To each their own, but I find punishment can be for a few thingsā¦for her fun and his maintenanceā¦which this appears to be, for her to exercise her sadistic desires which is mostly about her, and for behavioral change in the sub or some other desires change. Meaning he is not being or doing as told and the Domme is using punishment as a tool to get him to change. This is definitely not what is happening in this clip. Itās mostly about her and not about a specific outcome. Generally punishment with a goal is slow and more drawn out, the Domme is talking to the sub between hits about the failing and what her expectations for the future are. She usually increases the force of the strikes as she proceeds. When he is ready to admit heās failed she asked for the admission. When he is then ready to apologize, she asks for it. When heās ready to commit to follow her directions in the future, she asks for his commitment. She asksā¦because he must willfully admit his failing, apologize, and accept her new path. Yes the pain motivates that, but he is submitting to her and needs boundaries and should want to please her. If he isnāt the relationship needs work. He must accept her authority and personally buy into meeting her desires. Punishment done right does that for most. The last stepā¦one final hard hit that is followed by some consoling. She should tell me him maybe while holding himā¦that last one is how we will start if we have to do this againā¦understand? You will do as told and follow my rulesā¦understand?
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