A su Servicio

Do you mean besides the obvious? Like all the sexy fun & laughter between us, the more intimate connection we have, the kisses & cuddles we share, the loving attention he gives me, the many things he does for me, and of course all the orgasms I have. Those are just the obvious things. Our frequent chastity games deliver more, far more in fact.

I adore the power rush I get when I tell him to “lock it on” and I’m amazed every time he does as I say. I find it extremely flattering that he is wearing a cage for me. I know it can impinge on his normal daily life, especially when we go out places with him still locked in it (like having to sit to pee for example.) But he copes with it, for me, because he loves me.

I know I can’t see it, under his clothes, but I like how the cage is a constant reminder of me. It cradles his manhood, holds him tight, just like the grip of my hand. I’m well aware he likes looking at other women (he’s a man, it’s normal) but it’s me he is thinking of, and I know this from the things he says, and the things he shows me. It’s comforting to know I’m frequently on his mind.

Most of all I love the fact that he willingly gives up playing with what most men, in their youth, think defines a man - his penis. Think about it, he willingly gives up the ability to get erect, to masturbate, to have sex, and to even have a proper orgasm, all because I’m more important to him than any brief moment of self pleasure.

In exchange, despite my shyness and inhibitions, I make sure he sees, touches, kisses, licks and always enjoys a lot more of me, my underwear, my flesh and my private parts, than he ever did before. I also ensure the orgasms I share with him are more frequent, more visual, more audible and more enjoyable. Last but not least I help him learn how to pleasure me in so many different ways. I show him all the things I like best, and encourage him to practice them over and over again.

1. CHASTITY

Lock its genitals in order to restrict access. Make sure it is chaste most of the time, free only in your presence from time to time. This way, its body parts become your property and it is unable to play with itself, which ALL men do.

2. INSPECTIONS

This might seem like unnecessary play only but it is not. It send a strong impulse to its mind about who is in charge and has unlimited freedom. Do it on regular basis.

3. ROUTINES

Routines are very important, any kind of routine. To begin with, decide upon a daily routine with which it will show its respect and humility to you. Make sure there will be no skipping on routines.

4. DISCIPLINE

This is a complete must, done on daily basis. Discipline is the most essential ingredient. It doesn’t need to “deserve it”, it is simply necessary. Find the time and the will every day.

5. TEASE, EDGING, DENIAL

Having and keeping its balls full will ensure its full attention towards you. It will make it beg and it will make it soft on its mind. Have you tried it for hours? No? Try it. Bigger balls equals more obedience and willingness to do anything for you.

6. RUINED ORGASMS

Your slave needs to cum and it will do anything to cum. You will allow it to cum on occasion but you will also slowly take away its right to have that pleasure. Ruin iits orgasms often and make it thank you. In time you could easily have it pleasure-less and without actual orgasms, up to you. Remember, an orgasm is not a right, it is a health necessity. It is not a reward either. Yours are important and only orgasms that should be cherished.

7. HUMILIATION

As bad as this might sound, subtle ways of humiliation are extremely effective. It needs it, it wants it. Do it. Find ways, decide up on them and act upon them. Humiliation makes it more humble. Then humiliate some more, subtly.

8. USE IT, MAKE IT FEEL USED

slaves like being treated like objects or toys. So that’s just what you need to do, use it for your pleasure and needs and then simply discard it. It’s a play, nothing more but it works just fine. Make sure you train yourself for such acts properly, in order not to appear silly.

9. EMASCULATION & PEGGING

Chastising your slave is the begging of emasculation. Pegging is another great way to emasculate. Make it your bitch, bring out its feminine side. Bringing out its feminine side works beautifully in favor of emasculation. Emasculation kills the ego every man has. Ego is an absolute enemy.