Reminders for myself and other trans mlm/nblm
You aren't a fuckin fujoshi
You aren't just a straight girl in disguise
It's okay to feel attraction towards men as a transguy/nonbinary
Your attraction is not only valid, but should be cherished, for it is a part of who you are.
Your attraction and love for men is beautiful
Yes, you and another guy dating is gay, it doesn't matter if you're pre-transition or not
If anyone has ever told you otherwise, then tell them to go fuck themselves and never speak to them again :-)
or educate them depending on the situation
[If you are a TERF, anti LGBT, or a kink/DDLG blog, then don't fucking touch this post]
[non mlm and cis ppl pls reblog, this could really help someone out]
@toad-hexe
1. actually yeah i did go thru that struggle, stop assuming shit abt us based off the fact that we r afab. for a long time i had a hard time accepting the fact that i didnt like women, that i was specifically attracted to men, and most of it was bc of heteronormative culture.
before i came out as trans, i identified as a butch lesbian bc so many people around me pushed the idea that bc i had a more male-like personality, that i must be a lesbian.
a lot of that was, in fact, based off of heteronormative standards being pushed on lesbian labels, which that me being forced to think that bc im a masculine person, i must be female-attracted.
when i realised this wasnt the case, with that when i realised i was not happy as a lesbian because it did not fit who i was, and bc i was not truly attracted to women, i started finally accepting who i was as a gay man.
what delayed me even further from accepting myself is literally what u r saying in this comment and with that the whole “fujoshi“ shit.
so, sir... please fucking stop assuming shit about gay transmen, u havent gone what we have gone thru, and u assuming shit abt what we have gone thru is only making u look worse.
2. u realise i am in fact male presenting right??? i pass as male pretty much 100% of the time. even if i had not gone thru what i have gone thru, i still cant kiss my bf in public, we still are at risk of being hatecrimed, and as is we have already dealt with homophobia. everyone experiences shit like this differently, so please fucking educate urself before saying shit like this bc as of rn, u look super uneducated and rly inconsiderate.
3. u calling us heterosexual is literally misgendering us so... 🤢
