learning, growing, screaming, caring

the thing about phone in bed is that it's so awesome. almost makes you feel like betraying & destroying yourself for nothing isn't all so bad

forgive yourself for trusting the wrong people. forgive yourself for giving them your time and energy. you didn’t know then what you know now.

This also counts for anyone taking meds that lower your tolerance to heat or cold. Many medications, including but not exclusively psych meds, cause this side effect, so even if you could tolerate extreme temperatures before if you can't while taking meds that still counts for my above point

Time of year again for the northern hemisphere

hi european here. what the fuck is that

I wounder how many Cybertrucks this parking lot has seen.

they won't tell you this in therapy but sometimes the best way to stop catastrophizing/anxiety is to interrupt your spiraling with "girl what the hell are you talking about"

complimented a womans clear raincoat this morning and she said Well i feel like a sandwich

my friends and I have created a game we call Quipposting, where you play quiplash but you roll a wheel full of character archetypes, and whatever it lands on, you all answer as if you are like, a wizard or cowboy. This legitimately makes quiplash go from a fun enough game to an S+ tier absolute unabashed banger

the best characters are Mafia Goon, Cyberpunk Hacker, Castle Guard, Sewer Rat, 16th Century Peasant, and Alien Poorly Pretending to be Human

OP we desperately need examples

sometimes a bigoted guy calling trans women slurs isn't calling her slurs because he "is secretly insecure and ashamed for being attracted to her". sometimes it's because he's a bigoted asshole. and acting like there's some magic Reddit Gotcha! that, if you comment under his post, magically undoes the harm done by his transphobia, is stupid! You aren't helping anyone!

Also, transmisogynists being sexually attracted to trans women isn't a "gotcha" at all. Men that are misogynistic towords cis women very famously treat them as sex objects. This is literally the exact same behavior.