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the stigma around aging women is ridiculous...

it’s either “she aged like fine wine 🥂✨ i wanna look like that when i’m 60″ or “damn why she age like milk 💀”

But honestly, it's so strange how readily we accept our partners within monogamous relationships to receive sexual gratification from someone outside of the relationship.

What degree of separation is okay?

A pornstar on the screen? Are you comfortable if he has a favorite? What is he goes to a meetup for an autograph?

What about OnlyFans? Where the girls are all the girl next door, often literally? Are you comfortable if he subscribes to his classmate? His coworker? Are you comfortable if he gives monetary gifts? Can he follow one of your friends? Or one of his?

What about cam girls? Are you comfortable that they talk? That he gives her money in exchange for her attention, her service? That she knows your lovers name? Calls him by it? That their relationship is purely sexual?

Its absurd that we accept this.

I remember when I was a teen, I joined a free streaming site to get male attention. I did little strip teases on there. I met my (now ex)BF on there. He was in his 30s, but I've told how that story ends...

I quit the site at his request, but it was obvious, like yeah of course I'm going to quit the site. I'm in a relationship now.

I remember a year later he brought up in casual conversation how he'd just met another young woman on the site who seemed cool. I was shocked. I hadn't even considered that he'd still be engaging with that site. That he was still masturbating to highschool girls in their childhood bedrooms who wanted male validation. Id told him how glad I was that he had "saved me" from that site...

When I asked him about it, he told me it was no big deal. It was only porn.

Every single day I'm reminded that I have the exact same experiences as women who are on completely different walks of life to me.

Yesterday a man came into the restaurant I work at and my coworker who is in her late 40s hid away and asked me to serve him. I later found out that he had been very rude to her in the past and she didn't want to see him. But it just made me further realise how age means nothing. We are both women and we share the same experiences throughout life and despite being half her age, I understood straight away what was up and I was able to help her. Womanhood is 100% a universal experience we women share and I wouldn't have it any other way.

I’ll preface this by saying I’m usually not a stupid man but I was at the end of my third 16 hour shift in a row and I was very tired. I’ll make this quick:

I got off work, went out to my car, hit the button for the doors on my remote unlocker - as usual. Nothing happened. I tried it a few more times, battery must be dead. I stand there for 10 minutes, mashing the little button, hoping for enough juice to open the doors. Nada.

I call a locksmith, explain that I’m locked out of my car. He says he’ll be right over. 20 minutes later he arrives. He walks up with his tools, inserts a thing that looks like a blood pressure cuff in the door jamb. He starts making conversation as it inflates, pushing the door open:

“So locked your keys in the car? No problem sir, I’ll have it open in a minute.”

“No, my keys are right here, my key fob is dead.” I replied.

He stops and for about 10 seconds. Doesn’t say a word. He sees my keys in my hands. Takes them from me, inserts them in the lock and opens the door.

Advanced court tactics.