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Social anxiety sucks. Have a presentation thing in college next week and now I want to quit altogether. I have no friends anyway so nobody would even care

I need advice. Today I went on my first ever date with a girl (I’m a bi girl) and it went really well. My dilemma is that I really liked her but I also have a crush on my best guy friend and my heart is torn, I don’t know what to do. I don’t know if he feels the same way and I don’t know if I want to ask him as I’m afraid that he will reject me / make it awkward and that it’ll end up killing our amazing friendship. I feel like this is an odd situation to be in but I don’t know what to do.

I'm already 20 and my mental health is improving now so I'm trying to find a job and I just found the perfect internship for me, I'd be doing what I love and apparently they pay well enough. The problem is I have to call to schedule an interview and even though my anxiety is getting better, phone calls are still something I'm terrified of. I really want the internship but I freeze everytime I think about calling them

everyone is worried about me. they text me saying to make sure i'm still alive. they know i'm not eating because i don't have an appetite. they tell me i'll be fine. they say to just be happy. they say they don't understand what's wrong if everything that happened is in the past. and yet still, nobody makes me speak. they say they'll leave me alone so i'll feel better. i cant make them understand that i need them to rip it out of me. i don't know what to do. idk if i want to be here.

Hi - so I’m in a really close friend group with another girl and two boys. Last summer I had a “friends with benefits” kinda relationship with one of them but that ended and we’re still close just as friends. The problem is, I’m now talking a lot and flirting with the other guy, and I definitely have a crush on him. I’m also sure he feels something for me too, but we never talk about it and it’s killing me. What to do?

Hey I’m the anon from like 3 asks ago about the whole nervous talking to people thing. I just had a whole discussion with my dad and we’re going to look in hopefully getting me some counselling to help with it so thanks for giving me the courage to try bringing it up again I’m glad now I’ve finally gotten someone to listen :)

Hey how are you doing? I hope you’re okay :)

are there like actual families out there where the parents love each other and don't yell at each other. my parents have been fighting on and off the entire time i was in the house growing up and my mom keeps telling me it's part of normal for intense people. i don't think it is but it's hard to keep that mindset when you get told otherwise consistantly.

Hey so a thing happened a while ago in school which required speaking for a grade and it went horribly and I’m basically gonna be graded on a recording of me sobbing into a microphone. This has been a thing for me for a while now and I just hey really nervous over random shit. It’s gotten so bad that I lose sleep and have had bad dreams over it. I tried talking about it but everyone just says to avoid things involving speaking but I know eventually I will have to face it or it’s gonna get worse

Time sensitive ig ~ so pride in my city is tomorrow & it's my first pride but there's also gonna be a march by conservative people in support of our homophobic president so I'm scared this might end bad, & my anxiety doesn't help. There's gonna be police with both groups & they're gonna leave by the other side as to not walk through us plus I was really excited about it being my first pride but idk what if it goes wrong? Should I go or wait for the march in december? (I'm going with friends btw)

basically im a lonely bisexual with a lot of chaotic energy and i need help not being so annoying lol

so i have a crush on two people. one is a guy whos caused me much more pain than joy and has changed me for the worst. because of him im literally terrified of relationships and being in one yet somehow i like him? the other one is a girl, who i’ve known since kindergarten and is basically one of my best friends who i can tell anything. i would love to date her, accept i. im terrified of dating as mentioned earlier and ii. shes straight. (im nOt james c) how can i stop liking either one of them?

so im bi as FUCK but im still not out to anyone in my family [most of my friends dont know either]. i reallyy wanna come out to them but i already know i’m gonna get intense backlash from it due to a huge side of my family being homophobic. ive been closeted for just two years and im tired of listening to family members assume my sexuality and roast the lgbtq+ community. now writing this has me thinking if i should ever even come out to them?

i'm very alone. i always have been with abusive parents and family who neglected me as a child and sisters who anted nothing to d with me. but then my sisters wanted me. and they told me i wasn't alone and i had them and we were bffs now and everything was ok bc i could depend on them now. i thought i could trust them. but i was wrong. they left me out. they left me alone again. time after time, without ever saying sorry. i'm alone again. i just wish i had a family who loved me. what do i do ):

Any advice for extended family asking about self harm scars? My parents and brother know, but I recently went to a family reunion that got me thinking. What do you say in that situation? I cant lie about it, nobody accidentally cuts themselves in parallel lines on their thigh, and i do care about these people. I just dont want them to think of me differently -🐻

I'm the anon with a sick sister. Thanks for your answer, it really helped me calm down. I wanna let you know that she's out of the icu now and though she'll still be at the hospital for a while she's a lot better, the doctors said she'll be able to see and walk again! Also she's way more lucid now and we even talked a bit on the phone. Hopefully I'll be able to see her soon when my classes end :)

hey what up it's me, ya boi, car, back at it again and on tonight's episode of what's making me really freaking upset i got on the second team and got yelled at by my parents and i know i shouldn't judge myself by external sources but b r o i feel like shit because of this soccer was a thing that i used to be good at and now i'm not and i'm injured and so so tired because i was. really looking forward to this season and now i'm not because i'm on the second team and 1/2 (srry)