i don’t wanna say this to sound like i only saw u as an entertainment outlet but i always checked ur account for updates and to see what was going on because i felt seen by ur posts even if thats not what u were trying to do

and lately i’ve noticed u haven’t posted about him or the situation and as much as i am really happy for u

i can’t help but wonder how u got over it? i guess i can say im a little bit jealous??? (sorry i dont know what other word to use) because im still stuck on my same boy

i was wondering if maybe u could just tell us how u got over him and everything

noo don’t worry i totally get it

something i’ve noticed about myself over the years is that i feel and take things very deeply

and sometimes it’s a blessing and sometimes it’s a curse but in moments like heartbreak it could definitely not be a good thing

but what i could really tell u about not staying stuck on one person is that u really do need to move on

and the first step to do that is realizing that u need to move on

completely push away all thoughts of reconnecting, fixing, getting back together, etc and just letting time do its thing

the only thing i did was sit with my feelings for a while and allow myself to feel whatever i did, write about it or document whatever ur feeling or talk about it into voice memos (that’s what i did), and for me i slowly stopped feeling anything for him or the situation

i don’t miss him anymore, i don’t think about him, i deleted his contact and his photos from off of my phone, i removed his friends on social media and i could care less about whatever he’s doing right now