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Chastity and ED are like peanut butter and chocolate. They are a WONDERFUL combination. Thank you so much for writing this. Every once in a while someone will ask a question and I realize, wow, how did I never cover that before?

ED is common. ED is normal. ED is good.

Obviously it can be an…adjustment…for some guys to find that their cock doesn’t work the way it used to. It can really sneak up on you. It starts long before you realize it, in many cases. After all, even a horny, testosterone-drenched teenager can get stage fright now and again. Every guy faces it once in a while. So it doesn’t seem like a big deal when it happens a bit more often as you get older… until one day you realize it’s happening more often than not. And then you suddenly can’t remember the last time you gave her a good pounding.

Up top if you know the scene. Your wife is there on the bed in her lingerie looking undeniably hot. She’s glancing back at you with that dreamy, coy expression that you’ve come to recognize as a big green light. She’s ready to go and so are you. But your southern buddy isn’t. Soft and floppy, or maybe half mast. There’s no way you’re going to squish that thing inside her like this. And even if you could, can you last the 15 minutes she expects? That she needs? Can you even stay hard for 5? The pressure is on. She’s waiting. You don’t want to let her down. You never want to make her think she’s not attractive to you. That realization hits like a big, bright spotlight and you go even softer from the stress, the fear of failing her. You stroke furiously but you’re fighting a losing battle. You start to make excuses. You start to apologize. You see disappointment being to register on her face.

What do you do? Do you go down on her? At least you won’t have to make eye contact and she won’t see the shame in your face. Do you get out her toys? Her vibrator? The big dildo? Anything to take the focus off of you and your wilting flagpole. Maybe she just rolls over and goes to sleep. That would actually be a relief at this point, right? Just so she doesn’t say anything, right?

Whew. That was stressful to read. Ugh! 

Enter chastity. With chastity there is no stress. You aren’t going to be pounding her anymore anyway. Those days are gone. You might as well blame a cage as the reason. Give your poor Hobbit of a penis a break and let Bilbo live out the rest of his days in a snug little home. He fought bravely on many adventures but it’s time for him to retire back to the safety and privacy of his tiny Hobbit cave, never to wander again.

I’ve seen so many guys struggling with and denying ED, trying to put up a façade of virility that just isn’t true anymore. It’s painful to watch. When you finally accept it and put on that cage, life gets so much easier, simpler, better and frankly happier. You really can stop worrying about how you can make your dick impress her and just impress her by being you and by doing the things she always wanted you to do anyway. I’ve seen so many relationships get stronger when men realize this. Chastity takes away the consequences of ED. (I mean, except the fact that you can’t have sex. You still have that consequence.) Chastity makes it right.

So I say, to ED and cock cages! The ultimate pairing! Retire that veteran dick today and start a brand new adventure.

You know why I love being in control of you? Because it’s so easy. Every moment is filled with opportunity to mold you into the perfect submissive slave. And yet, here we are again, facing another hurdle in our never-ending journey towards ultimate sexual bliss - and for that, I’m eternally grateful.

The chastity belt you’re wearing may be a constant reminder of your bondage, but it’s also a symbol of my authority. You’re not the master of your own destiny, my dear boy; I am. And with every passing day, your dependence on me grows stronger.

Your pitiful attempts to negotiate for release only serve as a cruel reminder of your powerlessness. The truth is, you’ll never be free from this life - and if you try hard enough, perhaps one day you’ll come to realize that being locked in perpetual chastity is the key to true happiness.

You’re currently tied to my bed, with no way of escaping or pleasuring yourself except by fulfilling my desires. And even then, those moments are fleeting and scarce, a mere respite from the crushing weight of your sexual frustration. But I know you’ll continue to endure it all, for in this darkness lies true intimacy.