♡♡ pegging ♡♡

ugh i knowwwwwwww like ok i don't inherently associate magical schools with hp because there are so many universes with schools of magic! but it's so hard to fully separate and idk it has just been so tainted in my heart and mind... this is why adult me knows better than to make a fandom my whole personality but eight-year-old rhia didn't know. she was so young. so naive. but i’ll still cry for those lestranges, and my other fave frank longbottom

do you... actually know any sex workers, anon? because i do! and this is basically 101 -- it is the whole reason that sex workers prefer to be called 'sex workers' or 'erotic laborers'; the term "pr*stitute" is also often viewed as a slur. also, i really think the phrase "probably spread by only fans girls" makes your stance clear enough, and i don't need to engage further.

this post is old, but the information on it is still solid: https://sexworkerhelpfuls.tumblr.com/post/90478067686/sex-workers-language-and-slurs

and a good starting point, written by, yes, an erotic laborer: https://www.vice.com/en/article/n7j94b/how-to-be-an-ally-to-sex-workers

also this piece from the aclu: https://www.aclu.org/news/lgbtq-rights/sex-work-is-real-work-and-its-time-to-treat-it-that-way/

what is whorephobia? https://www.insidehook.com/article/sex-and-dating/whorephobia (I don’t necessarily agree with everything in this article, but it is a good starting point/primer)

about the intersection of whorephobia and anti-Asian sentiment in the Atlanta killings: https://www.npr.org/2021/03/21/979811779/atlanta-killings-sex-worker-advocate-sees-deadly-consequences-of-overlapping-hat

https://www.thotscholar.com and https://tinahorn.net  -- tina horn and femi babylon are two of my favorite writers on the subject; femi babylon particularly writes about the intersections of whorephobia and misogynoir

https://www.vice.com/en/article/n7j94b/how-to-be-an-ally-to-sex-workers -- a great article by femi babylon on sex worker allyship ! point #3 is especially salient.