what this palace wants is release

POSITIVES

adaptable ⋆ active ⋆ adventurous ⋆ agreeable ⋆ alert ⋆ articulate ⋆ athletic ⋆ aspiring ⋆ attractive ⋆ affectionate ⋆ ambitious ⋆ amicable ⋆ affable ⋆ analytical ⋆ approachable ⋆ brave ⋆ bright ⋆ bold ⋆ balanced ⋆ benevolent ⋆ calm ⋆ capable ⋆ casual ⋆ caring ⋆ captivating ⋆ cautious ⋆ charming ⋆ charismatic ⋆ cheerful ⋆ clever ⋆ compassionate ⋆ conciliatory ⋆ carefree ⋆ confident ⋆ creative ⋆ cooperative ⋆ considerate ⋆ conscientious ⋆ complementative ⋆ curious ⋆ competitive ⋆ daring ⋆ decisive ⋆ dedicated ⋆ diligent ⋆ dignified ⋆ discreet ⋆ driven ⋆ dramatic ⋆ dutiful ⋆ dynamic ⋆ diplomatic ⋆ disciplined ⋆ determined ⋆ dependable ⋆ easy-going ⋆ efficient ⋆ empathetic ⋆ enthusiastic ⋆ extroverted ⋆ enigmatic ⋆ elegant ⋆ eloquent ⋆ energetic ⋆ exuberant ⋆ educated ⋆ esthetic ⋆ fair ⋆ faithful ⋆ farsighted ⋆ firm ⋆ flexible ⋆ forceful ⋆ flamboyant ⋆ friendly ⋆ flirtatious ⋆ focused ⋆ funny ⋆ fearless ⋆ gallant ⋆ generous ⋆ gentle ⋆ genuine ⋆ good-natured ⋆ gracious ⋆ gregarious ⋆ hard-working ⋆ helpful ⋆ heroic ⋆ humorous ⋆ honest ⋆ honourable ⋆ humble ⋆ idealistic ⋆ impartial ⋆ imaginative ⋆ independent ⋆ intelligent ⋆ introverted ⋆ innovative ⋆ inventive ⋆ intellectual ⋆ inoffensive ⋆ insightful ⋆ intuitive ⋆ invulnerable ⋆ incorruptible ⋆ intense ⋆ incisive ⋆ just ⋆ kind ⋆ loyal ⋆ leaderly ⋆ logical ⋆ lovable ⋆ loving ⋆ liberal ⋆ mature ⋆ merciful ⋆ moderate ⋆ modest ⋆ magnanimous ⋆ meticulous ⋆ neat ⋆ nurturing ⋆ outspoken ⋆ obedient ⋆ observant ⋆ optimistic ⋆ objective ⋆ opinionated ⋆ open ⋆ orderly ⋆ organized ⋆ original ⋆ passionate ⋆ patient ⋆ perceptive ⋆ persistent ⋆ persuasive ⋆ peaceful ⋆ philosophical ⋆ playful ⋆ protective ⋆ practical ⋆ placid ⋆ plucky ⋆ polished ⋆ popular ⋆ prudent ⋆ punctual ⋆ purposeful ⋆ rational ⋆ realistic ⋆ reflective ⋆ relaxed ⋆ reliable ⋆ resourceful ⋆ respectful ⋆ reverential ⋆ romantic ⋆  responsible ⋆ sensible ⋆ sentimental ⋆ socially aware ⋆ sophisticated ⋆ solid ⋆ spiritual ⋆ spontaneous ⋆ spunky ⋆ studious ⋆ supportive ⋆ selfless ⋆ self-reliant ⋆ self-denying ⋆ self-sufficient ⋆ self-confident ⋆ self-disciplined ⋆ straightforward ⋆ sincere ⋆ serious ⋆ skillful ⋆ stable ⋆ sociable ⋆ stoic ⋆ sympathetic ⋆ systematic ⋆ tasteful ⋆ talented ⋆ tolerant ⋆ trusting ⋆ thorough ⋆ teacherly ⋆ tidy ⋆ thoughtful ⋆ tough ⋆ understanding ⋆ unassuming ⋆ unfoolable ⋆ upright ⋆ uncomplaining ⋆ unselfish ⋆ versatile ⋆ venturesome ⋆ vivacious ⋆ warm ⋆ well-read ⋆ well-rounded ⋆ willing ⋆ wise ⋆ witty

FLAWS

absent-minded ⋆ abusive ⋆ addict ⋆ aggressive ⋆ aimless ⋆ alcoholic ⋆ anxious ⋆ arrogant ⋆ audacious ⋆ bad liar ⋆ bigmouth ⋆ bigot ⋆ blindly obedient ⋆ blunt ⋆ callous ⋆ childish ⋆ chronic heroism ⋆ clingy ⋆ clumsy ⋆ cocky ⋆ competitive ⋆ corrupt ⋆ cowardly ⋆ cruel ⋆ cynical ⋆ delinquent ⋆ delusional ⋆ dependent ⋆ depressed ⋆ deranged ⋆ disloyal ⋆ ditzy ⋆ egotistical ⋆ envious ⋆ erratic ⋆ fickle ⋆ finicky ⋆ flaky ⋆ frail ⋆ fraudulent ⋆ guilt complex ⋆ gloomy ⋆ gluttonous ⋆ gossiper ⋆ gruff ⋆ gullible ⋆ hedonistic ⋆ humorless ⋆ hypochondriac ⋆ hypocritical ⋆ idealist ⋆ idiotic ⋆ ignorant ⋆ immature ⋆ impatient ⋆ incompetent ⋆ indecisive ⋆ insecure ⋆ insensitive ⋆ lazy ⋆ lewd ⋆ liar ⋆ lustful ⋆ manipulative ⋆ masochistic ⋆ meddlesome ⋆ melodramatic ⋆ money-loving ⋆ moody ⋆ naïve ⋆ nervous ⋆ nosy ⋆ ornery ⋆ overprotective ⋆ overly sensitive ⋆ paranoid ⋆ passive-aggressive ⋆ perfectionist ⋆ pessimist ⋆ petty ⋆ power-hungry ⋆ proud ⋆ pushover ⋆ reckless ⋆ reclusive ⋆ remorseless ⋆ rigorous ⋆ sadistic ⋆ sarcastic ⋆ senile ⋆ selfish ⋆ self-martyr ⋆ shallow ⋆ sociopathic ⋆ sore loser ⋆ spineless ⋆ spiteful ⋆ spoiled ⋆ stubborn ⋆ tactless ⋆ temperamental ⋆ timid ⋆ tone-deaf ⋆ traitorous ⋆ unathletic ⋆ ungracious ⋆ unlucky ⋆ unsophisticated ⋆ untrustworthy ⋆ vain ⋆ withdrawn ⋆ workaholic

SKILLS

bake a cake from scratch ⋆ ride a horse ⋆ drive a submarine ⋆ speak a second language ⋆ dance ⋆ catch a fish ⋆ play an instrument ⋆ throw a punch ⋆ build a deck ⋆ ice skate ⋆ program a computer ⋆ change a flat tire ⋆ fire a gun ⋆ sew ⋆ juggle ⋆ play poker ⋆ paint ⋆ fly a kite ⋆ sculpt ⋆ write poetry ⋆ change a diaper ⋆ sing ⋆ shoot a bow and arrow ⋆ ride a bike ⋆ swim ⋆ sail a boat ⋆ do a backflip ⋆ play chess ⋆ give CPR ⋆ pitch a tent ⋆ flirt ⋆ stitch a wound ⋆ read palms ⋆ use chopsticks ⋆ write in cursive/calligraphy ⋆ use an electric drill ⋆ braid hair ⋆ make a campfire ⋆ make a mixed drink ⋆ do sudoku puzzles ⋆ wrap a gift ⋆ give a good massage ⋆ jump-start a  car ⋆ roll their tongue ⋆ magic tricks ⋆ yoga ⋆ tie a tie ⋆ skip a rock ⋆ shuffle a deck of cards ⋆ read Morse code ⋆ pick a lock 

FEARS

the dark ⋆ fire ⋆ open water ⋆ deep water ⋆ being alone ⋆ crowded spaces ⋆ confined spaces ⋆ change ⋆ failure ⋆ war ⋆ loss of control ⋆ powerlessness ⋆ prison ⋆ blood ⋆ drowning ⋆ suffocation ⋆ public speaking ⋆ natural animals ⋆ the supernatural ⋆ heights ⋆ death ⋆ dying ⋆ intimacy ⋆ rejection ⋆ abandonment ⋆ loss ⋆ the unknown ⋆ the future ⋆ not being good enough ⋆ scary stories ⋆ speaking to new people ⋆ poverty ⋆ loud noises ⋆ being touched ⋆ forgetting ⋆ being forgotten

LOVE LANGUAGES: SHOWING

ACTS OF SERVICE ~ dishes ⋆ laundry ⋆ change the bedding ⋆ put gas in the car ⋆ clean the car ⋆ pack ⋆ cook a meal ⋆ feed/walk the dog ⋆ pay the bills ⋆ mop ⋆ sweep ⋆ organise ⋆ “let me do this for you” ⋆ take the kids to school ⋆ call the plumber ⋆ grocery shop ⋆ doing chores together RECEIVING GIFTS ~ trading presents ⋆ thoughtful presents ⋆ surprises ⋆ buying dinner ⋆ big presents ⋆ small presents ⋆ handmade presents ⋆ expensive gifts ⋆ time-consuming presents ⋆ humorous presents ⋆ holiday/anniversary presents ⋆ edible treats ⋆ tokens ⋆ “I saw this and thought of you” QUALITY TIME ~ communication ⋆ direct eye contact ⋆ dates ⋆ vacations ⋆ car rides ⋆ shared hobby ⋆ “let’s do something together” ⋆ walks in the park ⋆ sitting in comfortable silence ⋆ solving a problem together ⋆ discovering shared interests ⋆ making an effort to spend time together WORDS OF AFFIRMATION ~ “I love you” ⋆ pet names ⋆ nicknames ⋆ compliments ⋆ hidden meanings ⋆ private jokes ⋆ “I’m so proud of you” ⋆ public acknowledgement of the relationship ⋆ “You are really good at (blank)” ⋆ “You look nice today” ⋆ “I like your (physical description)” ⋆ “I like the way you (do something)” ⋆ open/honest communication ⋆ handwritten notes/texts ⋆ encouragement/support PHYSICAL TOUCH ~ hugs ⋆ surprise/from behind hugs ⋆ hair touches ⋆ shoulder brushes ⋆ petting ⋆ polite PDA ⋆ graphic/mature PDA ⋆ hand holding ⋆ sitting on each other’s lap ⋆ sharing a single chair ⋆ sitting very closely together on the couch ⋆ cuddling ⋆ shaking hands ⋆ nose kisses ⋆ forehead touches ⋆ face/neck touches ⋆ sharing a blanket ⋆ sharing body heat ⋆ face/neck kisses

LOVE LANGUAGES: RECEIVING