FL couple that likes to have fun and try new thing

So let’s pretend for a second you’re on top of your man, riding him cowgirl style and you want to spice it up a little.

Simply starting with a “you like the way I fuck you?” Is enough to break that awkward ice. He’ll answer yes of course. And then what? “then imagine how Mark (using names of actual guys you know works amazingly) would feel if I fucked him like this”

And then what?

“I would bounce up and down his cock just like this. He’ll get to feel how tight your wife’s pussy is”

And then what?

“then I want him to….”

You get it.

Reliving the past

My husband is very much into hearing stories about guys I used to fuck so this one is his favorite type of dirty talk. The way it goes is when I give him a handjob, blowjob or even ride him, I would say something like “you like the way I stroke your dick?” (asking if he likes it is always a great way to break the ice and initiate dirty talk without feeling awkward). This always gets me a very enthustiastic “YES!” to which I answer something like “this is exactly how I used to stroke [name of guy I used to fuck]’s cock…” (pause for dramatic effect) “except… His was a lot bigger than yours”. This line alone is usually enough to almost bring him over the edge, and if not it’s a great way to go into more details - how did it feel to stroke a much bigger dick, would you do it again, perhaps the guy used to get so horny that he would fuck you before you could finish the handjob, etc. Details, details, details, I can’t stress it enough.

Fair warning: not everyone is into hearing about your past! Make sure your husband is into that before springing this on him.

The commentator

This one is super easy because you don’t feel like you’re talking dirty, you’re just saying what’s on your mind. So the way it works is to watch porn with your man and simply make comments about the movie paying. Particularly about the guy and what you like about him. Compliment his dick, go into details about what you like about him, think out loud like “I really wish I could get fucked like that one day” / “look how big his dick is. He would make me cum so fast with that”

If you’ve fucked someone who reminds you of the guy, by all means tell your husband about it. Watching a porn with a guy who’s fucking some girl senseless and hearing your wife drop the bomb that the guy is the exact same size as some dude she dated in college is a sure way to make your husband look at the porn and all he will see is you being fucked right there on the screen. Very hot for both of you.

The yes ladder

This is a really simple but very effective technique that is easy for new dirty talkers and is guarantueed to drive him crazy.

In a nutshell what you do is ask him some questions that all leads to a yes. With each question the intensity in what you’re asking increases. There’s something crazy hot about this almost confessional way of talking dirty and being “forced to admit” your deepest fantasies. This is a great way to get yourself going, and to test out boundaries.

Optional: let him know ahead of time that you’re going to ask him questions and if he says no just once, he don’t get to cum. See what he’s willing to say yes to - just remember these are forced and horny yesses expressing what he likes in the heat of the moment. They don’t necessarily count in real life.

Example of a yes ladder.

“you like this huh”

“would you like it if i did this to another guy?”

“would you let me pick any guy i want?”

“what if i want a guy who’s bigger than you, would you allow that?”

“do you want him to fuck me hard?”

“what if he makes me cum really hard, can you handle that?”

“what if he makes me scream out his name, can you still handle it?”

“can I fuck him right here in our bed?”

“would you allow me to fuck someone I’ve dated before?”

“even if he really knows how to fuck me good?”

“what if I want him to fuck me while you wait in the other room, will you do that?”

You get it, just continue like this. Make the questions increasingly more provocative and test his boundaries, maybe even cross them if you know he can handle it.

The O-bomb

This method works extremely well if you’ve been teasing and playing with him for a while, keeping him right on the edge and he’s SO close now that you can make him cum any second.

All there is to it is asking him “do you want to cum?” he’ll answer yes almost pleading. And that’s when you drop the O-bomb. The O-bomb is some of the blue thought you put into his head and force him to cum to before he can even react.

For example: he just said yes he wants to cum. You then say “good. I want you to cum while you think of me cumming all over (name)’s big dick” and then you simply force him to cum before he even gets a chance to react. As he’s cumming you keep feeding him the thought over and over until he’s done. “yes, cum while you imagine how he makes me scream” etc.

The story

My personal favorite. One thing is to talk about imaginary stuff that could maybe some day happen. Another is to talk about stuff that actually already happened simply by telling him a story about some incredible hot sex you’ve had, either because the circumstances where hot, because the guy knew what he was doing and fucked your brains out or the guy happened to be seriously hung.

This is also super simple for you because you dont have to make anything up, you simply just tell what happened and describe the situation.

Don’t worry about elaborate descriptions or anything. Trust me he’ll ask you to elaborate when he hears something he likes. Just describe what happened and how it felt for you. Especially the “how it felt” part is very important.

The talk

Now in the safety rules i told you to talk about what he likes and dislikes without touching him so his arousal won’t reflect his answers. This time you do the exact opposite. Simply have a conversation about what he likes while slowly touching his dick. There’s something really hot about just talking while casually stroking him. And you’ll be able to measure his response simply by the way his dick throbs, which is incredibly hot.

How to start it: just casually ask him a question about his likes and as he answers you slowly start touching him while asking him more questions.

The close your eyes and imagine

Sometimes it can be a lot easier if your husband can’t see you when you talk dirty.

Example:

“close your eyes. Do you like my hands on. Your dick? Now imagine i was doing this to another guy. Stroking his big dick just like this. I would be so turned on knowing it isn’t you. My pussy would want to feel him inside me. Imagine how he would push me down and fuck me. Imagine how i would gasp when he starts to stretch me. How I would scream when he goes deeper than you.”

Do you see how the above also make use of the and then what technique to tell the next part of the story?

Putting it all together

Now, I know reading about it and actually doing it is two very different things. When you’re first starting out I actually advice you to plan out your dirty talking. This might not be as sexy and spontaneous, but while you’re still getting the hang of it it’s nice to be a little prepared so you don’t run out of things to say. I would also advice you to start off doing it while giving a handjob, as you will have a much easier time focusing on what to say than if you were giving a blowjob or having sex.

Let’s break the ice with an innocent “do you like the way it feels when I stroke your cock?”

When he says yes I would then say something like “good…. Now close your eyes” wait for him to do it.

Then: “would you like it if I did this to another man?” - “yes”

Then: “you know, [name of ex / bull / fantasy guy] used to love when I stroked his dick. Of course his was a lot bigger than yours, I could barely close my hand around it”

Then: “do you like that, thinking about how I used to stroke his big cock?” - “yes”

Then: “having that big cock in my hands always made me feel so tiny and horny”

Then: “do you want me to show you how I used to suck him?” - “yes”. Then put all your effort into giving the best head you have ever given.

Then: “mmh… Can you imagine how good his cock must have felt in my mouth? I used to suck him just like that until he came in my mouth”.

By now he should be getting pretty close, so it’s time put on the finale. Ask him “do you want to cum?” - “yes”. Start stroking him faster.

“tell me…” - make him say that he wants to cum.

“I want you to cum while you think of me getting fucked by [name]. He would always make me cum so hard. Imagine how I used to scream his name” - if you really want to go all out you could start moaning the name of this other guy, whether that’s your bull, an old fling, your husband’s friend or who ever you like to fantasize about.

Do you see how easy it flows from do you like it, to imagine it’s someone else, to describing how you used to do or would do it on someone else?

With time it will come naturally and you won’t have to plan ahead, but to begin with it’s nice to have an idea of how you want to start it, how you want to end it and how you bridge that gap.

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Mmmmm should we? But what if our fantasies are just too naughty? 🤭🤫

PLAYTIME AT THE CLUB

*this is a real story. The picture, while heavily cropped is from that night. I did not proof read the story… and I used voice to text. - take it or leave it. *

My wife and I had been in the lifestyle for a bit but most of our adventures were limited at that point. Between kids, work and other commitments it is hard to find time to play. Certainly can't bring people home with the kids there. We have found visiting a lifestyle club works well for us. Music, bar, like minded people with clean rooms to play in.

Over the years you meet people that you connect with and become friends. At this point, my wife was comfortable playing with others but she always wanted me there for a threesome. That's her thing, loves mfm. She never expressed much interest in playing solo with another man up to that point, whether I am in the room or not.

We are at the club one evening. It's not packed but not dead either. We are chatting with friends of ours that are married. I was in need of another drink and asked the Mrs if she wanted another as well. With drink orders, I headed to the bar. Since the bar is BYOB, many of the drinks are pre bottled like beer, so the line move quick. I return to find only our female friend from the couple but her husband and my wife are gone. She informs me that her husband took my wife into a room... This surprised me but was within our rules so it was okay.

Both of us make our way over to the room and crack the door (pro-tip, don't open doors at LS clubs unless you are asked to). There sits our friend on the bed, my wife is kneeling on the floor in front of him and slowly sucking his hardening cock. Never breaking her rhythm, she looks out of the corner of her eye to see who opened the door. With a slurp and pop sound she pulls his cock out of her mouth and said I could come in and watch but I have to stay on the other bed in the room before return her attention to his cock. More than happy to enjoy the show, both me and the other wife close the door behind us and climb on the bed together for the show.

I watched as my wife worked his cock with her amazing mouth for about 10 minutes. It seems like a good point to mention my wife lacks a gag reflex! She slowly lowered her head onto his cock, licking and sucking her way down. Once she had him fully engulfed she picked up her pace as he fucked her face. What a display of talent!

Once he was fully hard, well lubed and could hardly hold back any longer, she stood up and removed her panties from her lingerie. She made sure to make eye contact with me but said very little besides asking why my cock was not out... "not enjoying the show"?

With that she climbed on the bed, her ass pointed at me and the other wife. We could see her husbands cock pointing straight up, glistening in the low light from my wife's skilled blowjob. She reached between her legs and wrapped her hand around his thick cock with her small hands that only accentuated his thickness. Once she had it positioned just right, she pushed herself onto his cock. Slowly but steadily we and the other wife watched as his cock disappeared into my wife.

Slow at first, my wife slid up and down on him. After a min or two she picked up he pace and began to grind down harder and harder, filling the room with the slapping sound of her ass on his thighs. This continued for a moment or two before she leaned forward and kissed him while still grinding on him. After a moment or two, she slid off his cock and stood up to remove what little remained of her clothing except for her high heels. As she crawled back onto the bed, she patted next to her and told me to come get a better view before turning her attention back to her lover. Now on her back, he began pushing his cock back into her while I laid next to her with a perfect view of his cock entering her. She wrapped her legs around him, pulling him in as deep as he could go. They both paused for a moment, enjoying the brief change in the position before they resumed their fucking.

Laying next to her, my wife looked over at me and kept eye contact as my friends cock pushed in and out of her. She briefly reached over and grabbed my hand and mouth the words I love you before quickly, getting lost in the moment. Pulling her hand away, she wrapped her hands around him as he was now aggressively slamming his cock into her! The room filled with the sound of his Balls slapping her very wet pussy and ass. I watched intently as the cock of another man piston in and out of my wife quickly bringing her ever closer to pleasure. My wife's moans of pleasure throughout and louder as she got closer and closer only interrupted by the sound of him grunting with every thrust into her. In no time at all, she threw her head back and arched her body letting out a loud" FUCK YES"! She then began squirting all over his cock, thighs, bed, and floor! Just seemed almost too much as he began coming in my wife's pussy. Not one of those gentle orgasms, but one of the orgasms she could feel his cock twitching, and the cum hitting her insides. She cheered him on, "cum in my sweet pussy".

Almost forgetting she was there, his wife chimed in from the other bed. What an amazing show that was. From where she was sitting, she could look between his thighs and his cock plunging into her. She could see his balls slap her ass with every thrust. She could watch her juices drip off of him as she came. She could see his balls tighten and twitch with every pump of his cum into my wife.

As he pulled his cock out of her, his wife Said how incredibly fucking hot that was and couldn't wait to fuck her husband. On the way out the door he said" enjoy that pussy, that's a fun little toy "!

Now the two of us alone in the room, I set out to reclaim my wife. The feeling of slipping into her pussy after she just was fucked was beyond amazing! The mixture of her juices with his cum made her extra slippery and wet. Already worked up and eager for more, my wife came quickly, releasing another warm gush, squirting on my cock. That was all I needed to put me over the edge and add my cum to the mixture of hers and his.