the person youāre dating should be your best friend. Not as in, date your best friend, but as in if your partner doesnāt engage with you at the same level as a best friend (or even just a friend), there is something wrong. Itās not long term material.
Couples that act like men and women are āoppositeā sides in the relationship game are such a weird concept for me. āOh, weāre married, my wife is basically an obstacle to me getting a nice night out with my friends hahaā or āoh my boyfriend doesnāt do any of the housework ahahaha boys am I right?ā
like, ?????? you,re not supposed to be on opposite sides, both pulling to get what you want. Youāre supposed to be a TEAM. thatās, like, the whole point of a relationship.
Like, not only does my boyfriend know and care about my interests, even the ones I rant about that know bore him a little (and vice versa - I now know a lot about Eve Online and he knows more than he has probably ever wanted to know about star wars fanfiction), he also knows about my day to day stuff. Like, Iāll ask him to do the laundry and heāll answer āokay but whereās the little net bag you put your bras in so they donāt get stretched in the washer?ā because he fucking LISTENED when I bought it and told him what it was for.
like I said. Youāre a team, conquering adult life together. That goes for everything, from getting excited and calling him over when I spot a simulator game on sale at the store (even though wtf simulator games I will never get the point of them) to figuring out the most efficient way to keep the living room clean.
*high fives my boyfriend, cartwheels out of the house*
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