Diaper kink!

“But there are dark, untouched corners within all of us. Sex can be very exciting in one moment and barely tepid the next. It can feel like love but not be love. It can feel like possession and then the person walks away. You can’t possess another person. You can’t make another person not die. If nothing else, at least my vomit fetish is mine. It’s mine and it’s real.”

Oh, darling, we don't have to jump into this all at once.

We don't need the onesies, the bottles, the pacis or the diapers.

We don't even need to dress you like an obnoxious teenager.

Let's start slow.

You only need to let go of one thing.

It's a tiny thing, really. You won't miss it at all. It's truly just freeing.

Just stop trying to control your emotions.

Feeling frustrated? Show me that adorable little pout when you don't get your way.

Getting angry? Hold your breath and stomp your foot like a toddler throwing a tantrum.

Shy and uncomfortable? Just squeeze my hand and hide behind me. Papa will make it ok.

Overcome with joy? Let that bubbly, infectious laugh of yours flow freely from your lips.

Adults are trained for hide our emotions, not to let anyone see all of those messy feelings hiding inside of us.

Being little isn't about diapers and onesies or paci's and highchairs. It's about letting yourself be unencumbered by those silly societal norms placed on us as adults.

So, how about it? Let's start slow.

You are in diapers or pull-ups for a reason, but they are not interchangeable!  What are the expectations for littles?

Use your diapers (very) often, that’s what it’s they’re for and that’s why you’re in them!

Using your diapers (often) is totally okay, and is 100% expected that you do.  Your diapers are for both voluntary and involuntary use.  You are not expected to ask if you need to use it, just use it.

It’s never an “accident” to use your diapers, but it’s an accident if your diaper leaks (your caregiver can decide if the accident is your fault and what (if any) corrective actions need to be taken).

If you hold it and then go all at once in your diapers, you greatly increase chances for an accident, and having it be your fault so use your diapers whenever you feel the slightest urge to go.

You should be doing little tinkles in your diaper about every few minutes or so (you need to keep that bladder empty, and also make sure you hydrate). Proper hydration also makes your pee less stinky.

If you have a caregiver, it is typical that you won’t even be allowed to touch, or change your diapers, or even to ask for a diaper change (hopefully your caregiver is attentive and will be taking care of your diapers (and any other needs) for you before an accident happens).

If you have a caregiver, you should cooperate fully with having your diaper checked, and having your diaper changed (if you don’t and your diaper leaks (which it will eventually), then it’s your fault and you will be in trouble).

Even if you’re in diapers only a night, these rules don’t change.  Once the diaper is on, it stays on and you’re expected to use it whenever you have the urge to go, and not just for involuntary use (like bedwetting).  Attentive caregivers will check and change your diaper right before going to sleep and even while you sleep if your diaper gets full.  Being in a fresh diaper before going to sleep is the best way to reduce night-time accidents.

If you’re in pull-ups, the rules are very different than when you’re in diapers, and you’ll need to be more disciplined or face discipline!

Your pull-up is like protective underwear (trainers) and is there “just in case”, mostly for involuntary use.  Being in pull-ups and being allowed to use the potty for voluntary use gives you more independence and responsibilities.

You are expected to try to keep your pull-ups clean and dry, unless you ask your caregiver and they say its okay for you to use it (like if you’re stuck in traffic, or at a concert or movie, or having tummy troubles and can’t make it to a potty in time)

Unlike diapers, going potty in your pull-ups is an accident and might get you in trouble (like getting spanked and put back in diapers until further notice).

You won’t be allowed to take your pull-up off, unless your caregiver says its okay, but you will probably be allowed to pull them down to go potty in the toilet and pull them back up when you’re done.

Pull-ups are way more likely to leak than diapers.  Having an accident in your pull-up and having it leak could mean double-trouble for you (and your rear-end).

Having to change your used pull-up will not be popular with your caregiver because some of your clothes might need to be taken off completely before you can be cleaned up and get put into a fresh pull-up.  Keep in mind, that it might be easier for the caregiver to rip the pull-up off, give you a (deserved) spanking, then change you into a fresh diaper, then to take your clothes off and slip a fresh pull-up on you.

If the additional expectations are causing stress, it might be a really good idea to very sweetly ask your caregiver to put you back in diapers instead of using your pull-ups and getting in trouble. Long car rides, air travel, movies, concerts, vacations (Disney!), afternoon naps, sleeping, sicknesses (tummy troubles!), and getting over stressful times, are some very common (and good) reasons for being put back in diapers.

Even though you went in the potty and not in your pull-ups isn’t enough.  Not washing your hands properly, or dribbles and streaks in your pull-ups (or other indicators of improper hygiene) can result in punishments and/or getting put back in diapers.

I'm sorry, have you seen NATURE???

and there's so many more species than this that exhibit homosexuality, varying genders, etc. SO! MANY!

it's very much a natural thing. it always has been. unfortunately, while homosexuality is found in many species, homophobia is only found in one