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@pluralcoded
hi welcome to pluralcoded would you like some fries with that
just a little comics blog for my experiences with plurality . posts whenever i want to. if you try to syscourse in my inbox ill put a gun in my mouth

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-Coming from a newly realized system? Grasping at straws to learn from others not just health sites
🌱 (seedling) - How did you discover you were plural?
It was a pretty gradual realization for us - at first we thought it was from our psychosis, but it never really went away :P And that was like, four years ago at this point. A lot of our realizations came from 1) Having a 'weird and out of place' fascination with online DID content as a kid (which could mean nothing) and 2) Being surrounded by plural people of all kinds, and talking about our experiences!
🌻 (sunflower) - If you can communicate internally, what is that like? If you can't communicate internally, do you have other methods for communicating with each other?
We actually have REALLY good internal communication compared to a lot of our peers - No doubt because I was already one to introspect. It's somewhat different from idle thoughts (which are less linear, more image-based, and overall 'driftier'), and more like.. talking, but internally. Sometimes it's easier to just get a sense of feelings/body language rather than actual words, but it comes across just as well.
🍀 (four leaf clover) - What advice would you give to a newly selves-discovered system?
Don't focus on what does or doesn't 'count' - Your experiences are your own, and you don't need to fit into specific psychiatric boxes if viewing yourself(s) this way helps you. At the end of the day, it's not just having other people in your head, it's a way the brain copes with stress.
Try to take it slow. Don't rush into separating each individual alter into neat separate parts; having identity confusion is common and not something you need to urgently 'fix'. Figuring out who you are is something that takes some people their whole lives - you don't need to have it figured out in one afternoon!
You do not owe other people information about your trauma or medical history. A diagnosis is not an end-all-be-all, and it shouldn't be treated as such - Hell, we're not even diagnosed, even if it's been medically acknowledged! Anyone who pries into those kinds of details is not worth your time or effort.
Internal communication and being able to take note of switches are skills that build over time. You don't need to worry if it doesn't come naturally at first.
Even with my general distaste for psychiatry, diagnostic information ARE one of the few studied resources we have - It can be helpful if you're the type of person who prefers more specific labels. If conventional DID info doesn't seem to fit for you, but you're still thinking you're plural, try looking into things like OSDD or P-DID. There's some good infographics and reading material out there!
Good luck with figuring things out, anon ♥
i know you cant le epic logic and reason yourself out of insane people delusions but if i dont try then who will?
Is there anything that you do to spend time together?
usually just doodling/watching shit honestly. its hard to do much else these days
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🌹 (rose) - Is plurality, overall, a net positive or a negative for you? (Or neither?) If given the opportunity to become singlet (whether through fusion or everyone getting their own body), would you take it?
i probably wouldn't label it one way or another tbh. like yeah it'd be nice if we could all have our own bodies but that opens up a whole lot of other problems too (esp financially. good lord it takes so much money to feed just ONE body let alone like. 15)
🌾 (sheaf of rice) - What does your average day look like? How does plurality intersect with it?
well lately it's just been a whole lot of sitting around doing nothing. we've been exhausted and dissociated as fuck lately. plurality has both everything and nothing to do with it i think
🍂 (fallen leaves) - Do you experience yourselves as individuals, as parts of a whole, or some secret other thing?
definitely some secret third thing. like objectively its parts of a whole but those parts also have their own shit going on yknow?

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Plural Experiences Ask Game
I keep seeing people say that they wish the plural community would focus less on labels and slapfighting and more on the experience of living as plural, so I decided to make an ask game about it. All systems welcome to participate as long as you respect the spirit of the post and don't drag discourse onto it. Feel free to copy and paste this wherever with or without credit, a bunch of these questions were lifted from other places anyway.
I tried to pick or at least phrase questions to be as inclusive as possible, but I've almost certainly missed things - plurality is diverse and my system only experiences a small corner of it. I encourage people to make their own ask games!
🌱 (seedling) - How did you discover you were plural?
💐 (bouquet) - What analogy would you use to describe your system to a curious stranger?
🌸 (cherry blossom) - What things were major influences upon your system? (e.g. life events both positive and negative; meaningful media; other identities)
🌻 (sunflower) - If you can communicate internally, what is that like? If you can't communicate internally, do you have other methods for communicating with each other?
🍁 (maple leaf) - If you can switch, what is that like? If you can't switch, is it something that you're interested in?
🪴 (potted plant) - If you have a headspace, what is that like? If you don't have a headspace, where do system members normally hang out?
🍂 (fallen leaves) - Do you experience yourselves as individuals, as parts of a whole, or some secret other thing?
🌴 (palm tree) - Is there anything that you do to spend time together?
🌿 (herb) - What tools, if any, do you use to navigate life as a plural system?
🌲 (evergreen tree) - What kinds of relationships (familial, romantic, platonic, etc) exist between members of the system?
🌵 (cactus) - Do system members have disagreements with each other? How do you resolve them, if so?
🌺 (hibiscus) - Is there a "common" plural experience that you don't experience?
🌾 (sheaf of rice) - What does your average day look like? How does plurality intersect with it?
🎍 (kadomatsu) - Do you decorate your space or keep mementos of/for yourself and other system members? (e.g. perfumes, clothes for specific people, art, jewelry)
🍎 (apple) - What advice would you give to a singlet looking to be an ally?
🍀 (four leaf clover) - What advice would you give to a newly selves-discovered system?
🌹 (rose) - Is plurality, overall, a net positive or a negative for you? (Or neither?) If given the opportunity to become singlet (whether through fusion or everyone getting their own body), would you take it?
21- i havent forgotten about this blog ive just been going crazy privately like fr developing schizophrenia so i havent been drawing much. but i appreciate all the support here still. despite 900 torments im surprised i havent split anyone new from what i can tell everyones just been shaken around like a ship on a stormy sea
Who up constantly re-reading/watching/whatever source. Hi. I hate being on this blog but I’m posting on it anyway
recently split alter (dubbed ‘visitor’) nearly deleted this entire blog during a panic attack while i was gone apparently. thanks guys
20- Host has been MIA for multiple days now. HELP!

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new alter split dont know how im gonna stylize it. much to think about
they should invent an online ftm space that doesnt have this weird childish victim complex rivalry with transgender women
this post has gotten a lot of attention and, unsurprisingly, its bringing in guys who are misinterpreting what i've said. i'm going to try and explain in a bit more specific detail. i'm not a political scientist nor am i particularly well spoken, so cut me some slack.
"why are you barging into trans men's spaces to bully them?"
i'm a trans man. i'm not anywhere i'm not already welcome.
"why are trans women allowed to have their own specific term for their oppression, but trans men aren't?"
in greater society, men are viewed as the default while women are viewed as the other. women are subjugated under a patriarchal society. this is the foundational concept of feminism, that women deserve equal treatment as men. society also views cis as the default and trans as the other.
trans women's experience differs from trans men in that they experience intersecting oppression, both as trans people and as women. the term "transmisogyny" was coined to describe exactly this.
trans men experience gender based oppression on the basis of being trans. the term to describe the oppression of trans men is transphobia. "transphobia toward trans men," if you want to really be specific. there is no way to create a word for that without directly implying cis men also face gender based oppression.
"i can't believe you'd say trans men aren't oppressed."
this is not what i said.
like i said, i'm a trans man. i grew up ostracized as a teenager for expressing gender in a way that wasn't "normal." i've had family members tell me, to my face, that they'd be happy if republican politicians stripped away my right to hormones and surgery. i've been denied jobs after telling hiring managers i am trans. i understand this intimately, i've dealt with it my entire life.
this is a semantics issue. guys are ascribing trans men's oppression to the term "transmisandry." and then, when people say transmisandry doesn't exist, that gets interpreted as "trans men do not face oppression" rather than the actual, intended point of "misandry does not exist because men are not oppressed on the basis of being men. therefore, trans men's oppression is based on being TRANS, not as men."
"trans men experience misogyny since they're afab. shouldn't they be allowed to use the term transmisogyny to describe that?"
trans men should be included in things like abortion rights and discussions of menstruation. we agree on that.
i'll try to draw a parallel. a common form of gay male homophobia is to say things like "anal sex is unnatural. men aren't supposed to have sex with each other because they both have penises." but some trans women have penises and have anal sex. should straight trans women be use the term homophobia to describe disdain towards the type of sex they have? the answer to that is: sort of.
misogyny, homophobia, transphobia, intersexism, and so on all exist in this big, ugly, interconnected ball. they all stem from the same idea: there is an ideal standard that all men and women should adhere to. any deviation from this norm should be met with social stigma and violence.
this is why the mainstream terf movement is closely tied pro-lifers and right wing pundits. when you define womanhood with a set of strict, natal rules, you also attract the type of asshole who is against women's liberation, against queer liberation, against intersex visibility.
anyways. another semantics issue. transmisogyny does not just means "transphobia + misogyny." it is specific to trans womanhood, which is why trans men should avoid using the term to describe their experiences.
"but cis men do experience gender based oppression! what about gender non-conforming men?"
see my above point regarding misogyny, homophobia, transphobia, and intersexism all being connected. if a man is experiencing oppression, its likely tied to one of these.
"you sound like a terf, op."
i am saying trans women experience misogyny because they are in the social class of women. this is the opposite of what terfs believe.
"we should kill op with hammers because he uses reddit."
yeah this ones fair actually
19- Not even dignifying it with a response.
random but your icon brings me great joy every time i see it. its so yayyyy
my yayfulness :D my grinful joy
hiiii whats ur favorite kind of cooked meat? (if u eat/like meat)
Generally we really like pork (especially ribs and other barbecue meats) but we tend to eat chicken more often. And of course, we're USAmerican, so. 🍔

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hey sorry I don't mean to bring this up but I'm confused w/ one of your older posts. wdym by "dislikes authority disorder" and "likes bdsm disorder"?
I already explained in the replies of that post, I was specifically referring to oppositional defiant disorder and sadomasochistic disorder(s). You people know you can send us asks about normal stuff right? Not just psychiatric bullshit? Right?
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