River Song

In general, it isn’t socially acceptable to be a woman who has had numerous lovers. However, by the time many sexually adventurous women hit 35, they’ve not only have several notches on the headboard, they have experienced several sexual situations. Like anything in life, the more experience you have at something, the more proficient you become.

Through the years an active woman has often experienced penises of varying size, shape and rigidity. She has experienced a verity of odd ball fetishes.  She has been the teacher as well as the student.  Think of it in terms of baseball.  When a boy gets a new glove does he take to the diamond with the glove straight out of the package.  No, he oils it up, massages it, plays countless hours of catch until the glove is ready for “prime time”.  The new glove is beautiful without imperfection; however, the experienced glove is ready for the game.

Regardless of your age here are some examples of why an older lover may be right for you…

She takes charge

Normally when a woman reaches her mid-thirties she knows what flicks her switch.  She has also become proficient at reading the signals a man is flashing. This makes her a huge turn on for men of all ages. Plenty of women (not me) still lie back and expect the guy to do all the work. If she takes the lead and becomes the sexual aggressor, it’s an automatic penis-pumper.

She takes her time

Let’s be honest in the right hands most men can be brought to the brink of orgasm rather quickly while a woman needs more time to get to the finish line.  There is nothing wrong with that, it’s just the biological truth.  Older women understand this and know how to slow down the situation so all involved reach the heights of pleasure closer to the end of the date rather than the beginning.  Besides the release is always better when your tachometer has been running over 5000 RPM for a while vs. when you first hit the throttle.

She responds

A woman who has reached her sexual peak understand how the little thing make all the difference.  One of those little (HUGE) things is responsiveness.  It’s simple, men love to touch women and when a woman responds favorably to that touch, it blows that man’s mind.  I will agree that there is nothing quite like the perfect skin of a young woman, but the uncontrolled quiver of a woman with a few more miles on her can be so much sexier.

She is confident

A confident lover is always in demand – no matter what she looks like.

In fact, plenty of therapists say it’s an older woman’s sexual confidence which is at the heart of her appeal to younger men.

She’s not scared to give directions

The biggest lesson women learn as they travel the highway of their sex life is “If you don’t ask for it you probably won’t get it”.  Often a younger woman won’t tell her lover what she wants because she thinks it may turn him off.  Or even worse she expects him to magically glean what her desires may be.  What an unrealistic expectation, right?  An older woman will do no such thing.  She will tell you exactly what she likes and will in turn ask what gets you going as well.