🚫🐦I'm a ball of feels 🚫🐦

Based off this post by @7-inches-of-satanic-panic

Endurance runners

Huge credit to Perry_trees over on instagram- the man is incredible with a rope!

Do I in fact own shoes?

Cause like

I dont know about anyone else

But I am perpetually hovering three inches above the strong subconscious belief that everyone knows what they're doing at all times except me, so if you change your normal patterns and I notice, then I will assume it is an intentional choice with a thought-out plan behind it and I will avoid interfering

"I feel like I'm the only one who does this chore. Can we start taking turns?"

"I'd like you to ask me how I'm doing more often."

"It bothers me when this area stays messy so long. Can you do X when Y happens?"

"I feel like the onus is on me to initiate X, and it's wearing me down. Could you try making the first move more? Like 3-4 times a week?"

"I'm feeling upset right now and I'd like to spend some time with you."

"When X happens, I feel like you're taking my work for granted."

"I'm feeling neglected. Could you do X?"

"I'm burnt out and need help."

"I feel like I'm the only one putting effort into X."

"Do you notice this?"

"Are you bothered by this?"

"I am bothered when this happens."

"X habit of yours bothers me."

fish full of honey. welcome

to my twisted mind.

Ya'll couldn't even handle HER.

You might think the fandom cop's journey went like this:

They watched/read/played the canon

They came across X

They saw fans be into A/B despite it being problematic because of X

When actually the fandom cop's journey is:

They watched/read/played the canon

They really disliked A/B

They go sifting through the canon to find ways in which A/B is problematic.

This is why some fandom cops will yell about problematic age gaps in one fandom while shipping a pairing with a similar age gap in a different fandom.

The age gap was never the issue.

The dislike was the issue.

The fandom cop isn't gonna go 'oh huh, I guess age gaps aren't as big an issue as I thought!' over the pairing they dislike, because it's still a pairing they dislike.

I took the cargo ops class at school but my teacher explained that it doesn't give a certification and I'd only be okay for ship's crane and the school forklifts. she said I could take an online exam and get my cert. I paid 60 bucks.

I'm googling and I'm seeing a lot of resources saying that the online programs cover the classroom part of the exam but not the in person practical aspect.

29 CFR 1910.178 (l)(2)(ii)