I'll Be Better Than I Was

It’s become more apparent that getting to oregon is going to be a secondary goal. We both are scheduled to start new jobs here in wisconsin, Jay on Sunday, and I’ll find out my start date later this afternoon.

We are sleeping on the living room floor with my aunt in her tiny one bedroom apartment. My mom decided that it’s too much for her to let us stay with her any longer when i got discharged from the county hospital on Tuesday night. She is not stable enough to have us living with her, it’s interfering with her routine and she’s openly told me how much my presence is unwanted.

Since we are both working, we need to be able to get our own space so that we can focus on our transition progress, and maintaining employment.

Jay won’t receive a first paycheck until 8/8, and Mine will very likely be the following Friday, as my start date has yet to be determined.

We are getting back on the right track to becoming stable again. We are humbly seeking assistance with paying for our security deposit and first months rent at our own place. Having our own space again is absolutely critical.

We are incredibly grateful for everyone who has offered their support.

If you are able to help us out, one last time we are confident that things are going to fall into place peacefully and allow us to have our own space again. It would mean the world to us.

PayPal or Google pay email address: [email protected]

https://www.paypal.me/olivergraham9

Venmo: @transitionmatrix

Cash app: $OliverGraham9

Starting over fund:

https://www.plumfund.com/financial-hardship/OliverJayHome

Thank you for your time,

Hello. As most of you probably don’t know, because I’ve just recently started to come out, I am trans. My name is Matt, and I’m FTM meaning I was born female but I identify as male. Like most trans guys, I experience dysphoria, which is fucking shitty, so I’ve started a fund page to help raise money to help pay a small portion of my top surgery I’m planning to get within the next 3 years. I know that sounds like a long ways away, but it’s a long process. Any donation will help, and I will be more than grateful to anyone who donates or even just shares this post. Top surgery is something I want so bad because my chest is just disgusting to me and makes me wanna die. Sometimes even a binder does not help. Thank you all so much for your help.