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Hi. I has a character in my novel that didn't speak because of traumatic event in his life until one moment. Can person with a selective mutism gradually speak more often if he finds that he can trust people around him and feels safe?
yes! you can recover from selective mutism, often with therapy and support from others. if your character does not speak at all after trauma, that would be psychogenic mutism, and usually goes away with time if the traumatic event happens in adulthood. so, yes, your character would likely recover from mutism and it's totally possible for that to happen around friends :)
if i dress cute and sit at the park in the fog will somebody fall in love with me
Iâm not really sure how to explain why it annoys me so much that (at least where I live) itâs compulsory to learn either French, Spanish, or German, but not to learn sign language. Why do we have to learn a language that most of us will never use, but then are forced to go out of our way and pay just to speak to people in our own country (specifically deaf, HOH, and nonverbal people)? I truly donât mean to sound xenophobic or anything of the like, I just want to discuss the underlying ableism in our education system. Iâm certainly not saying that people shouldnât learn foreign languages in schools, only wondering why it is prioritised above accomodating deaf/HOH/nonverbal people on a larger scale than what is currently available.
I hope this all makes sense, it probably doesnât matter anyway since I have so few followers and no one will see this haha. But if you do happen to be a sign language user or a multilingual person seeing this, I would love to hear your thoughts
i often wonder why there is a Russian and Turkish GCSE, but not a BSL one.
I swear I canât go out and get fro yo without someone making a vaguely ableist comment

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selective mutism is just as "real" as full mutism.
selective mutism is a severe anxiety disorder that can affect anyone. people with selective mutism find themselves physically unable to talk in certain situations or around certain people.
if you have a friend or child with selective mutism, and you wonder why they won't talk to you: know that it isn't because they dislike you, they just have an anxiety disorder that prevents them from speaking. however, forcing someone with SM to speak is harmful and abusive, and 99.9% of the time will not work.
instead, try asking them what their preferred method of communication is, and build a relationship with them, and you may even get to the point where they feel comfortable enough to be able to speak to you!
people with selective mutism are not "fussy", "stubborn" or just choosing not to speak. it can be an incredibly difficult disorder to live with. ableism does not make it any easier.
support those around you with SM. ask how you can contribute and help them. invest in learning the basics of your local sign language. treat people with respect; it makes a world of difference to us.
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Echolalia, monotone voices, stuttered speech, slurred speech, labored breathing between words and sentences, mechanical AAC voices,  AAC or sign users who consider those to be their voices, selectively mute voices, disorganized speech, speech with vocal tics, speech considered to be of âinappropriate volumeâ, speech with vocal stims, all disabled voices and the ways they present
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The Thing with PSE
PSE (Pidgin Signed English) is using signs from a formal Sign Language to communicate, WITHOUT following the ârulesâ of that language such as grammar and syntax. Hereâs a demo of what that could look like:
A sentence in American Sign Language: CAT BROWN WHERE? (here weâre following ASL grammar rules like putting adjectives after nouns, putting question words at the end, and totally eliminating articles like âtheâ or âa,â and passive verbs like âisâ).
The same sentence in Pidgin Signed English: WHERE IS BROWN CAT? (Here youâre using a little bit of ASLâs grammar rules by getting rid of the word âthe,â but for the most part youâre still sticking to an English sentence structure; itâs a Pidgin language because youâre mixing in some ASL rules with some English rules, so itâs neither PURE ASL or PURE Signed Exact English).
Now I donât want to totally knock PSE, because it is valuable for a lot of people, such as:
Non-deaf people who need a visual language to communicate (this could be because of autism, selective mutism, problems making/understanding oral language. etc.; literally anything where youâre still surrounded by English but depend on signs to communicate)
Places where Deaf communities and hearing communities naturally blend together so the languages will blend as well (churches, for example)
Places where Deaf people invite ASL students to come talk to them, even if theyâre still learning ASL and struggle with the grammar
So what is the âthingâ with PSE? The holdup, the catch? WellâŚpeople are getting lazy. Specifically, thereâs a trend among the ASL learning communities to just stop at PSE, and to act like theyâve mastered the language once theyâve picked out the parts they âlikeâ about it (i.e., the actual signs), and have thrown out all the hard stuff like grammar and visual expression. You can see this especially on YouTube, where some of the most popular musical interpreters proudly present you songs signed in PSE or even Signed Exact English (SEE), even though theyâve been studying the language for years, are supposedly getting degrees in Deaf related studies (interpretation, Deaf culture, Deaf education, etc.), and basically have had the time and resources to at least TRY to work their way closer to âtrueâ ASL, and simply donât.Â
On the flip side of that coin, we see song interpreters who really take the time to create beautiful ASL interpretations, have shown a dedication to learning the language in its truest form even if they make mistakes, AND ARE OFTEN ACTUALLY DEAF, however they NEVER amass as big of a following as those who just donât show that same kind of dedication and passion to ASL and in turn Deaf culture. And yet those people with massive followings and purposefully underdeveloped language skills tend to be the figureheads of the ASL learning community even though they have no business being so. And letâs all be honest, thatâs kind of messed up!
If I were to liken it to other languages, someone learning Chinese wouldnât be âallowedâ to just give up on learning vowel tones just because âitâs hard.â They can STRUGGLE with it, sure! They can make a million mistakes a day, and thatâs completely okay because theyâre still learning! But would it be okay for them to just say, âIâm not going to bother with the tones because I donât like them.â? No, it wouldnât! Because they have no right to sift through someone elseâs language and culture just to pick out the fun/easy parts, especially if theyâre coming from a place of privilege.
Now if you are trying to learn the language and often revert back to PSE because youâre struggling, thatâs okay! Youâre not the person Iâm talking about in this post! Vocabulary is honestly the easiest part of any language, so itâs likely that youâll build a whole repertoire of signs you can use in conversation long before youâve got the grammar down pat; thus when you actually start using those signs, it WILL be PSE! As long as you do work on mastering all the little nuances of ASL that make it distinct from English, even if it takes you a very long time and you choose to take your time with it, youâre doing a whole lot better than someone who just picks and chooses through a language and culture, and then somehow becomes a spokesperson for it.
TLDR: PSE is important and is a completely valid form of communication, but itâs becoming more common for people to abandon ASL in favor of PSE just because itâs easier. By doing this, youâre shortchanging yourself as a language learner and are diluting one of the most intricate and vibrant languages to ever exist. Your failed attempts at true ASL are beautiful and itâs okay if you have to take your time learning the language, just donât abuse PSE by using it as a get-out-of-jail-free card from all the more challenging aspects of ASL.
hi! this is my first post on this blog, and i'd like to introduce myself.
you can call me twelve (i'm not actually 12, don't worry.) i'm a british teenager living with mutism. i'm diagnosed selective but most likely have the progressive mutism subtype, meaning i'm completely unable to speak (yes, even if i'm on a beach in the bahamas with a packet of crisps, my best friend, and a piĂąa colada) so i primarily use British Sign Language to communicate. i like to swim and play music, i have atrociously bleached blonde hair, and i like peach aesthetics (as you can probably tell).
i'm hoping to educate people on mutism, the different types and causes, and how you can support us. i'll also likely talk a bit about my own struggles with being mute and living in a verbal world. i hope people will find this blog helpful! feel free to message me if you just want to chat or have any questions. âĄ