So here’s a little update;

I’ve grown up at least a little

Yes, I’m still with my boyfriend. 3 years strong. Love him so much 💕

I’m studying performing arts and music for sixth form; I want to pursue musical theatre

I dyed my hair auburn, but it still looks pretty brown

I’ve lost a lot of weight from the frequent dance lessons, and gotten way more flexible (I was never overweight to begin with, and this isn’t as important, I’m just proud 😅)

I got a kitten named Ajani who is 75% my responsiblity. I’m taking care of him quite well.

Struggling a lot with self esteem at the moment, will hopefully be getting a therapist

I still care about all of you, I just made a new blog with a new email and I’ve been spending way more time on that one.

Sksjsjsksjsk this is when I’m going to get a bunch of people disagree with me. And I’m really sorry.

I feel that transgender women are kind of.. a different type of women. Of course I see them as equal, and I’d never go out of my way to use the wrong pronouns. But you know how you can get orange juice with or without pulp? It’s kind of like that. Of course it’s still orange juice, but it’s a different type of orange juice.

(In this case, I guess pulp is reproduction?)

The problem is, transwomen don’t have the same experiences as ciswomen. Growing up they’re obviously treated as men, and they don’t have periods. Being a woman I believe is way more than throwing on a dress and putting on makeup, but I don’t think anybody reading a blog like mine wants a lecture on biology. (Unless someone asks for it, in which then I would love to.)

Summary: It’s just a bit.. difficult. They can be and definitely are apart of the tradfem community, but it’s a widely different experience than a ciswoman’s. They are equal, but they don’t get a say in anything including reproduction/reproductive rights. Don’t misunderstand, they do. I just don’t believe that they should.

I don’t see why people have to clarify they don’t agree with me 😅, I didn’t really ask. It’s the way I choose to lead my life, you don’t have to live by my rules.

Thank u lots, sweetie!

My opinions are mainly my own lifestyle that only apply to me, rather than the whole world. Nobody has to live by my conventions apart from myself.

I do believe there is such thing as masculinity and femininity, as much as social conventions they are, they’re a vital part of our society. So yeah, I give a few things a gender like the colour pink but that doesn’t mean men can’t wear pink. It’s just a feminine colour, and I choose to lead a lifestyle aligned with femininity. So I like pink.

Rising from the dead here, replying to an ask from probably more than half a year ago, no less! But hi~!

I love the statement that you’re saying here, thank you for being so accepting of my lifestyle! But modern feminism just seems to be more about trivial issues and belittling men now, rather than the equality of women. I used to call myself a feminist, and my boyfriend used to call himself a feminist too but we both realised together that we are very non-feminist people.