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A rant about those males who think only of themselves by Mrs. Claudia….

Why do some men think life is all about them? Why do they think that they are owed certain things because they supposedly love their Wives…

Then they think their Wives are prudish or not interested in D/s? These guys are total fucking losers. No matter what, they will not find fulfilment or happiness because it is all about them! Well what about their wives? Why shouldn’t it be also about them…

If these loser husbands have the audacity to think that as long as they say “Hey honey, I love you and I have been around for 20 years” that should be enough, then they have another thing coming! They say to themselves “Oh, come on baby, what’s your problem? I want to pretend to be submissive as long as you do exactly what I want you to do and I don’t have to do anything else but be the centre of the universe. Fuck you honey, it should be good enough that I grace you with my presence everyday. Don’t you know wifey, this marriage is all about me and what you can do for me! Let me tell you something, if you don’t do exactly what I want, when I want it, I will treat you even more like shit, ignore you completely and go off and live in some fantasyland where I can pretend to be at the mercy of some woman, just as long as she is also making everything about me.”

Men like this are so totally frickin’ pathetic it is scary. I feel so bad for their wives, these women could be married to someone who adores and appreciates them. These women could have everything they have ever dreamed of, if they would just kick these losers to the curb and actually find someone who would treat them like the Queens they are.

If there are any wives reading this and this is hitting close to home, I have this to say: YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN THIS. YOU DESERVE TO BE LOVED, CHERISHED AND ADORED. YOU DESERVE TOTAL ADORATION FROM THE MAN IN YOUR LIFE. YOU DO…

People think I hate internet fantasyland, and this proves why I do. These guys go and look at sites that make it all about them. They think that women want to go around giving endless attention to these pathetic men, without getting anything in return. Who the hell would want to do anything where they don’t get something out of it?

A man who thinks his wife will want to tease him daily, denying his orgasms and not give her anything back is totally living in a fantasyland. If the husband isn’t going to put his wife on a pedestal and make her feel attractive, adored and cherished, why does he think she will ever want to anything for him?

I am not even talking about having to live a supposed 24/7 D/s marriage.

Not everyone in this lifestyle wants it to be all the time. I am talking about making your wife feel like she did when you first met. I am talking about not taking her for granted and not making everything about you. When you married didn’t you say you would “Love, honour and cherish”? Did that go out the window the minute your wife had nothing left to give? Don’t you realise that you will end up happier in the end if you adore and cherish your wife?? Don’t you realise that she will want to take more control of you if you make her feel attractive and special? I guess not…

In my marriage, I feel loved and cherished. My husband makes me feel like I am his whole world, showing me respect and adoration. He doesn’t go around doing everything for me and he has his own personality. He gets a lot out of this marriage because he gives. By him giving to me, it gives me the energy and desire to give back to him. Women in general are very giving creatures, but they can’t give if they aren’t being replenished. That is the husbands job to replenish.

I guess I am done ranting and raving. I have one thing more to say to these men, stay in your little world, jacking off to thoughts of the whole world revolving around you and you not ever having to do anything but take, take, take… I can promise you that no woman, unless she is paid, will ever want to do anything remotely FLR with you…

You have nothing to give because you are a leach, sucking the very life out of your wives. Taking what you can and never giving anything back. You are right where you deserve to be - in a pathetic , miserable world.

I hope you are happy, loser…

Alright guys: it’s time to have YOUR SAY!

The first time and you feel awful.  It hurts you as he begs and tells you how much he needs it.  As he curses and his hand shakes as you make him put his cock away.  As he wheedles and tries to undermine your command and you aren’t so sure anymore this is what he wants, but you shore up and are firm and you tell him how it will be.  

It turns out he loves you for it.  It drives him mad.  Hearing stern rules almost makes him cum on the spot untouched.  Being denied fuels him in a way you can’t quite comprehend, and this first time as you fight guilt and relief in equal measure you don’t enjoy the power.

Oh but the next time… the next time you barely breathe in his direction and he’s hard?  You work him up with such little effort to the point where he tells you he needs to cum, asks you to cum… and this time you deny him with a smile.  This time the commands fly off your tongue.  This time wonderfully evil ideas spin through your mind and sorting through to pluck only one or two this time occupies far too much of your time.  You are soaked through.  

It is not just a no for now.  It is a no for the afternoon.  It is a no for the evening.  It is a no as you cum and he listens.  It is a no as you send him favorite porn of his.  It is a no as you let him choose what toy you will masturbate with.  It is a no as others tease him.  It is a no as you cum again.  A world of denial coming easily, and with each no his desperation is evident, but he doesn’t fight it.  He’s so grateful.  Drowning in lust and hotness and your attention.  Denied but not forgotten.  Allowed to edge and edge so pleasure builds, if not release.  

…. and even now, when his time limit has expired, his torment set to end, she breathes huskily in to his mouth. “Are you sure baby?….. are you sure? Do you really want all of this to end…. or, do you want more?”

He moans, he whimpers, his mind far too broken to be able to think clearly…. all that exists is her wickedly swirling hand, her lips so close, her breasts grazing his chest. “You can have more baby, all you have to do is ask…. tell me that you don’t want this to end…. not yet…. beg me to make you wait….”

To her delight he does exactly that. Mindless, incoherent, broken…. he begs for more as he sinks deeper…. pleading with her to make this sweet torment last…. to not release him from this sensual hell of desperation where he is now helplessly trapped.

Now, her triumph over him is complete…. his addiction to her unwavering. “Mmm hmm, yes baby….. I promise, you can have more…. so much more…..”