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Sorry systems can be easily manipulated. Especially if theres high dissociation between parts.

Stop telling us about your nonverbal littles trauma and how bringing it up will make your little just do whatever a person says. Stop telling us that your protector has gone through sexual trauma and if you touch them the right way they shut down. Stop telling us your group of littles is a fawn response.

They are not "tough enough to handle it."

They are not immune to manipulation.

being trans and gay were removed from the DSM because there’s was no scientific evidence that either of them were actual disorders.

Forming alters has scientific evidence to constantly prove that it can only happen through forming a CDD which can only happen through trauma.

(Pro)endos try not to bring up queer and trans people in the topic of mental illness GO

Yes, but this can also be harmful.

If doubt is just harming you, it's not productive and can be impostor syndrome. It is however important that we recognize that, hey, maybe looking into similar disorder as alternatives isn't dumb either! A lot of people's genuine concerns/doubts about possibly having a different disorder get shut down under the premise that "you ARE a system!!!!!" (which gives endo "the future is plural" vibes) or "doubt is a symptom so it confirms you have did!!!".

NORMALIZE considering other disorders. ALWAYS. There are so many similar disorders that cause dissociation, amnesia and identity disturbances, but for SOME people, DID is the only option... You are causing more harm than doing good. Please be cautious.

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Sending love to:

-Sending love to Systems struggling with suicidal thoughts. To Systems who are thinking of ending it all soon. I know living can be so painful, your feelings are valid. I hope you can find your reason to stay however big or small

-Sending love to Systems with passive suicidal thoughts. Your pain is also valid even if others don't take it as seriously.

-sending love to Systems who have survived an attempt. I'm so glad you're still here with us, I hope things get better from now on.

-Sending love to Systems deciding to live another day no matter how hard it may be. I'm so happy you're here.

-Sending love to Systems with chronic suicidal ideation. I know it's frustrating being told it'll "get better". I'm sorry you've been living in so much darkness for such a long time. I hope even among the darkness you can still find light and have moments of joy.

-sending love to Systems who are clean from self harm. You're doing great, keep it up!!

-sending love to Systems who have just relapsed. Recovery isn't linear, you're not a failure.

-sending love to Systems who selfharm and aren't ready to give it up yet. I hope you can find a better way to cope someday but for now as long as you are being as safe as you can, that's enough.

-sending love to alters who have roles relating to self-harm and suicide. You're more than just your role and it's not your fault that you were made this way. Recovery is possible for you too.

-sending love to Systems who struggle with conflicting thoughts on self harm and suicide. To Systems who have alters who hurt themselves and alters who want to get clean. To Systems who have alters who want to live and alters who want to die. I hope hope you can all heal and recover together, I hope you find common ground and that one day there won't be as much of a push and pull.

functional multiplicity AND final fusion are both perfectly healthy and valid ways to heal.

>looks into headmate

while they're similar and sometimes taught in duo courses in schools, they aren't the same.

Psychology is the study of the brain and how it works

Sociology is the study of people and how they interact

if there is a sociological research paper on endo systems, it's not proving their existence with anything actually relevant to the question, it's simply explaining how the communities work and how people within them interact with each other

Don't tell people your triggers, especially any negative ones

You don't even have to tell them your name if you don't want to, you don't have to tell anyone all your alters/headmates names, you don't have to tell anyone how many alters/headmates are in your system