get off on hating Jungkook, calling him from a pig to a dog, Jimin is out there enlisting with him.Ā
Cocojm (who i loathe with my entire being) out there yesterday shading JK letting its mask slip, because an article came out re a past award, setting up Jimin in the process, because then here come JJKsĀ Ā tweeting that he was the first to win said award, hating on Jimin, and yet all the while Jimin and Jungkook are enlisted together.Ā
(Do you see how misdirected the hate is, you can make a hate tweet, drag someone, get that high you are craving, but youāre going to get that crash/low right after. Because the only person you are technically affecting is yourself, your health and your karma.)Ā
As a solo you donāt have to like the other members but you sure as hell should respect that your fave loves them. Imagine hating on Hobi and Jimin is all āI love youā on Weverse. Thatās his Hobi, his room mate and they are the of best friends. They are all family and they have told us this time and memorial. They have a friendship tattoo for a reason. Always hold that in your minds eye.Ā
Youāve also got to remember to the members themselves Army is their fandom. The ones who have supported them, protected them through years of trials and tribulations, and are the ones whom they love and are thankful for. The ones they say their songs are for, the ones they write to on Weverse. Etc.Ā
Army isnāt wholly represented on the internet. Shock horror I know. Thatās not to say the hate isnāt there, that some major accounts do deserve the questioning they get when they donāt support Jimin, they truly do. But then to me they arenāt Army. If you donāt support all 7 you are not Army. Period. If you are going to use awards to hate and shade on a member, you are not Army. Period. These men did not give their literal blood sweat and tears for people to tarnish their band, their fellow members, their body of work or artistry. They did not want you to trend ābts disbandā daily on twitter, as was happening again yesterday. I mean the disrespect.Ā
Now to Jimin. I donāt know for the life of me why Jimin is so often the centre of all the hate, the belittlement and shade online. All I know is that he is. It is the most head scratching (and heartbreaking) thing Iāve ever come across in any fandom Iāve been in. This isnāt a new thing either, Jimin has been the subject of death threats and scrutiny often far beyond the others for years. The only thing I maybe think it is, goes back to what I said at the start about self worth and ego. Jimin is too much of everything, and him being him triggers people. And itās so polarised in extremes, you either love him or hate him. Itās never middle ground. To me he triggers their insecurities, their ego and their sense of self worth. He is everything they arenāt and more so. He is both a really good decent fcking human being, a truly stunning man, and yet instead of loving him for who he is as an artist and a person, people lash out because thatās what happens when people are insecure. He is everything they will never ever be, not that money means much, but he is rich, successful, talented and beautiful, those are facts. He is, as the quote from Rent says āI'm more of a man than you'll ever be - and more of a woman than you'll ever get." And I think thatās what subconsciously people hate. They know deep down that their faves would chose Jimin over them. They know if he was standing next to them people would look at him not them. This man would walk into a room and everyone would look at him (weāve seen it happen) He commands attention, he is captivating just by existing. Not only that but as i said above, he is a really good human being. A truly unheard of and lethal combination. (Maybe the only other person that comes to mind when I think of a famous person like this is Audrey Hepburn, beauty, grace and humility like our Jimin). He is once in a lifetime.Ā
He is so human and so ānormalā Linking back to yesterday youāve got Jimin at 8 PM at night cleaning his house listening to āsweet dreamsā and then haters on the internet are obsessing and fighting over him. He is the main character in this story, and yes sadly this comes with good and bad sides. Itās not okay, it is not acceptable and it should be challenged by reporting it and counter acting it with positivity and love. (No i am Not joking, energy matters).Ā
I have no idea what the new chapter will look like, what they are planning etc. I do think though that a lot of solos or people who became solos in the past three years have no idea what BTS is like as a group, when they function as a whole. So they are likely in for a shock from what Iāve heard. I do hope people grow the fck up and enjoy whatever it is the guys have in store for us. I for one am not going to let Stan twitter ruin it for me. Iāve waited years for this moment and I will enjoy it. Miserable hateful people be dammed.Ā
Time will tell whether the members want to address these divides, and the hate. I guess V saying ā7 or nothingā didnāt work the first time. We shall see. In the meantime though report, block and mute. Do not engage in the hate if possible because that is what they want. They want validation. Report and block, but most of all, celebrate, stream, and uplift the person you say you bias or love. Thatās what they work so hard for after allĀ
An aside - I also want to add that as much as people want to defend Jimin, I would remind people that he is a grown man of 30 years of age. He does not need fans to speak for him, to belittle his choices (career and personal) and he certainly does not need to be babied. Let the man live his own life.Ā
This was likely all over the place but all this to say I love Jimin, I love Bangtan and I cannot wait for whatās to come next and as above, no one is going to spoil that for me, or for the members themselves. Not on my watch.Ā
Oh and here, report and block