Army of Rock

Dunno whether this ACTUALLY works for people, but I think quite a few of the guys in my scene think it does.

The second step after that is talking to them at the smoking area during breaks, if there's multiple bands. The third step is to talk to them at the end if you see people lingering around if there's a bar at the venue

Dunno whether this ACTUALLY works for people, but I think quite a few of the guys in my scene think it does.

If success rate low, start offering the long haired something sips from your beer.

And maybe in 20 years I can be the cool aunt to your and your girlfriends' undoubtably adorable kids and try and teach them how to play open chords on an acoustic guitar, and we can reminisce about today?

Yesss, let's watch Cannibal Women of the Avocado Jungle and listen to some American Crossover Thrash and eat Brownies.

3/5 Stars. Physical closeness was nice. Less disgusting than expected. Quite boring though. Aftermath of trying let a guy down gently makes it not worth it.

I really hope the guy is doing fine. He was nice. And reacted to the rejection like a perfectly reasonable normal human being. What a shame that kissing ruined a possibility of perfectly good acquaintance/friendship.

To be fair, he had been lightly sus, but like, his friend seemed openly bi, and generally nazis are homophobes to so I had just gone with that…

Also me and him worked together to tell her how we met. After he told his part, I started my tale with "I've known for a while that I was aroace..." at which point she basically keeled over in laughter. She said I missed a perfectly good opportunity to make it sound like kissing him was what convinced me I was aroace.

but on the other hand there’s that tiny voice in the back of my head that’s like “hey what if this little layer of anxiety is actually a crush?? what if you’ve been lying this whole time about the whole aromantic thing and you liiike them?? eh?” no. shut the fuck up we’ve been over this a million times. “oo but what if the internet people are right and you haven’t found the right person yet but what if THIS person is that person??? is this anxiety slightly different from previous anxiety? maybe the difference is romantic attraction ooOOooOO!! have you noticed how pretty they are? because they’re quite pretty did you notice? AHA you noticed that means you like them!!” it’s FUCKING EXHAUSTING

Doesn't help that I am a very physically affectionate and 'openly caring' person, even with newer friends, so I will constantly have people tell me and my friend "You are such a cute couple!" or "Are you dating yet? If you aren't, you should!"

Rest in Peace Paul 😭