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“A whole revolution can be enacted without a single act of violence, simply by waiting for the apple to ripen and fall.”

— The Art of Seduction

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booksofrobertgreene

“Secure your power through numbers and you will not have to worry about the few you cannot seduce.”

— The Art of Seduction

triskele-y

listen,,,,,,, recovery,,,,, won’t, make you neurotypical,,,

rottenbutrecovering

the goal of recovery isn’t- and shouldn’t be- to get rid of your symptoms. The goal is to learn to control them and react to them in healthier ways. For example, recovery isn’t supposed to stop you splitting, but to give you methods of reducing its effects and dealing with it in a healthy way

queenofdissocation

This is soooo important so so so important. What I’ve struggled with is that everything is STILL there all my issues and symptoms

diaryofaborderlineman

having bpd sucks because you memorize and learn people’s everyday routine so if they don’t talk to you at their usual hour of the day you automatically think they hate you and want nothing to do with you

pochacco

honestly you can’t just keep making the same mistakes again and again hoping that one time it will eventually work out. bad habits don’t magically disappear. you have to make conscious efforts to make improvements in your life, and when you notice ritualistic bad habits, you can’t just hope that next time will be the time you finally succeed. if you’re doing something wrong, fix it!!! if you see the same thing happening over and over again, take it as a sign! it is rare for these things to unravel by themselves, so figure out what the root of the problem is and do what you can to fix it!!!

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pochacco

honestly you can’t just keep making the same mistakes again and again hoping that one time it will eventually work out. bad habits don’t magically disappear. you have to make conscious efforts to make improvements in your life, and when you notice ritualistic bad habits, you can’t just hope that next time will be the time you finally succeed. if you’re doing something wrong, fix it!!! if you see the same thing happening over and over again, take it as a sign! it is rare for these things to unravel by themselves, so figure out what the root of the problem is and do what you can to fix it!!!

parentless-suggestions

Your kid shouldn’t be relieved to know you’re not home. Your kid shouldn’t have to double lock all of their stuff up because they’re scared you might go through it. Your kid shouldn’t have to think “Here comes the screaming” or brace themselves for the worse because you’re angry or stressed. Your kid shouldn’t have a genuine fear of you even being close to touching them. Your kid shouldn’t be afraid of you; your kid shouldn’t be afraid of the thought of you.

openblogtomyabusivemother

Your narcissistic mother does not define you. You abusive father does not define you. Your enabling brothers do not define you. Your aunt who thinks you are going to hell because you’re gay does not define you. Your judgmental sister-in-law who won’t let you see your niece and nephew does not define you.

These sentences are specific to me and my “family” members.

What sentences would you write? Who in your family does not not define you? What do they do that doesn’t define you?

Say it loud. Say it proud. :-)

** Thank you to Emm Roy at positivedoodles for the amazing art work! Check out her tumblr for more. I guarantee you her doodles will draw a smile on your heart.

brightonartiscandlehead

The emotional abuse does not define me.

The word “crazy” does not define me.

The word “sinful” does not define me.

The word “inappropriate” does not define me.

The nights crying do not define me.

What they did to me, what they called me, what they made me think, is not who I am.

diaryofaborderlineman

reblog if your childhood was robbed from you because of trauma and you’ll never be able to experience life to the fullest because of it.

queenofdissocation

Shout out to all those who have dysfunctional/abusive families. Shout out to those who will spend this Christmas alone because they’ve finally escaped and burnt all bridges with their family.

Shout out to all of those who’ve gone home and are immediately pigeon holed back into that space they’ve been trying to grow from. Who feel exactly like they did 10 or 5 years ago.

Shout out to those who just walking through the door and staring at the bedroom walls that they fought so hard to get out of feels triggering.

Shout out to those who have been dreading Christmas and are counting the hours until they can return to their safe space.

Shout out to those who Christmas is something they have to recover from and not gently cherish.

To all those with fucked up families this year especially those going back whether it be through loyalty or the notion of family that’s been shoved down our throat. I’m here for ya. You’re not alone. 💖💖

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tasteofcaviar

What people don't understand about abusive parents

What people don’t understand about abusive parents is that we can’t always hate them. We can’t just constantly hate them because a lot of them are quite nice half the time. It makes it hard to hate them because it’s like “they’ve been horrible to me but they treated me to a present yesterday or a cute little chocolate bar so I’d me rude to hate them because of what they’ve done for me” and it’s destroys your mind because then people questions if they actually are abusive when you seen to like them at that time.

queenofdissocation

abusive parents: /take away my ability to connect and relate to others and socialize normally

society: we pretty much don't care about you if you can't socialize properly

abusive parents: / take away my ability to focus and finish tasks in time

education: you're a complete failure if you can't even focus on your studies and finish tasks in time

abusive parents: /cause massive traumatic panic attacks and constant anxiety paired with executive dysfunction that damages my ability to work

capitalism: if you can't work you have no value and don't deserve a living space or survival resources

me: pissed, also feeling there's a conspiracy in here

rottenbutrecovering

This is your merry reminder that it is 100% okay to be mentally ill on Christmas. Your symptoms don’t disappear just cause it’s Christmas- and anyone who says anything like “it’s Christmas cheer up!” Or “it’s Christmas, stop being moody!” is uneducated and rude.

queenofdissocation

“Many abused children cling to the hope that growing up will bring escape and freedom. But the personality formed in the environment of coercive control is not well adapted to adult life. The survivor is left with fundamental problems in basic trust, autonomy, and initiative. She approaches the task of early adulthood――establishing independence and intimacy――burdened by major impairments in self-care, in cognition and in memory, in identity, and in the capacity to form stable relationships. She is still a prisoner of her childhood; attempting to create a new life, she reencounters the trauma.”

— Judith Lewis Herman, Trauma and Recovery: The Aftermath of Violence - From Domestic Abuse to Political Terror (via omyt)

bob-belcher

side effects of being numb due to mental illness:

not crying for weeks and weeks on end until one day, you’re breaking down over something that isn’t actually worth getting upset about

not being able to tell if your feelings for people are platonic or romantic or if you’re just lonely

instead of caring too much, you don’t care at all about anything

not being able to process anything going on in your life and when you try, your brain stalls out

losing your train of thought every five seconds, so when you try to have a conversation, you have to pause and remember what you were trying to say

word vomiting

mind “static”

ivegotnostrings

I don’t think I’ve ever read something so accurate

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nathanovershares

hypersexual boys are not playing into the stereotype that “all boys are sex mad”

boys with anger issues are not inherently violent and bad

boys with anxiety and depression don’t just need to “man up”

boys are just as affected by mental illness as girls and those boys deserve love and support

buffysummers

There’s always going to be a part of me that’s sloppy and dirty but I like that, with all the other parts of myself. Can you say the same about yourself, fucker?

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