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Like it ain’t 2005 anymore. A lot of the embarrassing fandumb behavior that was part of the anime/manga boom and with it, BL, was before the generation throwing bitch fits on the internet and also served as a “hey guys, please don’t shout imma raep u *glomp* while wielding a yaoi paddle maybe?” warning, a how not to act, and honestly? That’s not an EVIL FUJO SHIT problem, that’s an immaturity and boundary problem.

“But but but BL is problematic! It’s women fetishizing mlm because they make comics all about things like rape and underage and turning straights and that’s bad!” HAVE YOU SEEN? GAY? MALE? PORNOGRAPHY???? READ GAY MALE LIT/EROTICA? Obviously not because that shit? Happens there. Incest, non-con (consensual non con obvi the performers are all consenting), jailbait/barely legal (art is the only place you could actually legally portray underage relationships but I mean, age gaps? Barely legal? It’s there babes), turning straight boys? Fujoshi didn’t invent that shit baby. Humans love taboo shit. Pornography in and of itself is taboo so of course it’s a den of taboo topics.

“But it’s an unreal depiction of gay male sex!” PORNOGRAPHY. IS. UNREALISTIC. HOLY SHIT. Romance novels are unrealistic. A lot of fiction is unrealistic to one degree or another. Pornography is HELLA unrealistic. If you think only BL is a den of unrealistic iniquity but apparently gay male porno videos and erotic literature is realistic then you’re in for a rude awakening…

Like man, shut up, let people enjoy the romances and pornography they wanna. You ain’t any better than Barbara and her gigs of BL smut over there all because you’re a fucking transmasc enby biromantic lesbian, Kayden, and therefore your consumption of mlm content is (in your delusional reality) the most 清く、正しく、美しく。Like fuck, bruh.

Let’s all just read and make some porno comics. The parts you’re born with or are hot for or the identity demographics you’re in doesn’t goddamn matter. It’s fucking smut – and furthermore, it’s smutty lines on a smutty page. Nbd.

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I mean I think the biggest thing to me is there is a distinction between incest “play” and actual incest and the reason I post about some incest blogs on here is that there are A LOT of them posting/discussing their own family members including their own underage children in a sexual manner and that is NOT okay. 

I personally do not like or enjoy incest fantasies but as long as it is 100% consensual, between adults only and not actual incest then there really isn’t anything I can do about it, however I will post about incest blogs on here if they are disrespecting peoples boundaries, I’ve noticed a lot of incest fantasy blogs have the tendency to add really graphic incest captions to other people’s content, this can be really triggering for some people and just isn’t respectful to other people’s content. 

Admits to stealing, lying, and scamming. Now she’s sending nudes to 20+ year old men at 16. And she doesn’t give a shit, she’ll keep doing it.

If you assault, hit a man, that man has the right to defend himself and hit you back.

Don’t hit people, don’t try and start shit and then act like a victim when the actual victim reacts and defends themselves. 

Just because you’re a woman doesn’t excuse your physical actions and abuse– if a man gets in trouble for hitting a woman, a woman should get in trouble for hitting a man.

Many who first come to view and explore the community of BDSM on Tumblr, enter with the incorrect assumption that they are entering a world with very informal relationships, as well as making certain assumptions about D/s types. What follows is a list of common misconceptions, and the truth behind them.

1. Submissive girls are up for grabs.

Submissive girls are either in a relationship, or they are not. If they are, they belong to no one but their own Dominant. No others have rights over them. If they are single, Submissives may choose to pursue relationships with their choice of Dominants. During this time, they belong to no one but themselves. No others have rights over them.

2. An existing relationship is no impediment for pursuing a submissive girl.

Most in the D/s community are monogamous. While some couples choose to find playmates, and some individuals are polyamorous, the law of the land is, if you see someone is already in a relationship, look for your next one elsewhere.

3. Submissive girls like to be called terms such as “princess”, “kitten”, “pet”, and “slave”.

These are terms of affection that are earned by a Dominant. Submissives do not want to be called these names by anyone they have not submitted to.

4. Submissive girls like to be referred to as “whore”, “slut”, and “cunt”.

Wrong again. Submissive girls who are into degradation like to be called these names by partners they choose, or by their Dominant. When a stranger uses one of these titles, it just feels like disrespect.

5. I can treat submissive girls any way I wish.

Just because they like to give up control, does not make them unworthy of your respect. In fact, they are due respect in spades for enabling Dominants the ability to explore their half of the power dynamic.

6. Dominant men expect others to hit on their submissive.

While some might enjoy being shown they have something that others want, the vast majority of Dominants prefer that their relationship be respected, and you keep your desires to yourself. Not sure is a submissive girl has a Dominant? Try asking.

7. There is nothing wrong with asking any submissive I meet to be my submissive.

D/s relationships require a high level of trust, which takes time to earn. Asking someone you just met to be your Submissive, is like asking that girl who you talked to a few times, that sits behind you in math class, to be your wife.

8. There is nothing wrong with asking any Dominant I meet to be my Dominant.

Again, it is entirely inappropriate to ask someone you just met to be your Dominant. Why would you give a near stranger such a high level of control over your day to day life?

9. Submissives are all alike.

Every submissive wants to do BDSM the way it works best for them. While many hold common traits, each is unique.

10. Dominants are all alike.

This is also incorrect. Not only do they each have their own appetites, but they adapt from relationship to relationship to provide the care and fill the needs of their current submissive.