I Love You ♥️

I hate to have to do this, but my current situation gives me no other choice.

Hi. My name is Leo, and I'm an 18 y/o trans man who's going to get kicked out the second I accidentally piss off my parents. I need money to afford an apartment & associated expenses so that I can get somewhere to live before I end up homeless. My parents have threatened to call the cops on me, kick me out and force me into the women's shelter, and take away almost all of my possessions, including the cell phone that I bought with my own money and pay for myself. I could be homeless at any moment, and it's scary as hell.

I would greatly appreciate it if you could spare even a dollar or two and buy me a ko-fi. I'm going through ko-fi since they don't take a fee, and I need all the help I can get. Every cent helps.

Even if you can't or won't donate, please signal boost this. I hate asking other people for money, but I have no other choice.

My dilemma is not anything about Why I like the ship, BUT if I write a fic how should I tag? A/C is actually the canon and usual pairing in the fandom. However I’m still having dynamics of A/B. At the same time I don’t want my fellow rarepair lovers to think that A/B will have a happy ending and that A is more likely to go with C. Should I tag as one sided? Even if it started as mutual love, but ended up not?

Name: Kaz, idc if you call me something differnt/nickname.

They/them, he/him is also chill

I'm a Nonbinary Lesbian, Suppotive of Bi/Pan lesbians and gays, pro neopronouns/mogai Identities.

Kinnies, Self Shippers, etc are welcome and supported

I'm Pro Ship (as my blog name suggests). Antis if you are genuinely asking something/not attacking or harassing me I'm 100% okay with you interacting.

I do have Notps, I will do my best to tag any rants w/ them. Not listing what they are unless they come up in discussion

Name: Kaz, idc if you call me something differnt/nickname.

They/them, he/him is also chill

I'm a Nonbinary Lesbian, Suppotive of Bi/Pan lesbians and gays, pro neopronouns/mogai Identities.

Kinnies, Self Shippers, etc are welcome and supported

I'm Pro Ship (as my blog name suggests). Antis if you are genuinely asking something/not attacking or harassing me I'm 100% okay with you interacting.

I do have Notps, I will do my best to tag any rants w/ them. Not listing what they are unless they come up in discussion

If you're scared of your friends for whatever reason, it you're scared of liking being in a specific fandom or liking a specific ship because you think you'll lose all your friends over it, if your friend group is essentially built on the idea that you're all good and everyone else is bad, if your friends use social ostracization and online stalking and harassment campaigns as threats and weapons, if your friends use fear and moral panic to keep people in line. . . . .

Extensive block lists with social consequences if your friends find you still follow any of those people? Mainstream books or news sources with conflicting opinions dismissed as “problematic” or out of touch? Information control.

Being expected to adopt the newest language, positions and targets without explanation even if they rapidly change? Any concerns or objections dismissed as evidence of incurable stupidity at best, unforgivable moral corruption at worst? Lumping wide varieties of info and theory together in simple good and evil categories? Thought control.

Effusive praise for complying with group demands, including and especially behavior that may make you uncomfortable, like bullying others? Seeing your friends send dissenters death threats? “Hot and cold” treatment, favoritism, competition for attention by powerful or BNF members of the group? Guilt trips about spending time and attention elsewhere? Emotion control.

Not tagging your damned disgusting r*pe fetish in your damned disgusting fanfic.

I might break some laws myself if I see another one and your faces right in from of me. 👊

R*pe is not a kink, you fucking disgusting, waste of resources, pieces of trash.

You're not "coping" by writing it - a survivor would never forget to tag it unless they were a raging psychopath, and psychos don't need to cope to begin with.

I get it. You get off on fucking up a survivor who comes across your disgusting shit fanfic. You get off on upsetting someone so much they either become suicidal or otherwise lose the ability to function. You like making people scared and like giving them nightmares. You love yourself so much you don't even care about the complete strangers who might see your disgusting "kink" without consent.

I hate this fandom SO MUCH. You don't get to say "I'm an adult!" to excuse yourself from common decency!!

And stop labeling things with this shit in it as BDSM!