For Dan (happy 35th) but also for all of us who are going through it right now because holy shit are too many of us going through it right now? But on the other side of that are better times. Tumblr bonus commentary: I don't love seeing people say they're not aging because they so visibly are, but in the way where they just seem more themselves every year? Please keep getting older, getting more lines where someone made you laugh, where the smiles add up, it's so much sadder not to be changed by so much living.












