How my mom reacts and how she should:
- whenever i try a new outfit and my kinda proud of how it looks all together i sometimes go downstairs to show my mom, (for some unknown reason) i think that she will like it, but she never doesnât. I ask her what she thinks and then she always answer something like: â what are you wearing?!? You canât go around looking like that!â (I am either wearing a cosplay or an actual outfit for school or something, which would be a graphic t-shirt, black pans, some chains and boots). I usually ask her whatâs wrong with it and she answers: âit looks terrible!/it doesnât suit you!/what will other people think?!/you are going out like that?!?â
-If she sees that it makes me happy, she shouldnât respond like that. I mean she doesnât have to pretend to like it or anything, but she could respond nicer. Like asking me first what i think, saing that itâs not really her style but if itâs makes me feel good itâs good enough for her or just trying to understand why i like it... for comparison whenever my mom shops around and asks me my opinion on a piece of clothing that she likes, i am expected to love it. When i tell her that it doesnât suit her with a reason for my opinion, like because itâs a weird blue patern and it doesnât go very well with her shin tone, she gets mad at me.