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Never forget the "tease" in tease & denial

1.- try to get a strapless, strap on, (feeldoe), it inserts in your vagina, and you can use it without straps, you will have vaginal stimulation as well as clit stimulation from every thrust, this double stimulation which is fully guided by you, will make you cum so fast, or maybe many times.

2.- pegging doesn’t need that the man has good bedskills, no matter dick size, no worries if he can’t last to much before cuming, since he is making love with his ass.

3.- it gives you the dominant perspective, natural fears, insecurities and worries that men struggle with when they have sex, it is so beautiful to get to know more your man, be on his shoes (or having the dick you know what I mean), so you also become a better lover, when you have regular sex.

4.-your man also get the female perspective of sex, he will know more than ever before the importance of warming up and forepleay before to get there, how to stimulate the hot spot when he finds it and all those things that many men don’t do properly.

5.- a man willing to take the femenine role, is an open minded man, I can assure you that a pegged man is a man without toxic masculinity, it is a loving, gentle, kind man, in touch with his femenine side.

6.- does this make my men less masculine? Not at all, a man will always be a man regardless of his taste in sexuality, just like using the strap doesn’t make you less femenine.

7.- personally I see it as a deep act of love, I wouldn’t peg a guy I’ve just met, for me it is a truly romantic experience, full of lust. I wish you girls try it at least once in your life🤗

it does have to be done right though. it’s not like locking him up with change him into the perfect husband. you need to train him.

how do you do that? simple really. make rules and ENFORCE them. be consistent. make the expectation clear and when it is violated then there should be a consequence.

for instance, a lot of the time when you first start out, he will be super horny and want to have sex all the time. for me, i didn’t want to have sex that often but it was getting annoying listening to him complain. so i made a rule. he NEVER gets to initiate sex. i am the keyholder after all. I make the rules! if he ever tried to initiate sex then he was literally spanked until his ass was red. he did not like that. now he never nags me. it’s always up to me when we have sex. be careful though. having your man in chastity does require consistent sexual interaction or he will feel neglected and grow resentment.

i made a rule that if at any point during the day he ever disobeyed me or didn’t do exactly what i wanted him to do when i asked that there would be no chance of sex that night. i would get dressed in his favorite lingerie and just walk around him. forcing him to strain in his cage and then i would make him know that this could have been his tonight but now he has to just watch. this was his torture.

once you get some of the basic rules down and he starts to follow them then you can branch out into more rules. make it clear that you expect romance and intimacy. only then will he ever get to have sex with you again.

personally i really like to lay down a lot of rules to make my life better that simultaneously tease and deny him.

1, every friday in the afternoon. he draws me a bath and pours me a wine. he does this naked, in nothing but his cage. this teases him and gives me a relaxing night after a long week.

2, every morning he is expected to wake up before me and bring me coffee in bed.

3, he keeps my car gas full.

4, ever night before bed he has to strip naked and get down on his knees and ask if there is anything i need before bed. this is when i may tell him to additional things or it is when i may tell him to get ready for some fun (get my strapon, get his strapon, go down on me, etc..). this way he is always excited for this part of the day because it might be something fun!

etc… anything that makes you life better. but try to make it fun when possible. for example he can do a chore naked in nothing but his cage or you can dress him up to do chores (think maid uniform while he cleans the house every sunday! or while he serves you wine in the bath on fridays).

Chasity is a game of tease AND denial. If you are not teasing regularly with the denial, then you are just denying. And just the act of denial is neglect.

denial does not mean the absence of sexual activity. denial is specifically the denial of release and or orgasm. In fact, you should be participating in intimate activity regularly in order to keep Chastity game interesting for both of you.

If you’re having a hard time of thinking of things to do, here are some ideas:

Whenever you want in public or in private, make him pull out his cage so you can inspect it. Don’t just look at it. inspect it. grab it. take a picture of it. Kiss it. fondle it. put it away. This could be done at home while he’s driving or out in public.

When you’re apart, make him send you a picture of his cage.

If you’re out at dinner, play Footsy with it.

If you’re out dancing, grab it and play with it while you’re dancing

Give him a caged blowjob . In the bedroom, but other places too like while he’s driving. Or maybe crawl underneath his desk while he’s working and give him a cage BJ there.

Make him wear a butt plug for a certain period of time during the day. Tell him it’s to get ready for later when you plan to peg him or just tell him to wear it for fun even if you’re not gonna take him later it’s just fun to watch him walk around with it.

get a remote controlled but plug and use it at dinner, or use it like a service bell to let him know you need something.

Make him wear lingerie underneath his clothes when he goes out! There is nothing cuter than a pink cage, surrounded by a garter belt in stockings. Take a picture or a video to keep in your phone. This is especially fun if he’s going somewhere with his friends. Imagine his embarrassment while he has to wear his cute pink cage with a garter belt and stockings while he’s golfing! 🫢🤣 ⛳️

Put on your strap on and walk around the house displaying it. Then you can either use it or not either way it’s going to drive him crazy with anticipation. Maybe you just make him give it a blow job and then put it away. You could even watch TV while he does it. No need to interrupt your day.

Next time you’re going somewhere tell him that you’re going to drive. Surprise him when you pull out your strap on dildo and make him give you road head. (Maybe just drive around the neighborhood so it is safe). Take a video!

have him clean the house, naked and nothing but his Chasity cage. Or for extra bonus fun, making him dress up like a slutty maid and wait on you hand and foot. Have him get you a beer while he cleans waits on you while you catch up on your shows. Make him your little house wife. Use the remote controlled plug to beckon him for a refill. At some point bend him over the counter and give him a reward. make him wear a strapon over his cage. Jerk off his strapon or even give it a blow job.

ask him if he wants to be allowed to jerk off. When he says yes, have him put his strapon on and he can jerk off his strapon for as long as he wants.

Have him lay naked on the bed. Sit on him reverse cowgirl style and bounce back and forth on his cage like you were having sex and just make him watch. This will drive him crazy!

Bend over the bed in front of him and let him try to fuck you with the cage. Make a collection of photos of him in compromising situations (caged, dress in outfits, give you a bj, getting pegged, etc) and randomly text these photos to him just to remind him of his position as your slutty chastity slave.

does he use his phone too much? Make him put one of these pbotos as his background when he unlicks his phone. It will remind and humiliate him ever time he opens his phone but i guarantee it will also keep him from using his phone a lot more. Which is good because he should be focusing on you and his chores!

Tell him that you told one of your friends about his cage (or actually do!) but dont tell him who. He’ll constantly be wondering who it is and be so embarrassed around all of them. Schedule a text message with a picture of him sucking your strapon that will send to one of your friends in 1 hour (or whatever time) if he doesn’t get one of these chores done by that timeframe. You’ll never see a man move faster!

make him shave his whole body and keep it shaved (except during summer where others will see his shaved legs).

Paint his toe nails with gel nail polish (he wont be able to get if off even if he tries) or make him keep his own nails painted. get temporary tattoos and make him wear ones that say bitch, sissy, slut, princess, caged, a queen of spades symbol, or some other embarrassing thing. Make him give you naked massages every night.

wear the key to his cage around a necklace. Let people see it. If they know, the know 🤷‍♀️

hook the key to his cage around your garter belt or panties when you are having sex. Let him see it but not touch!

Make him watch you masturbate. make him show you his porn collection.

make him wear a strapon and jerk off to his porn collection.