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you’re judging yourself too hard and too much. stop that

reminder to self: you can be sad about the change before accepting the change

Training my nervous system to choose an unfamiliar heaven instead of a familiar hell

I think it's so important and crucial for 20 year olds to witness older people who are genuinely bad at some aspects of being a person but are still living lives they find meaningful and enjoyable. Not just "oh I got married and you can too" but like. sometimes you cannot for the life of you finish college or find a good job or stay in a relationship or arrive to locations on time or whatever it is you think when you're 20 that you HAVE to be able to do. But you wind up finding a place in the world anyway. It happens!