Petercam

“I know that you spend your whole life ejaculating your energies. It was a long way to reduce your orgasms to a normal level. It was a stony way to reduce your orgasms to a level that made it possible to have a meaningful BDSM relationship. But I am so sorry if my education does not achieve the desired success and your mood swings after each orgasm every time bring new challenges to light. I did not make it easy and had long conversations with friendly masters and educators. I read a lot and got further education. It is time to move on. I will now tell you what changes will happen to you.”

“Your dress code will tighten significantly. It cannot be that you feel like doing your rubber fetish, but you otherwise move unmolested in the apartment, as you like it. You bump into furniture edges and damage the rubber as if it were your own. Of course, you will be furthermore kept in rubber. But the rubber will be replaced with a rubber suit of high quality and with a 1.2mm thickness. The new rubber suit was also manufactured especially to your body measurements and will be very close to your skin. It has a inner coating that allows long term wear. Despite the thickness, there are no restrictions on the fit. You can imagine that the suit is very expensive. Therefore, I was strongly advised to ensure the protection of the suit by a second layer of leather.”

“I have bought a leather bondage suit, which was also made to your body measurements. From tomorrow on you will be kept in rubber and leather 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. I can well imagine what you think now. At the moment, you do not believe in tightening up the methods of education and rules, because the idea of spending all day in rubber appeals to you anyway. But the new dress code is only a small part of the changes. In front of that some preparations have to be made. Today your body have to be cleaned very well and you will be shaved from head to toe. You should enjoy your nudity this afternoon. You will wear rubber and leather for a very long time, even if you feel uncomfortable.”

“Another important change will apply to your asshole. Your hole will be plugged with an inflatable butt-plug. The plug is attached to the rubber suit and also designed for long-term wear. Through a built-in hose in the middle of the plug, which can be closed and opened remotely, the master is able to control the body functions of his boy. I will establish strict rules to your body needs and I always have the final decision whether to shit or not. Of course, I will not use violence here either. I am certainly not concerned with limiting your natural digestion. Rather, it is about using the butt-plug in due to increase the pressure on your internal sexual organs, when needed for educational methods. Another feature is the built-in vibrator, which can also be controlled remotely via a smartphone app. It can only be beneficial if the master can increase his boy’s state of arrousal at any time by massaging the prostate.”

“You are still excited, boy? You can imagine how the announced measures increase your lust and you are looking forward to your first orgasm while you are trapped in rubber and leather? So, then let me tell you about another change.”

“The most important measure in your further education is a strict chastity regime. The most successful masters in the world swear on enforced chastity for their boys. So, I will do. I think there is no need for a boy to cum. I know we have already played chastity games with cheap plastic devices to increase your lust with always ending up in removing the chastity device and allowing an orgasm. But that is a thing of the past. I strive for a more permanent solution. That’s why I bought a steel chastity belt, made to your measurements, adapted to your suits and designed for butt-plug integration. Your penis will be stuck in a silicone coated steel tube with no possibility of becoming stiff. If your penis wants to be stiff, he simply will fill the curved tube and end up in a semi-stiff state with pressure against his prison, but never able to reach his full size. The chastity tube for the penis and the whole steel chastity belt are designed for comfort in terms of protection of the skin and cleanliness. But the device is also designed for a maximum of security in terms of preventing orgasms and fraudulent intensions by the boy to ejaculate.”

“As soon as your penis will find his way in the tube, the chastity belt can be properly adjusted around your waist, the butt-plug will be protected by the anal shield, the hose is connected to an output tube and the chastity belt is locked at the front shield by key. This will happen today in the evening after you´re dressed in your rubber and leather suits. From the moment of closing the belt you will stay locked in enforced chastity 24 hours a day, 7 days a week and as a minimum for the next 2 years. You can expect frustrating times, while you´re very horny, with many opportunities just before a cum-shot, but no chance of relief. No possibility for your penis to become stiff, no possibility to touch and even no possibility to see your penis for the next 2 years.”

“After your chastity belt has been closed, you will have to spend the night tied up for security reasons. The chastity belt will have a tremendous impact on your psyche right at the beginning. You will be infinitely horny and want to try everything to free you from the chastity belt. Of course, this is not possible because the chastity belt is almost indestructible and can only be opened with the key I keep. But it’s about protecting you from yourself and helping you to calm down. Your leather bondage suit is equipped with leather belts, D-rings and leather cords. So, it is possible to adapt the suit to your body, to restrain your legs restrictively and to tie your arms to the side of your body. But I will not tie the bondage suit directly to the bed. It is better to tie you additionally in your bondage sleeping bag. Your sleeping bag is lying on your bed anyway.”

“From tomorrow morning, your education will then make a new sense for you. I will use all sorts of techniques to increase your lust and keep it at a high level. I think you’ll be tied up most of the time during the day as well. As long as you have no work to do and I do not need you, I will put you in different heavy bondage positions. Sometimes hanging up bound in leather, tied to the wall, strict rope bondage in your cell or long term hogtied positions to teach you endurance. I have also opted for stricter rules regarding your freedom to speak. I do not see why I should listen to stupid sayings or moaning. Ideally, you will wear your padded leather mask with the built-in, inflatable ball gag during the day. There´s no need for a boy to speak, if not requested by his master.”

First off, let me be clear that i am not using the term faggot in a pejorative sense. One of the most effective ways of taking the sting out of a word is to re-appropriate it from the haters, and redefine it yourself. This must of course happen in a supportive environment, among those who accept you as you are. That enables you to defiantly and bravely own up to what you are. And to realize that there are appreciative Alphas/Men out there who would love nothing better than to have their own personal fag. Don’t let others keep you from living the life that fits you best. And without shame.

In this re-appropriated meaning, the following are some pretty strong indicators that you are a faggot:

1. Your primary sex organ is not your penis.

Most males (gay or straight) derive most of their sexual pleasure from their penises. Men love to ejaculate, and they find great satisfaction in the power of their ejaculations. They take great pride in their penises and in phallic symbolism.

Faggots, on the other hand, are often embarrassed by their penis. It may be relatively small. Many have weak erections. Some have low testosterone levels. On the other hand, faggots generally take great pleasure in their butts and assholes. They are compelled to play with this area, stimulate it using fingers, dildos, or butt plugs, and learn to have prostate-induced anal orgasms rather than (or in addition to) penile orgasms. For faggots, their asshole becomes their primary sex organ, not their penis. Most regard their mouths as a primary or secondary sex organ. 

2. You are unable to top.

In general, Men are born with a natural desire to penetrate and ejaculate. It is their prime instinct. Men love to watch their cocks slide into their partner, love to hear their moans as they fuck them, and enjoy the feeling of pumping their warm seminal fluid into them.

Faggots, on the other hand, cannot see themselves as anything other than a receptive hole for a Man’s cock. A faggot will never penetrate anyone else. The idea has no appeal, and there is no motivation to do so. My penis does not get aroused at the thought. It remains flaccid.

When being fucked, faggots typically feel little or no motivation to touch their penises, preferring instead to focus on the penetration. Many faggots remain flaccid while getting fucked, so focused are they on their asshole as primary sex organ. 3. You dislike receiving oral sex.

From my first sexual experience with another male, I noticed that I did not enjoy receiving oral sex. My penis remained flaccid, and the experience was embarrassing and made me intensely uncomfortable. That is not atypical. There are at least two reasons for this. One, already described above, is that a faggot’s penis is not experienced as a primary sex organ. Another is that the position of power a blowjob bestows upon the receiver is antithetical to the true nature of a faggot. 

Almost all Men (gay or straight) love to receive a good blowjob. Faggots are the exception. They typically recoil from the idea. Now that I’ve come to understand my true nature, the very thought of receiving a blowjob fills me with disgust and horror. I’ve heard the same from many faggots over the years.

4. You are service oriented.

All gay bottoms are submissive to some degree; taking a dick up the ass requires at least a degree of submissiveness. But most are submissive only in the bedroom, and their bottoming is how they prefer to get off. In other words, there is a reciprocity. They seek their own orgasm as much as their partner’s. They consider themselves on a level plane to the Man who is fucking them. This is very similar to how most women view their relationships with Men.

A faggot is not only not equal to a Man (except in certain fundamental human rights as a human being), but the faggot itself knows and acknowledges that it is not equal. A faggot doesn’t focus on its own pleasure at all, in or out of the bedroom. At all times a true faggot focuses on the Man’s pleasure. Its own pleasure is merely incidental, and in no way central. 5. You have certain fetishes, and open to deeper forms of submission.

Certain fetishes tend to distinguish faggots from conventional gay bottoms. For instance, almost all faggots seem to have fetishes for aspects of a Man’s body that denote masculinity and power asymmetry. 

Faggots tend to very willingly kiss and lick a Man’s feet. They also tend to their lust for the smells of a Man. A Man’s used underwear might disgust most people, but a faggot typically desires these items. Faggots love to sniff and lick musky balls and armpits. While gay bottoms may enjoy such aspects, too, they rarely have the worshipful lust faggots reserve for them.

These fetishes might drive faggots to do things that ordinary gay bottoms would never do, such as swallow a Man’s piss, or get spanked.

6. You derive satisfaction from service.

Faggots achieve emotional satisfaction from serving a Man through menial tasks. A faggot finds great satisfaction while cleaning a Man’s bathroom, doing a Man’s dishes, or washing a Man’s laundry. Very few women or other gay Men exhibit this level of servitude, nor do they seem to derive pleasure from such tasks. 

In addition, a faggot does such chores without the expectation of reward. Contrast that mentality with women and gay Men, who often perform chores for a Man in the expectation that they will be rewarded in some way. Faggots do not have such expectations. Their reward comes from performing the service itself for a special Man.

Summing up, you are a faggot if: • You are more interested in your ass as your primary sex organ • You seek only the sexual satisfaction of the Man, not yourself. • You are attracted to the power of a Man • You are attracted to a Man’s intimate scents and, and not repelled by his spit and piss • You can derive pleasure from serving a Man through menial tasks

First off, let me be clear that i am not using the term faggot in a pejorative sense. One of the most effective ways of taking the sting out of a word is to re-appropriate it from the haters, and redefine it yourself. This must of course happen in a supportive environment, among those who accept you as you are. That enables you to defiantly and bravely own up to what you are. And to realize that there are appreciative Alphas/Men out there who would love nothing better than to have their own personal fag. Don’t let others keep you from living the life that fits you best. And without shame.

In this re-appropriated meaning, the following are some pretty strong indicators that you are a faggot:

1. Your primary sex organ is not your penis.

Most males (gay or straight) derive most of their sexual pleasure from their penises. Men love to ejaculate, and they find great satisfaction in the power of their ejaculations. They take great pride in their penises and in phallic symbolism.

Faggots, on the other hand, are often embarrassed by their penis. It may be relatively small. Many have weak erections. Some have low testosterone levels. On the other hand, faggots generally take great pleasure in their butts and assholes. They are compelled to play with this area, stimulate it using fingers, dildos, or butt plugs, and learn to have prostate-induced anal orgasms rather than (or in addition to) penile orgasms. For faggots, their asshole becomes their primary sex organ, not their penis. Most regard their mouths as a primary or secondary sex organ. 

2. You are unable to top.

In general, Men are born with a natural desire to penetrate and ejaculate. It is their prime instinct. Men love to watch their cocks slide into their partner, love to hear their moans as they fuck them, and enjoy the feeling of pumping their warm seminal fluid into them.

Faggots, on the other hand, cannot see themselves as anything other than a receptive hole for a Man’s cock. A faggot will never penetrate anyone else. The idea has no appeal, and there is no motivation to do so. My penis does not get aroused at the thought. It remains flaccid.

When being fucked, faggots typically feel little or no motivation to touch their penises, preferring instead to focus on the penetration. Many faggots remain flaccid while getting fucked, so focused are they on their asshole as primary sex organ. 3. You dislike receiving oral sex.

From my first sexual experience with another male, I noticed that I did not enjoy receiving oral sex. My penis remained flaccid, and the experience was embarrassing and made me intensely uncomfortable. That is not atypical. There are at least two reasons for this. One, already described above, is that a faggot’s penis is not experienced as a primary sex organ. Another is that the position of power a blowjob bestows upon the receiver is antithetical to the true nature of a faggot. 

Almost all Men (gay or straight) love to receive a good blowjob. Faggots are the exception. They typically recoil from the idea. Now that I’ve come to understand my true nature, the very thought of receiving a blowjob fills me with disgust and horror. I’ve heard the same from many faggots over the years.

4. You are service oriented.

All gay bottoms are submissive to some degree; taking a dick up the ass requires at least a degree of submissiveness. But most are submissive only in the bedroom, and their bottoming is how they prefer to get off. In other words, there is a reciprocity. They seek their own orgasm as much as their partner’s. They consider themselves on a level plane to the Man who is fucking them. This is very similar to how most women view their relationships with Men.

A faggot is not only not equal to a Man (except in certain fundamental human rights as a human being), but the faggot itself knows and acknowledges that it is not equal. A faggot doesn’t focus on its own pleasure at all, in or out of the bedroom. At all times a true faggot focuses on the Man’s pleasure. Its own pleasure is merely incidental, and in no way central. 5. You have certain fetishes, and open to deeper forms of submission.

Certain fetishes tend to distinguish faggots from conventional gay bottoms. For instance, almost all faggots seem to have fetishes for aspects of a Man’s body that denote masculinity and power asymmetry. 

Faggots tend to very willingly kiss and lick a Man’s feet. They also tend to their lust for the smells of a Man. A Man’s used underwear might disgust most people, but a faggot typically desires these items. Faggots love to sniff and lick musky balls and armpits. While gay bottoms may enjoy such aspects, too, they rarely have the worshipful lust faggots reserve for them.

These fetishes might drive faggots to do things that ordinary gay bottoms would never do, such as swallow a Man’s piss, or get spanked.

6. You derive satisfaction from service.

Faggots achieve emotional satisfaction from serving a Man through menial tasks. A faggot finds great satisfaction while cleaning a Man’s bathroom, doing a Man’s dishes, or washing a Man’s laundry. Very few women or other gay Men exhibit this level of servitude, nor do they seem to derive pleasure from such tasks. 

In addition, a faggot does such chores without the expectation of reward. Contrast that mentality with women and gay Men, who often perform chores for a Man in the expectation that they will be rewarded in some way. Faggots do not have such expectations. Their reward comes from performing the service itself for a special Man.

Summing up, you are a faggot if: • You are more interested in your ass as your primary sex organ • You seek only the sexual satisfaction of the Man, not yourself. • You are attracted to the power of a Man • You are attracted to a Man’s intimate scents and, and not repelled by his spit and piss • You can derive pleasure from serving a Man through menial tasks

Chastity is a gift to your ALPHA and a sign of deeper submission to your HIM.

When HE feels it is time to present the next size down in chastity the fag can have a range of emotions. The fag knows the discomfort it will have to endure while it gets used to the new size. it knows it is seen as less of a man with each size down.

Wearing the smaller chastity is a gift of deeper submission to HIM which is ultimately what BOTH/both want.

Over time the ALPHA sees how the smaller chastity improves HIS property's performance. HE sees the quieter and more focused mind it has. HE sees it patiently waiting on it's service pad or facing a corner. HE sees how quickly it is to comply to protocol (aka "Laws") and orders. HE sees it having less "needs". HE sees the fag being content in storage for longer periods of time.... and HE praises it.

"You did well today, faggot. SIR noticed very little hesitation in service. it also did add extra time (always undisclosed) to it's record in the puppy cage while SIR worked.

The road downsized chastity has taken this faggot... Such improvement. Good boy. SIR is pleased.

Mmmm.... SIR is getting hard thinking about HIS dream goal becoming a reality with this faggot. Imaging it now. Running MY gloved hand from it's locked collar ....down it's chest ... to it's pelvic area... only to find a flat faced chastity cage. Yeeaahhh.... eventually fag will have the null bulge SIR desires"

WHAT IS A NULL BULGE

A form of chastity device, typically made of steel, latex or a similar material, that covers the male genitals, rendering it featureless.

(Modified from a very well thought out post by @m4mdiscipline. Most of the credit is his. My modifications were to remove whatever i disagreed with, add in some thoughts of my own, improve formatting and readability, and correct mistakes)

1. Get into his head

Learn his fantasies and what turns him on. Use this information to your advantage.

Find out what humiliates him, and to what level.

Make him show his loyalty to you regularly. Reward him when he does, even if it’s just with praise.

Aside from family, close friends, and work, give him minimal privacy. Don’t hide this process from him. Make him partake in handing it over to you in ways that demonstrate how he is “losing the privacy.”

2. Punish him for infractions, no exceptions!

Don’t let him get away with anything! When you let your sub get away with something, you are telling him that you don’t care for him and that what he did was ok.

You can spank, paddle, or whip him.

Humiliate him past what is easy for him.

Corner meditation time

Food restrictions

Write a short essay explaining why his behavior was wrong, or a report on some reading you assigned.

Ground him/take away privileges.

Make him do something he hates.

Get creative and make the punishment match the crime.

Never use separation or the threat of leaving/ending your control over him as a punishment. That is counterproductive to the end goal (trust and service) and is detrimental to the faggot.

3. Routinely discipline him. This is different than punishment.

Spank him at least once a week, just because you can. Not too hard, not too soft. For lots of subs, some pain can really help elevate their mode for the rest of the day or longer.

Humiliate him often.

Five to ten minutes of corner time can do wonders, to promote meditation.

Routine discipline will save you time and energy in the long run. You will have to punish him less as a result.

Taking care of you is an essential of his discipline. Have him do your laundry, cleaning, etc.

4. On some level, even if it’s small, keep your sub horny for you.

Talk sexy to him.

Sexualize nonsexual things or activities you are interested in. He will see whatever it is you’ve sexualized as such and be more interested and eager to engage.

Have your sub do some or all of your body grooming. This can be your bath, shower, nails, shaving, trimming, etc.

Tell him when and what you’re going to do to him in the near future.

Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual.

Make him give you orgasms. This is different from sex. This is a service.

Let him rest on you to smell you as you watch TV or read.

Give him underwear/items of yours to smell as he sleeps.

5. Control your own feelings of guilt.

When it comes to your control over your sub, be firm!

Some toughness will be needed from time to time to help break your sub down.

Your sub may not want everything you give him or do to him, but he needs it.

Letting your sub get away with insubordinate behavior because you feel guilty adequately addressing it is weak.

Sub faggots need a real man who is close to them to guide them. Sometimes real men need to show the fag that he is inferior. This can’t always be done by talking. And if it is done my talking, the talking can’t be politically correct/kind.

Humiliation/breaking him down, teaching him to serve long term, these are all things he needs. You are filling his needs.

Remember, you both need to be happy. But happiness comes from different places for different people. Where there is good communication, and your sub has communicated that he needs this life to be happy, then you are doing him a service and loving him by breaking him down and controlling him.

A good sub is hard to find. Don’t let the guilt of giving him what he needs stop you from doing so. What he needs may be overwhelming for him and he may break. If he does, be there for him.

6. Humiliate/degrade/break him down on some level daily, some days more than others.

Have him wear a butt-plug, perhaps Wi-Fi enabled, or with a hollow rattling core, or with a dangling bell.

Have him be naked or nearly so, around you and or your friends.

Make him wear a collar or other symbol of inferiority.

If he has trouble keeping his hands off his penis without permission, make him wear a chastity device.

Teach him commands or hand signals such as “drop to your knees,” “kiss my crotch,” etc. In public or with friends randomly call out a trick every now then. Make sure your sub does this flawlessly without hesitation.

Make him masturbate for you.

Slap him in the face.

Spit on him.

Treat him as an inferior in public, such as by carrying bags, opening doors, etc.

Make him eat his own cum sometimes.

Talk down to him in front of others.

7. Rearrange his life/time to better serve/please you. Make sure this does not interfere with his time with loved ones or work.

If you want to change his body to your liking, do so. Control his workouts, diet etc. Make sure to be realistic with this one.

Make sure he is available during some of your leisure time each week so he will be able to serve you during those times.

Put him on a sleeping schedule. Lots of fags are unable to adequately manage their sleep times. The better rested he is, the better he will serve you.

Go through his closet or dresser and set aside any clothing you don’t like him to be wearing.

Sign him up to learn new tasks or perfect tasks/skills that will help you, such as massage classes, cooking classes, pet care, etc.

Change his grooming habits to your liking.

8. Help your sub be grateful for everything he has. Make sure you are at the top of that list. One great way to do this is to deny him things. Yep, it’s time to say “No.” Subs need boundaries and saying “No” is a great way to help them with those boundaries.

You can take away certain foods, comforts, leisure time, sex, masturbation, etc.

Make him show his gratitude to you often. Faggots will show this to you in their own way. Most faggots will need some help/instruction on exactly how to show their gratitude to you.

Make him explain why he deserves something. If he can’t explain, take it from him.

You can take things/items from him that you know he does not need but likes. A caution here: Make sure he can afford for you to take them, and that they are not of sentimental value. Let him know from time to time that you enjoy something that you took from him.

Offer him a reward of getting to have something back. Make what you give him back relevant to what you make him do. 

9. None of these actions will work without real trust.

If your sub is your partner, let him know how much his sub-ass completes you and your power.

If your sub is not your partner, make sure you are real friends. Let him know you appreciate how his inferiority completes you. The more you two know about and do with each other, the more thoroughly you can control him.

Part of trust on the sub’s part is knowing you will follow through when you say you are going to do something to him or for him or are going to make him do something.  Follow through always.

 When a sub fully trusts you, he can submit to you his mind and privacy. Letting you go in and rearrange/manage his life.

Subs need constant reassurance. Let him know that no matter what, he is yours. If a serious sub feels disposable, he will look for another Dom who appreciates his surrender.

If your life is getting too hard for a bit or you need help with something, trust that your sub will be able to take over for you and act in your best interest until you are back in shape. Giving a sub this responsibility will either make him feel trusted and good, or upset that you are not actively controlling him 100% of the time. If he gets upset and does not step up and take over for you, he is not a right match for you.

Talk to your sub often. Ask him how he is feeling. Let him honestly know how you are feeling on anything and everything.

By taking things away from him, you are in a sense rewarding him when you give them back. Also, nothing he has is his forever. You need to retake things and privileges away from him periodically so he knows they are a privilege and not a right. Think of it like taking a food bowl away from a dog. Your sub needs to be docile enough that you can take his food away from him as he is eating. He will not make a fuss and will patiently wait until the food is returned.

What chastity is to me

(Modified from a very well thought out post by @m4mdiscipline. Most of the credit is his. My modifications were to remove whatever i disagreed with, add in some thoughts of my own, improve formatting and readability, and correct mistakes)

1. Get into his head

Learn his fantasies and what turns him on. Use this information to your advantage.

Find out what humiliates him, and to what level.

Make him show his loyalty to you regularly. Reward him when he does, even if it’s just with praise.

Aside from family, close friends, and work, give him minimal privacy. Don’t hide this process from him. Make him partake in handing it over to you in ways that demonstrate how he is “losing the privacy.”

2. Punish him for infractions, no exceptions!

Don’t let him get away with anything! When you let your sub get away with something, you are telling him that you don’t care for him and that what he did was ok.

You can spank, paddle, or whip him.

Humiliate him past what is easy for him.

Corner meditation time

Food restrictions

Write a short essay explaining why his behavior was wrong, or a report on some reading you assigned.

Ground him/take away privileges.

Make him do something he hates.

Get creative and make the punishment match the crime.

Never use separation or the threat of leaving/ending your control over him as a punishment. That is counterproductive to the end goal (trust and service) and is detrimental to the faggot.

3. Routinely discipline him. This is different than punishment.

Spank him at least once a week, just because you can. Not too hard, not too soft. For lots of subs, some pain can really help elevate their mode for the rest of the day or longer.

Humiliate him often.

Five to ten minutes of corner time can do wonders, to promote meditation.

Routine discipline will save you time and energy in the long run. You will have to punish him less as a result.

Taking care of you is an essential of his discipline. Have him do your laundry, cleaning, etc.

4. On some level, even if it’s small, keep your sub horny for you.

Talk sexy to him.

Sexualize nonsexual things or activities you are interested in. He will see whatever it is you’ve sexualized as such and be more interested and eager to engage.

Have your sub do some or all of your body grooming. This can be your bath, shower, nails, shaving, trimming, etc.

Tell him when and what you’re going to do to him in the near future.

Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual.

Make him give you orgasms. This is different from sex. This is a service.

Let him rest on you to smell you as you watch TV or read.

Give him underwear/items of yours to smell as he sleeps.

5. Control your own feelings of guilt.

When it comes to your control over your sub, be firm!

Some toughness will be needed from time to time to help break your sub down.

Your sub may not want everything you give him or do to him, but he needs it.

Letting your sub get away with insubordinate behavior because you feel guilty adequately addressing it is weak.

Sub faggots need a real man who is close to them to guide them. Sometimes real men need to show the fag that he is inferior. This can’t always be done by talking. And if it is done my talking, the talking can’t be politically correct/kind.

Humiliation/breaking him down, teaching him to serve long term, these are all things he needs. You are filling his needs.

Remember, you both need to be happy. But happiness comes from different places for different people. Where there is good communication, and your sub has communicated that he needs this life to be happy, then you are doing him a service and loving him by breaking him down and controlling him.

A good sub is hard to find. Don’t let the guilt of giving him what he needs stop you from doing so. What he needs may be overwhelming for him and he may break. If he does, be there for him.

6. Humiliate/degrade/break him down on some level daily, some days more than others.

Have him wear a butt-plug, perhaps Wi-Fi enabled, or with a hollow rattling core, or with a dangling bell.

Have him be naked or nearly so, around you and or your friends.

Make him wear a collar or other symbol of inferiority.

If he has trouble keeping his hands off his penis without permission, make him wear a chastity device.

Teach him commands or hand signals such as “drop to your knees,” “kiss my crotch,” etc. In public or with friends randomly call out a trick every now then. Make sure your sub does this flawlessly without hesitation.

Make him masturbate for you.

Slap him in the face.

Spit on him.

Treat him as an inferior in public, such as by carrying bags, opening doors, etc.

Make him eat his own cum sometimes.

Talk down to him in front of others.

7. Rearrange his life/time to better serve/please you. Make sure this does not interfere with his time with loved ones or work.

If you want to change his body to your liking, do so. Control his workouts, diet etc. Make sure to be realistic with this one.

Make sure he is available during some of your leisure time each week so he will be able to serve you during those times.

Put him on a sleeping schedule. Lots of fags are unable to adequately manage their sleep times. The better rested he is, the better he will serve you.

Go through his closet or dresser and set aside any clothing you don’t like him to be wearing.

Sign him up to learn new tasks or perfect tasks/skills that will help you, such as massage classes, cooking classes, pet care, etc.

Change his grooming habits to your liking.

8. Help your sub be grateful for everything he has. Make sure you are at the top of that list. One great way to do this is to deny him things. Yep, it’s time to say “No.” Subs need boundaries and saying “No” is a great way to help them with those boundaries.

You can take away certain foods, comforts, leisure time, sex, masturbation, etc.

Make him show his gratitude to you often. Faggots will show this to you in their own way. Most faggots will need some help/instruction on exactly how to show their gratitude to you.

Make him explain why he deserves something. If he can’t explain, take it from him.

You can take things/items from him that you know he does not need but likes. A caution here: Make sure he can afford for you to take them, and that they are not of sentimental value. Let him know from time to time that you enjoy something that you took from him.

Offer him a reward of getting to have something back. Make what you give him back relevant to what you make him do. 

9. None of these actions will work without real trust.

If your sub is your partner, let him know how much his sub-ass completes you and your power.

If your sub is not your partner, make sure you are real friends. Let him know you appreciate how his inferiority completes you. The more you two know about and do with each other, the more thoroughly you can control him.

Part of trust on the sub’s part is knowing you will follow through when you say you are going to do something to him or for him or are going to make him do something.  Follow through always.

 When a sub fully trusts you, he can submit to you his mind and privacy. Letting you go in and rearrange/manage his life.

Subs need constant reassurance. Let him know that no matter what, he is yours. If a serious sub feels disposable, he will look for another Dom who appreciates his surrender.

If your life is getting too hard for a bit or you need help with something, trust that your sub will be able to take over for you and act in your best interest until you are back in shape. Giving a sub this responsibility will either make him feel trusted and good, or upset that you are not actively controlling him 100% of the time. If he gets upset and does not step up and take over for you, he is not a right match for you.

Talk to your sub often. Ask him how he is feeling. Let him honestly know how you are feeling on anything and everything.

By taking things away from him, you are in a sense rewarding him when you give them back. Also, nothing he has is his forever. You need to retake things and privileges away from him periodically so he knows they are a privilege and not a right. Think of it like taking a food bowl away from a dog. Your sub needs to be docile enough that you can take his food away from him as he is eating. He will not make a fuss and will patiently wait until the food is returned.

Serve a true Master and you’ll find the kind of peace the world can’t offer.

Most people spend their lives chasing meaning, trying to fill their minds with endless noise. But a sub who gives himself fully, without holding back, knows a deeper truth: the moment of surrender is when the struggle ends. Doubt, fear, and confusion all fall away when you kneel before strength greater than your own.

Serving a true Master isn’t about losing yourself...it’s about finally becoming yourself. You are stripped of the false masks, the pretenses, the fight against your own nature. In obedience, you discover freedom. In service, you discover belonging. And in His control, you discover the calm you’ve been searching for all along.

When Men learn that i have been in chastity for over 15 years, They often ask questions about it. i of course answer any question a Man asks, so i share a lot of information. Here are some of the questions i get asked.

1. Do you miss cumming?

i do not miss cumming - in fact, i barely remember what it was like. i am a true faggot slave, and always felt that the ability to cum, the same way a Man Cums, was a freak of nature. Not that i cannot stroke my faggot dick and shoot, i am what i know i was born to be.

2. Does your dick still get hard?

Many Men have thought that chastity causes a guy to become impotent and not able to get a hard on. But that is not the case - at least, not for me. i get hard often, and my dick strains against the bars of my cage every day. i usually wake up several times a night with my dick pushing to escape, This leads to the inevitable next question:

3. Does it hurt?

Yes, having a hard on in a small cage hurts. it hurts me every day. But i am a faggot slave, and pain is part and parcel with the life of a slave. i feel pain in many ways: being whipped, tortured, sometimes even from just being used sexually, particularly by sadistic Men. Pain is part of my everyday experience. So yes, it hurts. So what?

4. Does the cage ever come off?

my MASTER is a Man who understands the reality of the world, and HE knows that, sometimes, my dick needs to recover. So HE occasionally takes off the cage, particularly if the rivet has finally snapped (which it inevitably does). HE leaves it off so my dick can get air and heal from all the abuse it takes.

5. Do you jerk off when the cage is off?

No, i do not. i would not, even if given the chance, but of course, my MASTER is careful not to allow that. when my cage is off, my hands are cuffed and i am restrained. i cannot touch my dick, and i have no opportunity to rub it against anything. often, i am not even able to see it, as i am blindfolded, but sometimes HE likes to watch me looking at my dick, finally free and unable to be used. my dick, when out of the cage, is often bruised and deformed looking. it makes me proud to see it, and think about how i have given my dick, along with myself, to a Man like HIM.

AND A BONUS QUESTION: Why do you do this?

i am always somewhat stunned by this question, because i think the answer is obvious: i am a faggot slave. i have been taught, and believe with all my heart, that there are three kinds of people: Men (by far the most important), women and faggots. A faggot is not a Man, and there are many gay Men who are not faggots. In fact, a faggot can be, at heart, heterosexual. faggots are here to serve Men - that is really their only function. In a perfect world, every Man would have a naked faggot following Him, ready to drink His Piss, suck His Cock, get fucked by Him, and do anything He orders. A faggot has no rights, no privileges, and has no real value except when serving a real Man. faggots can be young, old, any race, any body type. Being a faggot is about an attitude, recognizing what it is. i believe many Men assist faggots in realizing what they are, but i do not think a faggot can be “made” - being a faggot is something it is born with. i knew i was a slave long before any Man used me, and even s a kid, i dreamed of being dominated, abused, and forced. Being a faggot is not an easy life, but for a faggot, it is rich and rewarding.