Can I level with you for a moment - when a kinky girl tells me she’s limitless it’s genuinely a huge turn off.
Limits in kink are good and there’s no shame in having them. Limits tell me you know how to listen to your body and you respect yourself enough to say no. Knowing your limits and sharing them with your partner is just as important as knowing and sharing your kinks. I want to know what excites you, but just as much I want to know what doesn’t. If not more so if I’m honest.
Yes, I’m into a fair few darker kinks and I do enjoy pushing a sub to their limits but I want to know where the line is so I don’t cross it. I never want to make someone feel genuinely unrecoverably unsafe when they submit. I need to trust that the girl submitting to me can express their limits so that I can feel safe to indulge.
Maybe it’s an unpopular opinion, idk. One thing I know for sure is there’s nothing sexier than consent and knowing your limits is a huge part of informed consent.




















