Saedsthetic

“our work should equip the next generation of women to outdo us in every field this is the legacy we’ll leave.”

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Patrick Hughes: Over the Moon, 1978, Screenprint on paper

Before You Start Your Day / Twenty Øne Piløts / Lyric Edit

How can I support you best?

You’re emotions are valid/you aren’t crazy

I hear you

Hey I don’t know if I can give advice but I’ll be happy to just listen

I love you and support you but I can’t talk about this right now, can we come back to it later?

What is something I can help you with?

I can’t give you what you need but I can do XYZ

Any variants of these are good, I use them a lot too. You know your friend best and you know yourself you gotta be realistic with how much you can help and what you can handle. Just talk with them to talk about boundaries. I know it can be awkward especially if the friendship is online but I’ve told my friends “hey I really can’t handle that atm but we can talk about x later” and I’ve also been told that what I’m saying was too intense and that she hears me and we can come and talk about it at a later date.

‘Same’ is essentially taking the person’s problem and making it about you. There’s a time and place for that type of humour, but it’s not when a person is genuinely trying to open up to you. 

Requested

And if anyone fucking dares to disrespect MCRs decision that leaded to their current happiness then,,

“Harry screamed, so loudly that he felt his throat might tear, and for a second he wanted to rush at Dumbledore and break him too; shatter that calm old face, shake him, hurt him, make him feel some tiny part of the horror inside Harry.”

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