canon is a suggestion and i'm not listening

all the vampires in the tags saying they won’t do this bc the alcohol will make the skin taste bad are just telling on themselves. talk about a red flag.

attaching something to an email is so scary. what if i accidentally put hard-core porn in there. i don't think i have any downloaded but what if i do and i attached it to the email. what then.

@isuggestrevolution do you have any ideas

i think defaulting Femdom She Pegs Him in m/f ships is loser behavior not just because it reinforces sexism by implying bottoming is the inferior sexual act and topping by a woman as equivalent to feminist action, where submission or bottoming on her behalf would be misogynistic to portray. but also because i think girls deserve to be fucked stupid as much as men do. and that it’s hot.

You claim to love women, yet you cannot conceive of sex where she is the submissive and/or bottoming party where her pleasure is still paramount? You claim to love women, and yet you still act like she should be doing all the work sexually in this relationship? You claim to love women, and yet you won’t let her be pinned down drooling into her pillow?

do not take that to mean that i don’t enjoy a good bit of femdom or pegging porn myself, because the issue is not the kinks themselves, which are neutral; it’s the kinks used as like. a symbol of Empowering Sex For A Woman. femdom/pegging used in an m/f ship to assuage fears that you’re being too heteronormative or sexist, rather than actually tackling what those biases mean for how you write the characters themselves, not just the sex acts you put them in. pegging is hot. pegging is still not praxis, and your version of an m/f is not morally superior for having the man bottom.

also: should go without saying on account of this being Transgender: The Blog, but the default femdom/pegging situation for m/f ships? even weirder and more uncomfortable and unsexy when it’s a transfem or trans woman character. let her get her brains fucked out now!!!

"I learned a lot from making this" is artist talk for "making this sucked ass and I'm not entirely happy with the result."

IT/IT'S ISNT DEHUMANIZING ME I ASKED YOU TO CALL ME AN IT! I WANT TO BE CALLED AN IT! FUUUUUUUUUCCCCCCCCKKKKKKKKK

as a former escape room host i highly recommend doing an escape room as a first date. its a great way to learn how ppl react under pressure and how well they collaborate with you right off the bat. also more than once ive seen people enter an escape room as a couple and exit broken up LOL its a fantastic litmus test

An experiment with a clear negative outcome is still a successful experiment.

i love making friends in fandom, i love playing with our toys together, i love coming up with increasingly niche aus, i love lifting strangers up, i love motivating people to create, i love watching someone get excited over an idea and immediately running with it, i love yelling in tags together, i love seeing someone gain confidence in their writing/art because people were kind to them <33

AAA video game publisher voice: "Look. The goose layed a golden egg, and that's nice! Everyone loved that egg. But keeping the golden goose means paying for bird feed and I don't want to, so I killed the goose."