Orpheus Black

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To follow ones own submission is it's own life style choice and if our society is going to respect that choice then we have to better define what submission is so that we may create and facilitate dialogues about submission that are deeper and more meaningful. Dialogues that don't devolve into word prisons that shame, blame or rely on the A-typical buzzword correlations that plague it today. If submission is about letting go then all Submissive's should let go of the antiquated ideologies that prop-up the concepts of submission yet don't advance it. Submissive's as a community must not hold onto anything other than their desire to walk in accordance with their nature. They should make it a point to extol both the virtues and the hardships of emotional acquiescence and not just lament on those that chose to defile it. In my opinion, submission is not a curse. It's not a roll. It's not a fad. Submission, like the Tao, is a way of life that is meant to be lived... So embrace your submission and start living in accordance with your nature. #spiritualbdsm https://www.instagram.com/p/CD_u157p6TH/?igshid=1sl3unx9nc5wl

Loving dinner tonight. Its a deconstructed crab boil. Another amazing indigo dish. https://www.instagram.com/p/CD-azwKpkXN/?igshid=aqdgh93x6w3x

My latest drink creation called a Susanoo. It's Made with premium Japanese whisky ( Obishi $80 ) ginger liquor, the juice of one manderine, honey and topped with a splash of ginger ale. So good. https://www.instagram.com/p/CD5jbQWpnGO/?igshid=1s2wwk7gdg80f

Indigo killed it again. So full... https://www.instagram.com/p/CD5iSoOpBuV/?igshid=5holvl839rd

Just my thoughts. https://www.instagram.com/p/CDuAJTDpPm_/?igshid=1rfiw3d55y9qr

The ability to love and be loved is a perishable skill. So love as many people as you can and allow yourself to be loved by as many people as your heart will allow. For the more you love the easier it becomes to give love. Remember love should be a habituation and not a situation. https://www.instagram.com/p/CDovsvIJtrF/?igshid=1cox68i92d27k

It was important for me to start mounting my floggers and toys because they are an extension of my sexuality and they, like my sexuality, need to be fully integrated into both my home and my lifestyle. No more leaving parts of me in boxes. https://www.instagram.com/p/CDfx9hwJDSH/?igshid=1t6idegrjbbd0

Over the weekend Danielle Indigo Black Scamaldoand Dawn Daniels had a tea party for Jessica and it was adorable. They had Cucumber, Salmon and Turkey Sandwiches, lemon and chocolate scones, almond crescents this expensive blue tea from France. While I have had this amazing tea before it was some how made better by the bone China tea cups. The #covidcafe did another amazing moment. https://www.instagram.com/p/CDeei5ppe_G/?igshid=10sgxy2o7b9hq

Today, indigo made me more than a meal she made me a moment. Love her so much. https://www.instagram.com/p/CDX4z1UJL_C/?igshid=1k78xhjraq4r7

Strong, is how much you can lift. Strength, is how much you can endure. It is through strength that we become strong. https://www.instagram.com/p/CDPYXGPpaLL/?igshid=4a1wqr5o06ep

TOTALLY UNEXPECTED: For lunch indigo made me seared Ahi tuna in a sesame, seaweed and herb crust with fried shrimp and mini spring rolls. I am feeling so loved right now. https://www.instagram.com/p/CDPTJUBpo78/?igshid=19wsb870m5hci

I made dinner tonight. Shrimp and Grits: Grits cooked with heavy cream french cheese and spices. Topped with crispy honey shrimp. https://www.instagram.com/p/CDNa5qoJsrC/?igshid=1tclr6350lm16

Pain is not something that happens to you. It happens through you. Our entire being is the conduit by which all sensation is conceived and perceived. In the same way that we perceive what the mind has conceived during meditation, one has to let go of the pain as we would a stray thought. As with all the vibratory world pain, pleasure,sorrow happiness etc... doesn't belong to you. It is a naturally occurring phenomenon that manifests and then vanishes like a summer breeze. To try to take control of it would be like trying to harness mother nature herself. Both are nothing more than exercises in hubris. When we don't allow the pain to pass through us we begin to anthropomorphize the pain. It becomes a part of the liner narrative that is our life. In this way, the pain labels and defines our relationship with it and we take a back see to the story of our pain. This is a type of self inflicted victim-hood. So when you feel pain don't identify with it, don't quantify it, don't attribute any of your failures or success to it. Remember, pain is a wave that abruptly washes over you and then leaves... If you let it. - Orpheus Black #spiritualBDSM ( Thank you Julie Hartley for sending me the photo. I hope that you like what I have done with it. ) https://www.instagram.com/p/CDM7GmzJiZJ/?igshid=1if1n7nnbnddj

Ohhhhhb so full. The Covid Cafe. The girls killed. Fried cauliflower, English roasties string beans and fresh corn bread. https://www.instagram.com/p/CDIXzu_p8Ld/?igshid=wcy5m3lbcfhs

Indigo made this amazing dinner last night. Lobster, tuna... drool... https://www.instagram.com/p/CDHTs9_pzfg/?igshid=4tsml3tc82b9