♡// RATTISH \\♡

wait wait wait wait wait wait WAIT WAIT PAUSE 🖐️ severely thinking about them. all the men in her life were terrible and abrasive so she developed a level of promiscuity in order to shield herself from the emotional attachments and subsequent hurt that could come out of a committed relationship she has with a man, additionally the homemaker values of her traditional upbringing clash with her modern work life values dragging her perceptions of herself and making her question her value as a mother. he grew up motherless so he developed a distain for family units and women altogether to make up for the emasculation manifesting as anger and entitled bitterness that must be expressed physically when rejected by women, and his tendency to deflect and redirect perceived probing questions speaks to the inability to accept blame and responsibility cementing within himself that he cannot ever be at fault and that he cannot ever do any harm to anyone ever likely stemming from the inability to accept that his father had blame in the divorce and only fueling his disdain towards women and relationships, additionally his drinking and smoking habits were taken up as an outlet for self control that stayed true throughout his whole unstable life likely taken up as a habit from his father that serves to only worsen his emotional regulation and may speak as a mode of self punishment for being the perceived root cause of all the bad things that happen in his life both with his father’s divorce and his own. very complex unfortunate situations all around and. also the first depiction of abortion services I’ve seen on screen and it made me squirm so ig I’ve got shit to work through OKAY UNPAUSE 👍

this isht sad af fr