idk anymore ....

i will be mean here, sorry. if you want me to rephrase something nicer or want me to clarify something, feel free to send me an ask.

also, if you are nice, believe people when they say they exist, and dont send death threats to entire groups of people then you are probably fine/this list probably doesnt apply to you, dont worry yourself, or if it does we prolly werent going to get along anyways.

if you deny the existance of people who can fucking say they exist, to your face, aka, if you are anti-endo (Oooh i exist !! oooh!! fucking scary!!!!! piss off, i aint ableist for being myself, asswad). (i dont give a fucking shit if cdds are caused by trauma, thats irrelevent because i never fucking said i had a CDD, I HAVE MULTIPLE PERSONALITIES/PARTS/WHATEVER REGARDLESS, END OF STORY, FUCK OFF)

if you are pro censorship (idgaf if you avoid dark shit, but if you say dni proshippers/"proshitters" we probably wont get along since pro-shipping = anti-censorship)

if you are paramisic or include zoos/maps in your dni (attraction doesnt equal action, and being jerks (telling them to kill themselves, or that they deserve to die) to the unacting ones may drive them into communities WITH those that act. be nice to people god fucking damn.) (also doing so is ableist towards those with pocd/zocd, i would know because i fucking have ocd)

if you have "anti-alterhumans" on your dni and then also "pro-endos" on your dni ( YOU ARE A HYPOCRITE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ALTERHUMAN INCLUDES ENDOGENIC SYSTEMS YOU AAAAASSSSSSSSSSS!!!!! YOU FALL UNDER YOUR OWN DNI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! )

if you call people degenerates (especially for them being anticensorship or having a paraphilia) that is a nazi term, nazi idea, and an insulting thing to say about anybody (wow, "dont do/think about sex wrongly, or else youre less than human"? do we see how that might not be the most progressive mindset?)

if you are against age regression or littles in a system EVER being sexual (hello! bodies can have urges, hypersexuality exists, and also ITS NOT YOUR DAMN BUSINESS, and both littles and ageregressed folks CAN BE AND OFTEN ARE MORE MATURE THAN THE AVERAGE FOR BODILY-THEIR-REGRESSION-AGED KIDS)

if you shame people for their kinks (its fine to say like, sfw interaction only/no nsfw interaction, right? but if you start degrading those who post it or calling it fucking "EWW YUCKKYY FUCK OFF" then youre a jerk and i dont want to talk to you. also i post adult kink shit sometimes because shocker! i am an adult with fantasies. wow!)

if you use insults specifically targetted towards transmasculine folks (unless in self reference or consentually affectionate) (ie calling people "birthday boys", "tmes", etc. i can hear the foulness in that and its very uncomfortable as someone with transmasc friends and who has been transmasc.)

if you tell people to kill themselves (especially over an aspect of themselves it would be unreasonable for them to change such as gender, race, paraphilias, etc)